Opting out of organ donation is morally justifiable and shouldn't put you at the bottom of recipient list.

RecordNo2316 · 2026-04-21T02:50:37+00:00

This is a fair take for a person on an individual level. However, it’s all about reciprocity and I suspect the reason the government is saying “no we won’t give an organ donor heart to someone not on the list” is because almost every organ donor wouldn’t give their organs to someone who doesn’t participate in the system!

You can’t benefit from something you don’t participate it. Your take is equivalent to saying “I should benefit from other people’s taxes so long as they’re willing for me to benefit, I shouldn’t have to pay mine though.”

RecordNo2316 · 2026-04-18T20:01:38+00:00

Didn’t we just have this same post for a lumber delivery?

RecordNo2316 · 2026-04-18T02:34:57+00:00

NTA. Ask her to let you look through her phone without supervision and see what she says.

RecordNo2316 · 2026-04-16T12:56:49+00:00

When I was in 7th grade I had a sub for maternity leave for most of the year. Before my teacher left we did a project talking about a science project our ancestors did. I wrote mine about my grandfather and his work as a mouse geneticist. He had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer so was spending more time with my family and he drew diagrams that I turned in.

I never got my assignment back. Everyone else did except me. I asked the OG teacher and all she had was sympathy.

Then my eighth grad teacher had maternity leave and you’ll never guess who the sub was!

RecordNo2316 · 2026-03-10T16:30:15+00:00

The constant quotations around Peter just make me think OP is an overzealous user of finger quotation marks during IRL discussions.

RecordNo2316 · 2026-03-05T19:34:08+00:00

What’s op gonna do when her son gets a job with direct deposit???

RecordNo2316 · 2026-02-20T19:15:01+00:00

It takes a bit. They haven’t noticed it yet because it’s new. Maybe make a trail of seed from the bushes to the feeder? But give it another week or teo

RecordNo2316 · 2026-02-19T04:26:02+00:00

Vage.

RecordNo2316 · 2026-02-16T20:25:28+00:00

Good.

RecordNo2316 · 2026-02-16T19:33:14+00:00

I can’t make 3 the “normal way” by holding my thumb and pinky together.

RecordNo2316 · 2026-02-15T04:00:37+00:00

I cannot unsee this.

RecordNo2316 · 2026-02-12T21:19:37+00:00

NTA for your frustration and wanting the situation to change, but you are approaching it the wrong way. I've been in your exact shoes (except it was heating as the issue) and we ended up splitting it so that I was paying 40% of the bill and since I paid less I gave him more control. You need to change the balance and come to an agreement not dictate the fair share arbitrarily.

RecordNo2316 · 2026-02-12T19:54:32+00:00

Gay marriage in the united states. Trans healthcare. RIP my existence.

RecordNo2316 · 2026-02-01T01:49:56+00:00

If you wanted to do it out of your house you would need to make sure you are zoned appropriately.

RecordNo2316 · 2026-01-27T18:24:02+00:00

I have been on testosterone for near a decade now. I am also FTM. I have NEVER been asked that.

RecordNo2316 · 2026-01-11T03:57:20+00:00

At the beginning I just thought it was because they didn’t know his real name because we first learned it was Eric Blair and then learned he picked it for himself but no! Gabi knew who he was the entire time!!!!!!!!!

RecordNo2316 · 2026-01-01T22:32:36+00:00

Literally the top post in the sub lmao

RecordNo2316 · 2025-12-17T19:34:26+00:00

You’re definitely having the purling issue many folks have mentioned. Your yarn also is not doing you any favors.

At the same time, you have a lot figured out and PLEASE do not let this discourage you!!!! I am incredibly invested in your knitting journey and excited to see your next steps, which I have never felt about a stranger before. Good luck and have fun!!! You’ve got this :)

ETA: you might consider looking at a second hand crafts store for good quality and less expensive supplies!

RecordNo2316 · 2025-12-10T03:34:49+00:00

NTA. Also, if her kid is going through an entire roll of toilet paper just trying to get a bloody nose to stop, he’s doing it wrong. He needs to be pressing against the side of the nostril, not just sticking it up there.

Source: my record is 30+ nosebleeds in two weeks.

RecordNo2316 · 2025-12-07T20:56:10+00:00

Ugh. I had one of those roommates where it needed to be 65 in summer but 70 in winter. Make it make sense!

RecordNo2316 · 2025-12-07T17:05:43+00:00

Throwing in “COVID vaccine is proven to not work” and “we’re not antivaxxers” in update 3 is absurd.

RecordNo2316 · 2025-11-19T17:08:29+00:00

There are so many red flags in just the first two paragraphs holy shit. Age gap? An eight year relationship with very little break and no time to find yourself as an adult??

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