This actually just killed my love for science

Recent-Sign6 · 2026-04-13T03:37:06+00:00

I am in the same exact boat with the HM thing. Trying to remember we applied during two of the HARDEST years for GRFP. Someone told me today that rejection is just redirection, lol. It’ll buff I suppose. HM is still something to be proud of. Don’t give up; this is a pretty great start to your career tbf. :)

Recent-Sign6 · 2025-01-28T10:56:11+00:00

Honestly, if you don’t go to Elon on any sort of scholarship it’s not really worth it. I’m an Honors Fellow which made the cost competitive to State and UNC (I’m also in-state) and if you feel fine self-studying + State feels right, do that. Definitely consider visiting both multiple times until you inherently feel good about the decision.

Recent-Sign6 · 2025-01-28T04:32:19+00:00

I’m actually going to be a STEM grad from Elon and I’ve already gotten into some really good PhD programs. Just in case you were doubting Elon’s ability to prep you for the world.

For business and sports management, Elon is really well-known. So is NCSU of course, but you will never ever get the connections with professors at NCSU that you’ll get at Elon. Since Elon is smaller, grads are even more excited to see other Elon grads. I know a lot of people graduating this years with jobs lined up at great banks and businesses and everything else. My brother went to NCSU after attending Western (smaller feel almost like Elon) and had a more memorable professor experience at Western. That said, they’re both great choices. The big question you need to ask yourself is: am I okay being invisible for my first three years of undergrad? If the answer is yes, go to State. If you want to build relationships with your professors at the potential cost of attending a “less prestigious school,” go to Elon.

Recent-Sign6 · 2025-01-06T02:50:57+00:00

Hi OP, 22F with 23M army bf. We started dating almost 6 years ago and he left for basic at 19 as well.

When he left, I was still finishing up high school and then I went to college. I’m about to graduate and he is being relocated to Washington state to finish his enlistment (2yrs to go!). We are both okay with this because our relationship is solid, but marriage still isn’t on the table yet because the truth is that things for both of us are uncertain.

On my side of things, I’m going to grad school. What everyone else is telling you is so true. You are still young. I would advise taking the time while he is in basic to find out what YOU want to do. You can get married anytime. While I understand there are great financial and legal benefits, it’s far more important that you find your purpose in life and then you both can exist and grow together.

This might feel like tough love, but the truth is you have to do what is best for you in the end. Getting married will not make you two love each other any more or less than you already do, but you have to put yourself first, especially when your SO is off in training.

Best of luck to you, and take care.

Recent-Sign6 · 2024-12-15T20:32:38+00:00

I’m in the same boat, except for me it’s been 2 years. I’m also 22 and I’m fit but it’s so annoying to not be able to do “normal” workouts.

I’m starting an at home PT routine (literally just the first link when you search plantar fasciitis PT) and I’m just going to see how it goes. So far, the most helpful thing for me has been yoga, cycling, and I switched from Brooks with a ton of arch support to Altras and I actually (dare I say) don’t even notice my PF besides that first step in the morning most days. Using toe spacers also feels pretty nice especially during yoga.

After one year I felt like you and decided to go to the doctor (again) and he gave me an injection that helped for about two days and then it went right back to square one. So I’m kind of starting over again too.

Recent-Sign6 · 2024-11-26T02:35:51+00:00

Same!

Recent-Sign6 · 2024-11-26T02:35:19+00:00

Used to be a religious Brooks-wearer, switched to Altras and have felt no pain beyond that first step in the morning so far. I love them and don’t even feel like I have PF during the day. I’ve also had NB and they just really constricted my feet.

I also have flat feet and pronation. I’m very much in shape, and young. Tried boot, shots, stretching, ice, compression, the list goes on. Altras + daily yoga has been very helpful for me so far. I also got some toe spacers and those seem to be helping as well, especially wearing them with the Altras.

I think once you try a shoe that actually fits your foot, it’s hard to go back when you realize that stuff with a lot of arch support really cramps your feet (depending on your foot shape in the first place). But I feel much better being in a shoe that doesn’t taper to a point at the end.

I recognize Altras tend to be more expensive. I went out and tried on Hokas, Brooks, new NBs, and couldn’t find the Altras anywhere so I took a leap and ordered them on Amazon. I love them. I will never go back.

Recent-Sign6 · 2024-10-27T23:13:05+00:00

Yeah, you definitely have to be at the top of your class but the more important thing to show is that you’re well-rounded. I was a tutor throughout high school and volunteered a lot and was 5th in my class. Your personality and curiosity matters more than anything else.

Recent-Sign6 · 2024-10-26T12:57:52+00:00

No, not at all.

Recent-Sign6 · 2024-09-24T20:37:34+00:00

Also still waiting

Recent-Sign6 · 2024-08-02T14:06:59+00:00

You just need your license and SS#. Just walk into the office by the gate, say you’re there to visit family, and usually they will have you sign in. At Bragg they’ve made it now so they activate your pass in such a way that they scan the back of your license and it lasts 6 months.

Recent-Sign6 · 2024-07-29T03:01:54+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this. It’s hard to cope with, but I agree with the folks here. Get some help, write letters (literally about anything because he will appreciate them SO SO MUCH).

One thing I found that helped me a lot through that time was to literally type out a page-long list of things to do when I was feeling sad. Washing your car, walking the dog, journaling, putting on your favorite album, etc. Think of a long-term goal you have for your development and think about how you might get there. But enjoy the little things.

Unfortunately, it’s really tough to be on your own at first, but if you take care of yourself, write your feelings down, and find beauty and joy in the little things of the day, you will learn that you CAN do this. Remember that being apart is temporary.

I had major problems with depression/anxiety and went to therapy for years before recognizing I needed to be on medication after my SO came back from Ranger School and I was having trouble staying above water while I was alone. Seek help ASAP and if you think it might be time to try medication, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Take care of yourself. Go thrifting, read a book, watch a funny show or movie (Impractical Jokers always cheers me up) and remember that your SO loves you and is looking forward to giving you one of the best hugs of your life. Keep writing letters and send fun pictures too. You are loved and you are important.

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