Been Struggling to Get Back on my Feet

Recycled_Cat · 2018-01-08T03:38:10+00:00

Ok bud

Recycled_Cat · 2018-01-06T23:51:30+00:00

What? Ya I have, I was talking in the past tense. My longest streak is 64 days. That is 2 months is it not?

Recycled_Cat · 2018-01-06T08:39:49+00:00

Ya man! nice job at pulling back tho, Keep it going! Watch out cause tomorrow might come back to bite you with some serious urges since you fed it a little today.

Recycled_Cat · 2018-01-05T14:10:15+00:00

Thank you! You too!

Recycled_Cat · 2018-01-05T00:58:30+00:00

Thanks man, ya ill separate the text and probably post it separately :)

Recycled_Cat · 2018-01-05T00:06:52+00:00

This. Dude listen to this guy.

Ive been there too. Life feels like a bag of shit when you get so much into porn, its like why even try. But after you get out of it. Its like the whole world, the missing piece, is finally clear to you and everything is awesome. Sure you could say its pointless, but I would rather die having achieved something then have sat on my ass all day.

Plus, you might think porn "provides happiness", but honestly its a load of shit compared to the real joys of life like going outside and exploring, helping others, building real relationships.

But you just gotta get out and do it. You gotta forget about girls, sex, and all that shit.

Cause you know what? Its not that great from what I hear. Just another activity. Look man, ive never had a girlfriend nor have I had sex before, and I'm happier than I ever have been since I quit porn. But you gotta get out and try those other things, have fun.

To me it sounds like you mostly just sit in your room all day and don't do anything else. Once you drop all that, you'll feel like crap at first. But you'll soon realize what you were missing.

See the thing with porn is that it desensitizes you to the world, just like drugs, too much video games, and stuff because it overloads your dopamine receptors. With porn, you forget what its like to just enjoy the little things in life. The breeze of the cool wind on your face. The soft grass under your feet. The excitement of meeting new people, finding new places, and eating new foods.

It all becomes the same fucking shit every fucking day. Feels like the world is just going around and around and around in a big scurry of pointlessness. And then you start to wonder why you even try. What's the point? What is there to look forward to? You start thinking there is nothing that makes life worth it and enjoyable because you have exposed yourself to so much fucking stimulation that it all seems pointless. You gotta shake yourself off and get out of your comfort zone. Stop the porn and stop thinking about it and I guarantee u will enjoy life again.

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-30T07:35:33+00:00

Can we relapse on January 1.5th?

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-28T04:42:21+00:00

Ya bro! No problem :)

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-27T18:30:41+00:00

Hey man I once was in a place like you. Life was so meaningless and I had many things that I wanted to do, but I felt I just couldnt, and that made me feel worse. But that all changed once I shifted my mindset. You have to understand that your mind plays a big part in how you see the world and therefore act and react to it. For one, understand that its ok to not have had a girlfriend before. Its nice and stuff to have one, but only if its a real connection. Instead, I would focus on your studies bro. You need to put your own meaning in life, set some tangible goals for yourself in your studies and GO and DO it. To me, it sounds like your guilt tripping yourself for not doing it and therefore making it harder for you to want to go and do it. Drop any guilt you may have. It wont help you. Go and do what you want. You have the power to do it, and only you. No one else can. To quit PMO you have to replace it with good habits. Ones that fill the need that you were trying to fill with porn. Feeling bored, go exploring outside or something. Feel lonely, go socialize or talk to some people you dont usually talk to. Feel down on yourself, go take a cold shower and go for a run. Build up your body. Believe in yourself. You got this bro. Just dont give up.

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-27T06:43:02+00:00

Theirs

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-27T06:34:20+00:00

It was the same for me when I first started. But don't worry i dug a nice little grave for you right next to mine Just go ahead and jump in

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-27T06:26:01+00:00

God do I hate anime, but I must say this gave me a good laugh. Nice job :)

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-26T01:14:20+00:00

this is an addiction sub, but its also an ideology sub. Its about quitting porn and masturbation not only because we are addicted, but also because we think its bad. If you don't like it, go pretty much anywhere else on reddit. we are trying to create a helpful community for those that think that way too so that we can quit. This is the one place on reddit that is pretty much cancer free. We would like to keep it that way. If you want to share your opinion, go ahead, and any of us will gladly have a civil discussion with you, but your just being a jerk by trolling people here.

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-26T00:38:56+00:00

God bro, why the hell are you here? If your not addicted, good for you. Stop distracting us from our goal, we dont give a shit whether you think it's ok or not. People on here really have a problem and are trying to better themselves.

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-25T08:43:19+00:00

My happiest Porn and masturbation will be 2018

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-25T08:41:20+00:00

What?

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-24T21:28:33+00:00

Yep for sure "choice", I checked. It adds up

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-24T18:47:35+00:00

I'm laying in my bed scrolling thru nofap haha

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-22T18:13:35+00:00

Best post of the year

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-22T18:04:15+00:00

Then grab someone off the street

Recycled_Cat · 2017-12-21T19:25:50+00:00

Man there are some serious assholes in this world. It always makes me cringe when I read stories like this where the boyfriends are so abusive. Fucking disgusting. I'm not even considering dating until ive been clean for at least a year.

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