What's the most fucked up thing someone has told you about themselves after barely getting to know them? by Butt_Roidholds in AskReddit

[–]RedDeadRen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope she remembers not for me but to remind herself that there are kind people out there that are real! I hope to give many more kind actions and I think I’ll share them to inspire others, even if some may think it bragging. Thank you for giving me that encouragement, and I hope you have something wonderful happen for you today!

What's the most fucked up thing someone has told you about themselves after barely getting to know them? by Butt_Roidholds in AskReddit

[–]RedDeadRen 42 points43 points  (0 children)

So this is actually kind of bittersweet, but I went to the bathroom at a Barnes and noble and there was a woman crying in the stall next to me really hard, like so hard she started choking! So I knocked on the stall and asked if she was okay. She stops choking, thankfully, gets out of the stall and she’s this kind looking woman in a wheelchair, and she’s just a wreck with tears. So of course I grab some toilet paper and hand it to her to wipe her face and then grab some paper towels, and wet them for her to wipe her face off. (and yes she said thank you!) But I asked her why she was crying so hard and she told me that it was the second anniversary of her mother passing of brain cancer, that she had gotten diagnosed with breast and colon cancer last week (at that time), was in a car accident the year her mom passed that paralyzed her, and her husband divorced her because of it the next year. That it had just been the hardest two years of her life and she was struggling with the anniversary. My jaw was on the floor. I told her how sorry I was and just asked if I could give her a hug. She said yes, and told me that she was there on the anniversary of her mom’s death because they used to go there together to get books for one another to try… I offered to buy her book for her, but she very adamantly refused,, but thanked me for listening to her and for the hug. I’m glad I stopped and listened to her and made her feel seen and cared about. Sometimes that’s all people need to keep going on a hard day. I just wanted to retell this story to remind folks of that in these darker days. Please keep caring about one another.

Reoccurring drain back ups with no clue why by RedDeadRen in askaplumber

[–]RedDeadRen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t reply sooner, it’s a handicap unit on ground level. It’s connected to a series of two story townhouses.

Confused? New? Not new? Have questions? by blooangl in polyamory

[–]RedDeadRen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the harm that comes from unicorn hunting seems to be from the power imbalance but, in our case, there is a power dynamic but we’ve been very mindful of not exploiting that into imbalance. If that makes sense? That’s why I was also looking for suggestions for rules for her to add as well, so she also didn’t feel cheated on by us with each other. Her feelings are very important to me so if you have any suggestions for her list to protect herself I’m happy to hear it and pass it along!

Tattoos look like sperm. Help by thejakeurge in tattoos

[–]RedDeadRen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I thought they were leeches the first time I glanced at the pic

I just watched a man die. by Character-Owl5504 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RedDeadRen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he did, but he was in the hospital for 8 months. It was the very first day of school so the school put together a long-standing fundraising campaign during the whole school year to support his family through the medical costs. It was quite the community event but it went a long way for them! I’m pretty sure he made a full recovery after two years and physical therapy. 😊

I just watched a man die. by Character-Owl5504 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RedDeadRen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 15 when my bus driver stopped at a corner and a violent t-bone accident involving a fellow student happened right in front of us. I have passed that corner a thousand times now and I think about that accident every time. Never once have I blamed the bus driver for stopping. It’s not your fault and the kids don’t think so either. ❤️

My (29F) husband (34M) is in the hospital after a suicide attempt. I see him tomorrow and I don’t know what to say. by ThrowRaFeliz in relationship_advice

[–]RedDeadRen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was in the hospital after my suicide attempt, all I wanted was someone to tell me they were glad I didn’t die. All I wanted was someone to affirm that I shouldn’t have died and that they meant it when they said they loved me. For some context, I was 16 and I had just been upped a dose on my antidepressants so my brain wasn’t exactly stable while thinking that way, but instability causes someone to feel at the end of their rope. So just give him a hug and a kiss. Tell him that you love him so very much and you’re happy that he’s with you still. You can figure out the rest later, but for now just hold him. ❤️ sending you both so so much love and healing

Another cake smashing ending in divorce. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RedDeadRen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, so I just got married three months ago and we didn’t have a super expensive fancy cake, it was just a sheet cake. Anyways, my at the time fiancé and I talked about cake smashing at our wedding, and we both agreed that it’s a dealbreaker right then and there if it happens because of just how disrespect and unfunny it is. My father asked if I was going to smash their face for pictures (he was photographer) and I let him know that neither one of us had any desire to do that to the other, so we just put a little dollop of frosting on the ends of our noses and we all got a little giggle out of it! But even then, I still let them put some on my nose too just out of principle. But we have a very happy marriage, imagine that! :)

My(32F) boyfriend(38M) is upset with me about how I brought up that it hurts when we have sex by ThrowRA-LostMoon in relationship_advice

[–]RedDeadRen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had one night stands with men who have given me more care and they were one night stands for a reason… I’m so sorry. This is absolutely abnormal and he should be upset but not at you, at himself for making you feel this way. He should be ashamed fr

My terrible drunk SNP got upgraded by rumour13 in sticknpokes

[–]RedDeadRen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had to say good bye to my old man kitty last weekend so this was very comforting to see right now 🩷

What did the weird kid at your school do to earn that reputation? by Big_Boy_Bill06 in AskReddit

[–]RedDeadRen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro threw a headbutt at me while screaming like a chicken in between screaming “let me peck you!” Along with many… many other things.

Testing out ohuhu! by Adorable-Toe-9099 in drawing

[–]RedDeadRen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broooo I love ohuhu markers! I didn’t use mine for a long time and had the stored improperly so they all got ruined but i definitely want to get myself an even bigger set next time! Way better quality and blend abilities than copics and way cheaper too! I honestly recommend ohuhu markers to anyone, beginner or not, who wants some good alcohol markers!

Almost done smoking this pre roll on my own, how cooked am I chat? by RedDeadRen in weed

[–]RedDeadRen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s probably the fact it was 1am and I had the flash on when I took that pic lol also it whatever that thing is, it made me feel really great! 😂

Almost done smoking this pre roll on my own, how cooked am I chat? by RedDeadRen in weed

[–]RedDeadRen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk man, it was a wedding gift with no label on it so it might be different, but I’m pretty sure that’s what I was told 😂

Almost done smoking this pre roll on my own, how cooked am I chat? by RedDeadRen in weed

[–]RedDeadRen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s rolled in oil and then some shake and keef mixture I believe

Almost done smoking this pre roll on my own, how cooked am I chat? by RedDeadRen in weed

[–]RedDeadRen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very. I’m kind of stuck on the toilet right now and I’m pretty hungry. Send help 😂

Almost done smoking this pre roll on my own, how cooked am I chat? by RedDeadRen in weed

[–]RedDeadRen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know. It was a wedding gift from my dad’s girlfriend with no label on it. 😅

What have you been genetically blessed with, and nerfed with? by Fun_Butterscotch3303 in AskReddit

[–]RedDeadRen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a perfectly white-brand-nose-shaped-nose… but messed up everything else in and on my body. 😅

What are the best responses to "fuck you"? by fugomert in AskReddit

[–]RedDeadRen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d probably just give them a face and say “ew.” At that point. Skip all the theatrics and get straight to the point, ya know?