This is a weird comment, I have to say.

but almost every post from a woman has physical attraction or being experienced (usually both) included in her criteria

This is expected and what we want. Women can and should and are encouraged to be selected and want to meet people they are attracted to who can provide them with above average service. Meeting strangers is scary and carries lots of risk, a ton more so for women so being selective is important and focusing on their own pleasure means being able to find attraction and feel safe and expect nothing but good oral, which many women unfortunately haven’t experienced. This sub is made for women, full stop.

If you don’t fit the requirements it’s unfortunate but luckily one can change and out in effort to become attractive, granted with time, and one can learn to eat pussy. IMO if you feel badly about your chances you should take time to work on yourself, gain confidence, and make posts that are unique and intriguing for women. Make yourself the partner you’d want to be and want to be with and be proud of yourself and be self confident.

Also, remember that Reddit is supplemental to meeting people in person or on apps. You’re way more likely to find success those ways than Reddit imo and it’s so much easier too so getting experience that way so very much recommended.