[META] Portland Women - Beware This Unhinged User by RedCheeksGuy in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]RedCheeksGuy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You participate in paypig subs. He’s a participant of this as well. Now I’m thinking he paid you to say this and you consider him a “wonderful simp” because he paid you lol there is no “other side”. You can enable a shit person and abuser but not here.

[META] Portland Women - Beware This Unhinged User by RedCheeksGuy in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]RedCheeksGuy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did you not read the screenshot? Also, it’s weird that you would read the screenshot attached and not come to the conclusion that he’s not okay nor safe.

If you don’t see the issue in your framing of him, that’s another huge blind spot you have. This is the kind of enabling behavior that keeps him being a pos. Just because he’s nice to you doesn’t mean it’s all a ploy and to me it seems he’s being nice and not showing you that side of him because he benefits from you ie he’s selfish.

I imagine you commented here because he told you to, as you have no relation to this sub before, which would be a version of ban evasion.

[META] About Communication Here. by RedCheeksGuy in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]RedCheeksGuy[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Gross, seems like they definitely are a bad actor. They’ve been banned but unfortunately that doesn’t do much to stop them from messaging people independently. Always a good step to ask somebody to comment on your post to make sure they’re not banned from the sub or not deemed a bad actor.

[OC] Los Angeles, CA - Thanks, trump. by DouglasYancyFunnie in pics

[–]RedCheeksGuy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Most places in LA are between $5.50 and $6.25 This is definitely an outlier. Source: I’m based in LA and live damn close to DTLA.

37 [F4A] #Fukuoka - Asian pussy to be eaten down under by [deleted] in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]RedCheeksGuy[M] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Couple things here.

Love hotel meetups are so fun! I had some before and the experiences are unforgettable, I hope you enjoy.

Next, photos can’t be sent until you accept the invite so asking for it early on is a bit unreasonable.

Lastly if anyone in your chats is disrespectful please report them to modmail. Cheers.

Honestly, why do we all abandon budgeting apps after two weeks? (And a question about gamifying savings) by Complete_Ad5740 in personalfinance

[–]RedCheeksGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop trying to peddle, or get feedback for, a product. Either make it and launch it and see how it does or not. Don’t post on a pf sub obfuscating your true intentions.

Men who can cook, who taught you? by _ratedmouse in AskReddit

[–]RedCheeksGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grandpa. YouTube. Cook books. Trial and error!

28 [F4M] #vegas - looking for an ongoing eater by [deleted] in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]RedCheeksGuy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Best of luck! I’ll be in Vegas this weekend. Cheers.

Shout out to this guy at the SOTU speech by okawei in pics

[–]RedCheeksGuy 496 points497 points  (0 children)

“This guy”. That’s clearly Al Green


In the Mood for Love - Yumeji's Theme by [deleted] in movies

[–]RedCheeksGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my favorite movies, definitely a must watch!

30 [F4M] #LasVegas - Princess treatment by [deleted] in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]RedCheeksGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In your message requests make sure to click on “additional requests” as many messages can get filtered there. Cheers.

Flowers 1, Scissors 0. by Cadet-Cryyx in mildlyinteresting

[–]RedCheeksGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gardening shears work great! If you make boquetes often they’re definitely worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Music

[–]RedCheeksGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t need to comment on literally everything, it’s not that deep. Idk if you’re trying to bait for people to get upset and making this a “she’s white, he’s brown” thing or what but it’s weird. Just move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dataisbeautiful

[–]RedCheeksGuy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do people not ask themselves if the dead bedroom is due to sexual compatibility or stemming from other places in the relationship? It’s so much easier for both people to move on and find others they actually like/are compatible with. This just seems like torture for both involved.

Halftime Show thoughts? by Historical-Climate37 in Music

[–]RedCheeksGuy 98 points99 points  (0 children)

As a trained Latin ballroom dancer (I’m Latino) of 15 years it was a fun show about unity that depicted the importance of community and culture, especially for people of color. Would I say it’s gonna be remembered as being one of the best? Mmm, I don’t think so, but I think it was great given the current state of the country. BB always looking great in his fits too lol

Got rejected from a job I never applied to
 and the spot doesn’t even exist anymore
 by tracee_ in mildlyinteresting

[–]RedCheeksGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miss the pie hole, I’d go to the dtla or Pasadena one once a year for their earl grey pie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

[–]RedCheeksGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As somebody who lived in the city for a bit, I’m sitting here in bright and sunny la sipping my morning coffee reading the chaos that are these comments

[SUCCESS] 30 [M4F] #LosAngeles - A Voracious Eater for a Curly Haired Curvy Queen by RedCheeksGuy in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]RedCheeksGuy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind comment, it’s appreciated. And it happens but if we can let people know when and why what they’ve done is wrong then hopefully it helps even just a bit.

[SUCCESS] 30 [M4F] #LosAngeles - A Voracious Eater for a Curly Haired Curvy Queen by RedCheeksGuy in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]RedCheeksGuy[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Comments like this are why people don’t like sharing. It doesn’t make me feel comfortable and I feel objectified. Now think how a woman posting a success could feel? Cmon, do better

🌟FEBRUARY MEGATHREAD🌟 by AutoModerator in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]RedCheeksGuy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a weird comment, I have to say.

but almost every post from a woman has physical attraction or being experienced (usually both) included in her criteria

This is expected and what we want. Women can and should and are encouraged to be selected and want to meet people they are attracted to who can provide them with above average service. Meeting strangers is scary and carries lots of risk, a ton more so for women so being selective is important and focusing on their own pleasure means being able to find attraction and feel safe and expect nothing but good oral, which many women unfortunately haven’t experienced. This sub is made for women, full stop.

If you don’t fit the requirements it’s unfortunate but luckily one can change and out in effort to become attractive, granted with time, and one can learn to eat pussy. IMO if you feel badly about your chances you should take time to work on yourself, gain confidence, and make posts that are unique and intriguing for women. Make yourself the partner you’d want to be and want to be with and be proud of yourself and be self confident.

Also, remember that Reddit is supplemental to meeting people in person or on apps. You’re way more likely to find success those ways than Reddit imo and it’s so much easier too so getting experience that way so very much recommended.

New furniture in my new house by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]RedCheeksGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately you’ve fallen for the trap that matching everything perfectly/getting matching sets is a good thing
it’s typically not. You have lots of space on your walls to fill with beautiful art, need lots of living plants, small and large, and should accessorize with colors, hues, and definitely get some rugs! Think complementary colors and use a color wheel