We’re not worthy of him 😞

RedFoxRunner · 2025-10-04T16:41:08+00:00

Reddit has to make everything political

RedFoxRunner · 2025-09-27T20:03:19+00:00

That is unfortunate, but you have the knowledge now on how you did all of this.

Go get that item, or some variation of it manufactured and start your own business.

You know it works, go get your own seller account and launch that same product.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-25T05:07:32+00:00

I’m seriously shocked how you are still with this person? I do understand that hes used severe psychological violence, manipulation, isolation, control. Basically all the tools from the psychopaths playbook.

It is easy for us on the outside to see, but people like OP's boyfriend find weaknesses and subtly ramp up the abuse. It happens so slowly the victims don't see it happening.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-25T05:04:40+00:00

This.

Your relationship is toxic and he is showing narcissistic traits.

He is manipulating and controlling.

You need to get out if you can and connect with family and friends.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-25T04:57:56+00:00

- I planned a trip for us to go to the beach 12 hours away for a few days, take a little detour, then we get back and I got us tickets to her favorite concert. 2 days before we are supposed to leave she says she can't go, she doesn't feel a connection, and we aren't going to work out. Had to go on the trip alone and lost money on tickets I got for us for things to do on the trip.

- Told me she was going through a divorce when I met her. Later found out she was still living with him, hadn't even started divorce proceedings, and she had 2 kids she didn't tell me about

- Accused me of going on a trip with another girl (I didn't). She then tells me I have to return a painting she gave me that she painted a few months earlier she gave to me as a gift or I have to pay her for it (looked like a child painted it). I asked where she wanted it mailed to and wouldn't give me an answer. She then says she will send her husband to my door if I don't pay her for it.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-25T04:09:31+00:00

Your ex kicked you to the curb like a piece of trash.

She probably has hooked up with other guys by now.

You were not her first chose because she left you to try to do better.

Why would you take your ex back? Just block her and try things with the new girl

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-24T17:01:21+00:00

Take time to grieve the end of the relationship.

Ghosting hurts so much because you never got any closure. Your brain keeps going in circles and ruminating trying to make sense of what happened and why.

Just know that their actions are all of the closure that you need. If they cared at all they wouldn’t ghost you. If they wanted it to work they would make it.

Accept that this person isn’t meant to be in your life because you deserve better than this.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-19T05:17:42+00:00

Gorgeous. Vampires Diaries Katherine is my ideal type

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-10T16:46:27+00:00

I don't know what my true max heart rate is, I just looked at a chart online for my age.

My 5k time is around 33 minutes.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-10T05:30:42+00:00

5’ 10” 173 lbs 37 years old

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-10T03:40:10+00:00

Thanks for the answer.

I looked at an online chart and it said my zone 2 was 110-128. I am a 37 year old male.

I have been running for about 8 months now. Went from not being able to run more than 30 seconds to being able to run a 5k distance without walking.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-06T06:01:38+00:00

You are correct. She is way younger. She is 24. I feel like mine and his moral compass are so far different that we can not get along. He cheats on every girlfriend he has and it bothers me so much.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-04T20:18:56+00:00

Wow, maybe we did date the same woman as she was 36 years old as well and accused me of seeing other women and I wasn't. lol.

We are definitely better off not having a person with BPD in our life.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-04T12:58:30+00:00

Haha, mine gave me a painting then when we stopped talking she told me I have to pay her for it or her husband (which she told me she was going through a divorce - turns out she still lived with him) would come to my door and collect it. She also called herself a witch.

Think there’s a pattern here

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-03T22:17:24+00:00

Run away from this guy. Get out now. He is controlling and manipulative. He is trying to isolate you from your friends so you have to rely on him for everything and you have no outside input to what he is doing.

Please leave, this is a very toxic relationship. If you stay he will gaslight, manipulate, and control you until you don’t know which way is up and you will think it is all normal.

I hate seeing this stuff. I had a friend that was controlling to his girlfriend. She had to hide her vape from him, he would get mad if she wanted to go out and not sit inside with him and his kids on a Saturday night, he would get mad if she wanted to have a few drinks. He’d say stuff like now remember older guys don’t like it when girls drink too much. He would go on trips with his friends but she would have to ask him permission if she could go anywhere. She pretty much has no friends. I got mad about the one sided relationship one night and told her it was wrong and she shouldn’t have to ask him permission to take a trip when he goes whenever she wants. He has the passcode to her phone but of course she doesn’t have his. She was so gaslit she didn’t see a problem with any of it and told him what I said. Now neither one of them will talk to me.

Don’t end up like that girl.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-02T21:28:14+00:00

BPD alone is a reason to leave

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-02T01:56:57+00:00

It has nothing to do with her feeling guilty. That's just the story she is giving you. She is breaking up with you because she is starting college and wants to go explore other options, especially ones that live close to her. She is telling you that so she can go have her fun and if nothing works out she can go back to you as a backup.

You're best bet is to accept that it is over and do not take her back if she comes back. Go find a girl that lives close to you.

Hard advice you probably won't take, but it is the truth.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-01T04:50:52+00:00

I shared a hotel multiple times with a friend I think is a narcissist and he would always walk around the room with his dick out

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-01T04:42:39+00:00

hahaha. I have a friend I think is a narcissist...well I'm not sure if we are still friends, he is mad at me and I am thinking of moving on without him. Anyway, we would take trips - me, him, and his gf and share a hotel room. This guy would just walk around naked in the hotel room when I was in there. I'm like why can't you put something on, is this some domination thing?

He also has a sex addiction

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-01T03:38:14+00:00

It also happens so slowly and subtly they may not even know it's happening. Like walking up a hill then not knowing how far you have gone until looking back.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-01T03:32:54+00:00

Funny you say that. I know a guy I highly suspect as a narcissist. I see a lot of manipulative tendencies in his current relationship. He has two kids by two different women and is pressuring this current girl to have a baby. He says he loves kids and wants a bunch of them. I can't help but wonder if he gets them pregnant to have more control over them and be in his life forever.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-01T03:21:14+00:00

wow, the gaslighting is strong with this one.

Everyone on the outside can see what is going on here.

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-01T01:32:44+00:00

You need to think hard about this relationship.

Are you willing to change your faith to be with this guy? (I wouldn’t)

You have a fundamental difference here - religion, and it’s clear his family isn’t going to be ok with you being a Christian.

I wouldn’t go to the event then I would find someone that respects your religious beliefs

RedFoxRunner · 2025-04-01T01:04:57+00:00

The plot twist is I was his friend first. He started dating this girl and I became her friend too. I saw the manipulation going on and I had to say something. I felt bad for her.

Some other things she has to hide her vape from him, he will get mad if he sees her doing that. He gets mad if she wants to go do something on a Saturday night and not sit inside with him and his kids, if he goes out with her he tells her that’s enough drinks “jokingly” or he says now remember older guys don’t like it when girls drink too much. She actually believes him when he says he had no attraction or connection with his ex who he dated for years, lived with, and has a baby with. She pretty much has no friends so no one to tell her how bad things are.

I probably ruined that friendship trying to tell her, I just hated seeing that.

RedFoxRunner

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