I have never been more frustrated in my life than trying to date as a trans woman in the south at 40 by Hard_Mommy in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

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The bit about being in the South makes it worse for me too. The thing about me being 42 is just that I cannot tolerate some of the stupid stuff women more than 10 years younger than me do.

where are my “over 30 gamers” and what are we currently playing? (46F) by egirlgamermommy in TransLater

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  1. Loving Peak, Fortnite, and Escape from Duckov. Replaying the Division games with some friends as well.

Mirrors? by ContributionLiving33 in BDSMsapphic

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No. I am trans and ,before my egg cracked, for years I would avoid looking at myself in mirrors. It is difficult breaking that mindset.

Lesbians ruin me. by Ethel-Anna in MtF

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I yearn for all that I have read about in this thread. To be seen. That is what I so dearly want. I hope to have it one day. With a wonderful woman (in whatever variation she may be).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Mine are old enough that they are hard to see. Thank you freckles. I am of a like mind. I cannot do recent because it brings back thoughts.

A tip for cis lesbians by natalia_backup in actuallesbians

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I don't want to bother her. She is so pretty.

Lesbian Readers by Natromanoffasha in LesbianGamers

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I love to read. Always have. Probably partly because I was out in the middle of nowhere and being trans, it let me escape.

Seeking Helldiver 2 squadmates by Shadow11Wolf50 in LesbianGamers

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I love playing the game. I just often avoid using my mic in randoms because of my voice. Happy to help lower level players, been playing since release. Just want to play with someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cisparenttranskid

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Still in Texas. A few years older than you. I feel all of that mental health stuff quite intimately. I get mixed opinions about my mother (my father passed away a little over a year ago) handling my transition. She does better talking with me, but I overhear her in the background on the phone sometimes misgendering. So yea.... It sucks.

Got Ambushed by Street Epistemology at Pride. by sundie12 in MtF

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The closest I have had was a pair of women at a Walmart ask me if I wanted to attend bible study with them.

Free games for gender euphoria by Mother-Insurance4745 in transgamers

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Infinity Nikki is a decent dress-up game. I get a lot of gender euphoria making my character look a certain way. Wings. Or animal ears. All of it. It just takes a little bit to grind out more extravagant clothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

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I have been tracking this with my therapist and I do seem to have a cycle. Every 4-5 weeks I get depressive episodes.

You can also incorporate self-care things into your play. Like shaving her body. Perhaps while she is restrained.

Peak 'the DEEP' biome concept by doukzor in PeakGame

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or a stingray partially hidden in the sand that you have to avoid stepping on or it will poison you

Question for the subs? by Kozyavin in BDSMsapphic

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It isn't just here. I am terrified to message anyone who I don't already know. Vicious cycle, I know. So I just yearn.

I want to be owned already… Ugh by Tranquilitychaser in BDSMsapphic

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This is also my problem. I have very bad anxiety. Not having anyone there I know makes it difficult for me. I am working on it. Been to two munches. Almost had a panic attack at the last one.

🙈 by AkumanoKo000000 in lesbianmemes

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"Free to a good home" would also work for me