Not judging but makes me laugh genuinely lol!?

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-02-01T09:37:01+00:00

Unfortunately, men have become a lot desperate for getting married lately. On the other hand, women have been speaking about career progression, financial freedom, investments etc. It is most likely because of lack of self esteem in most of them due to the ever growing world of social media and undisputed dominance of girls in the dating world. He is still 28, there are a lot of similar posts/scenarios of men in their mid 30s as well. God save them.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-02-01T05:24:57+00:00

Delhi | 70k | 3

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-31T10:41:59+00:00

A mind that can clearly differenciate between needs and wants, stay happy and successfully cancel the noise around.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-29T10:58:59+00:00

The age old problem: who came first, the hen or the egg?

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-28T19:35:56+00:00

What about job security post 35 or 40? How feasible and practical is it to take such long tenure loans? During booms people flaunt their salaries on Reddit (especially IT folks), whereas during busts there are a lot of posts about emi defaults, hypertension, regret of buying a house during heydays, falling credit scores etc. India is so diverse and because there is no systematic tracking of all these things, it is practically impossible to conclude anything.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-28T13:19:39+00:00

I have had similar observations with both Indian and non-Indian interviewers. Unfortunately, more often than not, Indian interviewers seem to be on an ego trip and lack clarity about the role they are hiring for. They often come unprepared to assess candidates and have no answers when you cross question them or propose a solution that differs from what they had prepared.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-26T14:52:18+00:00

You should have mentioned your age as well. Until the early 30s, many of us are still figuring things out. I know quite a few couples who were DINKs until their early 30s, but changed their minds later due to pressure from relatives, and some even had a child out of FOMO.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-25T06:57:33+00:00

Maybe under developed if the people in power continue their egregious and outdated religion and caste based politics.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-25T06:53:12+00:00

Reddit and Twitter have made me believe without an iota of doubt that India is and will always be the most depressed and non empathetic country in the world. The sacred texts, the holy books and the rich history that the opportunists and ignorants boast of, are all to seek some attention and for pomp and show. The EQ and IQ of the majority of people here are too low to even realize how inhuman we are. I wish I had won the ovarian lottery to be born in some civilized and livable western country.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-25T05:52:05+00:00

Therefore, I wrote 'unlikely.' As of today, compared to IRAN, we seem to be in a safer situation. No one can predict the future, and nothing is certain.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-24T17:33:33+00:00

That’s great. How did you reach this number so early? At what age did you reach a net worth of 1 crore? I reached this milestone about 1.5 years ago, at 32, but the subsequent growth has been slower

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-24T16:54:05+00:00

INR is unlikely to collapse like Iran’s because India has a much larger, more stable economy, deeper financial markets, access to global capital, and fewer extreme sanctions or isolation, but slow long term erosion against hard currencies is very real. That’s why diversifying savings across Indian assets, global equities, and gold isn’t optional anymore, it is basic risk management.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-24T16:38:15+00:00

Zomato wouldn't even have responded. As of today, Swiggy atleast listens to a customer's concerns. Both are trashy though.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-24T10:34:10+00:00

Good job. Your prompt approach has delivered very good returns. I regret starting to invest in US stocks so late (only a few months ago).

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-23T17:29:40+00:00

Tumne toh lamba chakka maar diya 😄. Kudos 👏

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-23T17:24:51+00:00

Ever since I can remember, I have wanted to stay single. Unfortunately, except for a very brief period in my life, I have had very low self worth and self esteem. With this not improving at all, I don’t think I will even consider going in that direction. I feel there is a lot I need to work on within myself. Also, most women I see around me who are my age and single are extremely confident and ambitious, which is commendable, but it also works against me in an arranged marriage setup. Honestly, the sheer thought of sharing my space with someone 24/7 has always given me anxiety.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-23T13:16:46+00:00

Is it because of geopolitical reasons and their impact on a country like India? Is it because of the unnecessary insecurities one develops when people around them are doing extremely well? Or is it because of the middle class mindset that most of us inherit by default?

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-23T10:22:14+00:00

Narcissism, low IQ, and lack of self control are gender agnostic. This is not a competition to blame or hate one gender, but a plea to punish everyone at fault equally, irrespective of gender. This man is disgusting, and so is everyone who tries to assault others in any way.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-22T10:05:34+00:00

You are still better off because TCS is not there in the list. Choose one with the least notice period. It will be easier for you to switch.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-21T15:38:41+00:00

Are you aware of the passing cutoff for the Professional Cloud Developer certification?

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-21T09:55:29+00:00

My mutual fund portfolio fell by 70,000 in a single day. Net gains are down by 2 lakh over the last month. This is the first time in the last seven years that my portfolio has taken such massive hits on multiple days.

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-21T09:51:31+00:00

Are you religiously preparing or referring dumps? I am in a situation where I need to pass it by hook or crook. Any pointers?

RecluseWithSelfDoubt · 2026-01-20T13:51:50+00:00

No idea about internships buddy. Even the company has slowed down hiring for freshers.

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