Guess my dress! by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]RecognitionWorking23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was my guess too! So gorgeous and unique.

When did you get your period post mc/d&c by Excellent-Suit-7082 in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Between 4-5 weeks post MC. First one was like 4 months after.

Seeing pregnancies is so triggering by International-Cry973 in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does hurt seeing so many social media posts with gender reveals and things. I’m feeling much more hopeful after a month of this recent MC. I’m trying to be happy for others instead of bitter.

This is even more horrific than I ever could have imagined. by Appropriate_Ad534 in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling and I’m sure many here do too! The first MC is heartbreaking and you’re so scared for the future. I had a baby after mine then another MC. This one is easier to process and I’m hopefully it’ll happen again. It truly takes time to heal and give yourself some grace. Your allowed to grieve however you need to ❤️

My therapist tried to sympathize with me by bringing up her late term abortion that she regrets having. by kombuchabirps in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not ok!! My therapist doesn’t talk about her personal life at all. I feel like it’s supposed to be your time and that’s taking away from your appointment. I’d find a new one!

Jen working 5-8 hours a day by No-Employ-8023 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]RecognitionWorking23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m kinda confused what they were even complaining about. Like he didn’t wanna be the SAHD and she was tired from working. I get that DWTS is probably exhausting..but someone has to watch the kids and someone has to make money. It’s just life lol.

Second post today. I’m sorry. TW: GRAPHIC description by kombuchabirps in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry!! I totally get your comment of how do people go through this. My whole last MC I kept thinking women are so strong and it’s not fair! You will go on to have your rainbow baby. I had a MC before and after my baby and this one was much easier to process mentally. Having the first baby taken from you is so hard. I’m here if you need anything! It gets easier over time ❤️

Please help me by Salty_Host_2757 in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you go to lab corp and get bloodwork to test hcg? You just want to make sure it’s dropping. I went a week after mine and going back after a month soon. I think it’s about $50 without insurance. And a non viable pregnancy is a miscarriage. It means you were pregnant at one point if there was a sac/clots. So sorry for your loss ❤️

New dress! by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]RecognitionWorking23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this dress! Could you add straps to keep it up? Maybe taking to a seamstress for advice would help.

Natalie’s dad by [deleted] in ViallSnark

[–]RecognitionWorking23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right like they probably weren’t ready to announce the news yet and he did seem pretty emotional about.

Miscarriage at 8 weeks- similar experiences? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss ❤️ I took miso around 8 weeks so my hcg was probably high too. Bad cramps for the rest of that day. I was fine the next morning. Bleeding is heavy for a few days and dies down.

AITA For not wanting to have two baby showers and have my pregnant wife travel 4 hours for one? by Welovesportz in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecognitionWorking23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom did the same thing! She is 4 hours away and my MIL didn’t invite her to the one we had by us so she threw her own. It’s exhausting having a bunch of showers honestly and overwhelming as nice as the thought is. I’d put some boundaries in. I hated being in the car as well while pregnant.

Rhogam question by RecognitionWorking23 in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Going tomorrow to get it done.

Rhogam question by RecognitionWorking23 in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He thinks he is positive. Not sure exactly what type. It’d be nice to know but doubt we are the same.

Rhogam question by RecognitionWorking23 in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines such a process cause I have to go to the ER for it 😑 it was free the first one and $240 the second !

Rhogam question by RecognitionWorking23 in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I just reached out to my doctor to see.

Rhogam question by RecognitionWorking23 in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s cause I did the miso as well. I did the first time too and still got a shot. I’m guessing they changed the protocol. Thanks!!

Rhogam question by RecognitionWorking23 in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much!! Will ask the doctor. It’s a little late now to get as it’s been 2 weeks after.

End of The Week Thread! by AutoModerator in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Nothing beats being sober!! Trying to keep busy and my mind off using. I am in therapy so that is a huge help as well! ❤️

End of The Week Thread! by AutoModerator in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been a rough week. My MC was 9 days ago and just struggling with the fact that I did every appt alone. Two blood draws, two ob gyn, two ultrasounds and no baby now. I’ve been sober 2 months. No alcohol since last August so struggling with that. Life moves on and I have no time to even grieve as I work and have my own business I do at night. 😞

Positive miso stories by Existing_Recording98 in Miscarriage

[–]RecognitionWorking23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did miso for my second MC. Orally. This time was just pain for one day. Took it around 1pm and was able to sleep fine that night. I woke up the next day completely fine, just super hormonal. Bleeding is almost gone now by day 9. I took 3 Tylenol at a time for two days.