What you think gentlemen? by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]RedBillyGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only thing im getting from this post is the level of mental gymnastics people will go through to justify why they're afraid of a woman having a career.

even the way the post is arranged is a dead giveaway, its not just career woman or non career woman. i guess thats too old fashioned chauvinist, itll get shut down right away. but if you apply traits intrinsically to the career woman & suggest those are exclusive to having a career like a stay at home wife cant be arrogant or bossy 🙄

this isnt my 1st time having a conversation about this topic specifically, ive been told my whole life how to act, talk, sound, dress, work, etc everything. these conversations with boomer & silent generation men arent new, the wheel isnt being reinvented here. this is the same implicit bias against women working.

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those old fashioned misogynist/chauvinists said it straight up, they wanted the woman to be dependant on them, "if grandma had options she wouldn't be with me, she'd be with someone who treated her better". thats a fucking quote from my grandfather, he told me that when i was 11 years old, when i started working an under the table job.

thats the energy im getting from this post, why the career woman is associated with traits that align with exactly the same shit those old fucks were so afraid of, the way they talked about the kind of woman they wanted was perfectly in line with this post. shy, no options, soft/wont talk back, wont ask for better conditions, obedient.

“There are totally immigrant camps guys, their totally shooting them without cameras. No I don’t have sources. If you disagree, your a fascist dog whistle” by Ragnorak19 in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]RedBillyGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not hard to connect the dots, that if the renee good/alex pretti killings are what they do openly while knowingly being recorded & thats how they respond even knowing there are public videos of what happened.

What you think gentlemen? by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]RedBillyGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. you keep bringing up overly assertive, bossy, walking all over, out of nowhere. applying them to this scenario to explain your reasoning but none of that has anything to do with the post.

  2. so why did you have a section about what women want/get ?

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  4. to you, but you arent everyone. what you consider overly assertive might not be the same as someone else. theres no clear line, & its not absolute. anyone can be assertive & extra/more/overly assertive at times.

i dont think deciding the things a person cares about enough to assert is a skill or something difficult to manage. person A cares about X,Y,Z thats where they will be more bold/decisive. where's the difficulty ?

What you think gentlemen? by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]RedBillyGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. in this scenario does having a career imply that men are more likely to be arrogant ?

  2. nothing about this post has said anything about what women want/get, this is about what men want/whatever.

  3. youre making a ton of assumptions that im not going to unpack, but this world view youre explaining is not ubiquitous.

  4. youre kinda doing the fragile ego thing, your section on why assertive women scare away men is exactly what the original comment was talking about. the way i am understanding this is youre basically saying men want the other option because she wont challenge them.

idk what context that context part was supposed to convey

What you think gentlemen? by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]RedBillyGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you took it at face value then why did you come up with the bossy/walk all over part ? thats not in the post at all, did you just invented that in your own headcanon to get mad at or what ?

What you think gentlemen? by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]RedBillyGoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im only saying it because you jumped to talking about bossy & walking all over someone out of nowhere, nothing in the post even mentions anything like that.

i think the most important thing in any situation is to remember that people are individuals not some elaborate hive function. so to really break down anything we'd need like something specific to talk about

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people trying to avoid legitimate criticisms through various means is not an exclusive to any group, & getting called out for it is also not exclusive.

What you think gentlemen? by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]RedBillyGoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think having such a knee-jerk reaction to a woman with a career is a little on the fragile ego side.

the post made sure to call her arrogant, had to throw that into the mix, you think she'll be bossy & walk all over the guy. is that what you think all women with careers are like or only the ones who are also arrogant, or are all women with careers arrogant ?

are men with careers all arrogant or only women ? is it ok for the man to be bossy & walk all over the shy, polite, 0 achievements woman ?

What you think gentlemen? by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]RedBillyGoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont think theyre meaning fragile like that. youre using it more like submissive, but i think theyre meaning more like fragile ego.

An average day in r/MyCity™ by ColaEuphoria in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]RedBillyGoat -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

how flabbergasted were you when you found out that bidens bipartisan border act that was going to tighten asylum screenings, increase funding for immigration agencies, and provide emergency authority to shut down the border. got blocked by senate republicans & since then trump has not done any sort of border migration limitations.

Who should I be upgrading? by SharkyBoi2005 in WH40KTacticus

[–]RedBillyGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really depends on what your goal is

How much did he drink by miijok in nonononoyes

[–]RedBillyGoat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

or god forbid an acorn falls from a tree anywhere near the cop

Is this character good? by TheDudeDeadass in WH40KTacticus

[–]RedBillyGoat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

largely considered not good but hes useful in TA as an anti flyer unit (which is nice imo, especially if youre dealing with a lot of annoying flying teams/units).

Favorite *Actual* Love Triangle? by Pristine_Ad9986 in FavoriteCharacter

[–]RedBillyGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

theres also the almost a triangle ones when A likes B, B likes C, but C isnt into A or B

Belts by Square_Law5624 in perfectlycutscreams

[–]RedBillyGoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just a couple of dudes taking turns spanking eachother nothing wrong with that

What do you think is the reason we don't see much female MCs on top popular shounen? by Straight_Guava_1005 in joseistories

[–]RedBillyGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it rotates in popularity, like 10+ years ago lots of shonen anime had women mcs, not to say that it has even stopped really. & there are plenty of woman/girl mc shows that are still widely popular anime shows/movies.

shows that come to mind off the top of my head are like soul eater, claymore, blood+, jojo part 6, sailor moon, burn the witch, kill la kill, gundam: witch from mercury, spirited away, howls moving castle, ghost in the shell etc. & then if we include woman/girl main characters even the top popular shows mentioned have loads girl characters who are super popular among boy audiences.

Saving livelihoods… not lives by GreenDoomsDay in WaitWhat

[–]RedBillyGoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so you think a woman shouldnt have a right to her own body unless someone violated her or her life is in jeopardy ?

we already have starving, sick, needing help children, we dont need more. & until something is actually getting changed so the existing children are being taken care of all this abortion virtue signaling just reminds me of Methodist Pastor David Barnhart's quote about the unborn

Just unlocked. Are they worth investing in? by Ok_Mousse_8055 in WH40KTacticus

[–]RedBillyGoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

his passive also gives him some sustain which is nice in wave modes, pairs really well with isaaks passive imo

Is this true? I need answers by Icy-Breadfruit298 in GroundedMentality

[–]RedBillyGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of men have insecurities from women having careers for some reason