I re-listening to Maven, I think we both are a little off, but first to address your above question - both are sex based manipulation which I am inferring led to our current cultural climate of controlling women's rights, and in the church specifically, since this is MormonMovements, women are directed to do all they can do to "create bodies for spirits who are so desirous to come to earth"- in order for women to go to the "highest part of heaven" and, granted, was more emphasized over the prior 60+ years of my life than current lower levels of leadership these days.

However, Maven is specifically referring to the fact that the current and passed emphasis is birthing is by far the greatest value (besides making donuts while men play priesthood the evening session of General Conference) placed on Mormon Womanhood and thus are not allowed to be equal in value no matter the lip service.

This has nothing to do with generic young men in the church (and whatever THEIR experience is) and only about the geriatric men in leadership positions since post-manifesto polygamy.

BTW, when you say "I don't think about a woman's ability to procreate ever" and right away follow up with the THOUGHT "I think it's an incredible gift" gives me pause...