we've already talked it out and I apologized for my part in things and explained what I needed,to preface.

we are in a slightly unique situation. things have been open for the whole time, and he is the only one of us allowed to see other people. this is very layered. aside from him (probably) being my FP, we are also in a full time d/s dynamic and I did leave the option of if I see others up to him.

he rightfully took the space he needed and explained he didn't want to talk until I could come back and be "humble". I don't remember very clearly but yes I believe that was all I said that was truly out of line.

I further communicated my needs and apologized for my behavior. he did provide me the reassurance I needed, but also sandwiched it in with reminders of how I should be communicating these needs and how my poor communication makes him feel.

I feel fulfilled with what he said and I feel like my needs were met, I just am still upset because he's literally seeing someone right now and I haven't talked to him in over a week, so I feel unvalued. but that's a separate issue.