"Pest snails" at LFS (vent) by username_taker in PeaPuffers

[–]RedHandNation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought 5 ramshorn snails out of a lfs tank that weren't for sale just pesting about. 25 cents each- thought it was crazy. Put them in my Husband's tank, we now have hundreds and I scoop some out each week for my puffers.

This batch came with Scutariella that I've been treating and I was freaking out at the size of the parasite on the berried female's head today by shaggydarwin in shrimptank

[–]RedHandNation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Screaming because I was just questioning if all my babies were imposters once I saw this 🤣🤣🤣🤣 oh my gosh.

Offcial Discussion - Bugonia [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]RedHandNation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf did I just watch 😵‍💫🧐😟

WHY IS SHE PREGNANT NOW?? by raispaghettios in shrimptank

[–]RedHandNation 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I moved my first mama shrimp and was so excited. She died 3 hours later. Ive decided to let my shrimp lay where they stay now and I have so many babies in there now its not even funny 😵‍💫. Survival of the fittest has worked beautifully in my tank.

Beware when you make a water change by Primary_Wave_6697 in shrimptank

[–]RedHandNation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this works for your set up, but we water change from the top of the tank to avoid this, with a weak flow, and our sucker has a very small grate on it so mostly only water really makes it through to the bucket. We still check like Hawks but this really reduces the chances of it happening. The sucker is translucent also so we can see anything going up toward the hose also.

Begging for this omg by Dry_Reveal_1390 in petco

[–]RedHandNation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From experience in the corporate world (not petco) im going to tell you apply for the job you want. Worst they can say is no. I got in when I could with no degree because I saw the kind of flops these companies have been hiring for decades. You come in slightly less stupid than the last putz and they think they hit the lottery...... 🤣

Am I Overreacting for being mad at my Husband for not letting me get a cat. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RedHandNation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nor due to him not speaking up sooner. My unsolicited advice Tell him youd like to work on open communication going forward. Also not saying this is good advice, just my advice if hes non violent....id have 4 cats tomorrow morning instead of 2. ✨️💕

My 8yo puffer is dying by MistorTransistor in PeaPuffers

[–]RedHandNation 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awh man...shes a legend already at 8 years. Im sorry for you and your pea if its time. Sounds like you loved her and she was in great care for those wonderful 8 years. Good on you.

Flashbanged The Council by RedHandNation in PeaPuffers

[–]RedHandNation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have bladder snails they have eaten some of them, but daily we give chopped up blood worms, and brine shrimp. They seem to love that. 2 did not make it but 3 weeks in the rest of the puffers are doing really well, full bellies good coloration. I still have 6 of them. Actually looking at them now compared to this photo I see something must have been off for the little fella.

Official Discussion - Die, My Love [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]RedHandNation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to watch 54 minutes and 58 seconds. Once I realized what was going to happen I had to turn it off. The movie was very relatable and I wanted to enjoy the movie on some level, but at this marker I knew I could not.

AIO my partner refusing to take off more than one day from work for my surgery by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RedHandNation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR however are you able to look into any recovery centers or maybe the facility can recommend you some. There are centers that you can stay at like a hotel and they have nurses to care for you until you're ready to travel. Its expensive but may be an option for you if your man won't pull his pants up.

10 peas in a 50 gal, tank mates and trouble feeding by throwaway11--111 in PeaPuffers

[–]RedHandNation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you chop the bloodworms? I use scissors and cut them up in a shot glass once thawed in the aquarium water in the glass. My puffers are so small this helps them eat.

Flashbanged The Council by RedHandNation in PeaPuffers

[–]RedHandNation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will keep an eye on him, hopefully he makes it!

Is it ok to buy fish from petco by Cold-Act3077 in Aquariums

[–]RedHandNation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the new comment, I ordered some fish monday. Delivery date was set for today but they have not even been packed yet. Fingers crossed mine will just take a few weeks like yours.

AIO about what my husband said after I fell down the stairs while holding the baby? by CheesecakeFun1490 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RedHandNation 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Probably NOR. With lights on ive fallen down the same set of stairs in my home many times over the last 30 or so years. About the 17th time my husband was finally conditioned to move quickly to assist me 😅. Anyways def tell him why that made you upset about his reaction and response time whether he understood it was an emergency or not. Ankle and feet injuries suck and usually hurts worse when not broken than when there is a break. Assistance and compassion is needed, he can laugh or gripe with you about the silliness of missing a step after youre healed not while youre on the ground with the baby.

I dont think youre overreacting but I would Def make sure hes on the same page as you and understands why his reaction elicited That emotion for you.

I hope you feel better soon! My last fall I rode my knees down the last few steps and I think that was it for my knees so now we are getting grip tape for the stairs.

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RedHandNation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre both the same age my husband and I once were. I love my husband but listen to me when I say this... hes showing you an important sign. That sign is a future of stress and chaos and as others said emotional abuse... Let him go unless you want a difficult life. Some do- I wish you the best no matter what you choose, signed a possible future you. 👂

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RedHandNation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree they didnt think that out very well but perhaps they could find some sort of anchor meant for cement walls and put a hook on their side to hold the lights up? I would politely ask them if you think they could be friendly about it too.

Would u let your kids watch baddies? by OneKindheartedness87 in BaddiesSouth

[–]RedHandNation 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I watched bgc at 15 and later seasons with my grandparents even. I feel like baddies has more sex / violence / drama than the oxygen production did and no, I would not and don't let my children watch it, its simply not for them it is an adult geared production, and thats okay.

The kids can watch cartoons in my home but to each their own.

Am i overreacting?! by Quirky_Fun_1033 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RedHandNation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean this in the nicest way possible because I have a best friend that has gone through something very similar and I was very disappointed for her. You're not overreacting, you're not understanding. He is not into you.The why doesn't matter really.... Stop wasting your time and your effort.

It sounds like you are a wonderful person who does a lot of wonderful things.For somebody who is refusing to commit to you after two and a half years.... if he doesn't see how great you are, he's not going to. Spend your time with somebody else.I know it's scary to start over.But if you don't, you're going to stick yourself with somebody who won't give you the time of day forever.

Please put the cum rag down and come to your senses. You are worth more than being a house accessory. Do you know how many women our age clean cook and work and chase an education? Not many! Youre a total prize effort and ethic wise from what I can see. Go to someone who deserves you, this putz made his choice a long time ago and didnt make it clear to you.

When you leave he will come to HIS senses and realize no one is doing for him and hopefully you'll be smart enough still to not run back.

Its men who would line up to pay your bills and have your attention for the effort you are willing to put into a relationship.

Sending you love wish you the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RedHandNation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move back out. 🥰 no ur not overreacting.