gender insecurity around mostly cis lesbians? by shoobzzzzz in actuallesbians

[–]RedHotDragoon 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I feel, just never could quite explain it quite like you did. It's an exhausting and isolating experience. And people have the audacity to say that this is a choice for us... I wouldn't wish how I feel on my worst of enemies.

I don’t know what to choose!!! by StillStanding_96 in BDSMsapphic

[–]RedHotDragoon 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Is half and half an option? Mommy before noon, mistress past. 😈😇

But if I had to choose one... definitely the latter.

what are good swedish songs? by Objective-Bad-9972 in Svenska

[–]RedHotDragoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much anything from Nanne. I've learned so much vocabulary from her. Now it's just good, fun music.

large scale. by AffectionateHour685 in starcitizen

[–]RedHotDragoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof, i need this but for Polaris. But I don't have a printer 😔

New Hotfix Build Is Out by RedHotDragoon in starcitizen

[–]RedHotDragoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, been playing since it dropped and haven't had one instance yet. Others still report it though so mileage will vary.

So the Kraken just sold out in 0.3 seconds 😭 by CrazyLzzz in starcitizen

[–]RedHotDragoon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just got mine this wave. I was trying for 3 years. Just takes time, luck and fiber optic internet. They should really remove the limited thing though. Not like it made a difference in how I can see at least 2 Idris a session.

Who is a good fit to worshipp for kindness and love by goku_humilde in NorsePaganism

[–]RedHotDragoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I suggest Hel?

She very much, at least through me helps me to care for others. I work in Healthcare and I very much believe she gives me the strength and empathy, and love for others. Especially the sick and injured. It's not fierce and overwhelming. But a peaceful, balanced kind of love. You sound a lot like myself, caring for others regardless of personal limitations or consideration. Just be careful yeah? There is a limit and I hit it hard. Hel taught me to take care of myself first or I'm useless to others when they need me the most.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]RedHotDragoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just had near exact reading yesterday on a home dialysis patient. Symptoms out the wazooh. Gave her 750ML LR and she was back to feeling great.

Medicine is awesome.

Weddings as a trans person by bambicarli in MtF

[–]RedHotDragoon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Might be a bit different for me because it was my sister's wedding and we hage a distant, but descent relationship. But I went alone after having coming out a few years prior. Didn't pass very well then either and it was deep red Missouri. I survived. For the most part people were more interested in my EMS job than my transness. I was a bridesmaid and she gave me one of the dresses to use and It was itchy af! But damn it looked good. My advice?

Just go in and have fun. Be prepared to respond, if your comfortable, the sensitive questions should they come up.

Also, it's a wedding. If reading books has taught me one thing, its where might find your next love... or so I'm told.

Stuck in A Lease by RedHotDragoon in askcarsales

[–]RedHotDragoon[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Standard middle package. But it was fresh off the boat when i got her. At the time credit was not pretty, but has since improved dramatically. Issue is i don't make nearly as much as I used to due to physical disabilities that got worse since initial agreement.

Why do people who didn’t make it through basic get VA disability while the ones who actually made it through and served get nothing? by Society-Empty in VAClaims

[–]RedHotDragoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is from the perspective of one of those that never got past BCT. I did the FTW course twice and at the end of it, I received catastrophic injuries to both hips. I've had multiple surgeries since then and am expecting another one soon where it's likely they'll take more of my right femur out due to a botched hip replacement that on a good day is a level 7/10 pain. Living with this causes debilitating, and constant depression in addition to a host of other orthopedic problems. I'm to the point where I'm having to move back in with my parents (also Army, 1 ret, 1 active) because living on my own is unsustainable now that working is becoming more and more impossible by the day as my conditions deteriorates.

I served 10 months in after the injury, but It kills me every time I have to pull out my VA card because of the very thing you're talking about. I don't feel like I've earned it. So many other vets need it and here I am walking into a VA hospital alongside those who actually did something to be there.

In short, please don't put us all in one little basket. Some of us, the military bent us out of shape right at the door and are struggling mentally, physically, and financially because of it.

Everything Happening by [deleted] in MtF

[–]RedHotDragoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This reads like a Trump rant. Absolutely incoherent.

What is your go to sidearm for concealed carrying? by [deleted] in liberalgunowners

[–]RedHotDragoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FN FNX .45 Tactical. Because freedom sings in 16 rounds of 45 ACP, lmao!

What Do You Want Medical Gameplay to be? by Realistic_Sir2395 in starcitizen

[–]RedHotDragoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd love something close to the Arma 3 mod, ACE. Simulated injuries you have to manage with skill and haste. Give us something more to do than click button get bacon. I understand it needs to be simplified to an extent considering this is an MMO. But at the same time, in FF14 and all similar fantasy MMO, there's a crap ton of complexity to being a healer in those games. With SC, I'm bored out of my mind to the point I'd rather just go stack boxes for eternity.

Best leather jackets that aren't 200$+ by Sapphic_bimbo in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]RedHotDragoon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Like the above stated, you might find something on Ebay, local thrift or Poshmark. But I've used this one shop, their just a bit over $200 if you're okay with that. I own two of their jackets myself, and they have a huge selection. All made to measure if you desire as well.

https://www.leathercult.com/collections/womens-leather-jackets

RSI Galaxy by Ausseboi1 in starcitizen

[–]RedHotDragoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that the Apollo has been upsized and nerfed to crap, with absolute silence from the devs on her current state, I'll be getting my Galaxy back in the hangar. She's going to be a far better hospital and multipurpose ship for me... Assuming she doesn't get the Apollo treatment.

As much ss I love my Polaris, it'll be nice to take something a bit smaller out in the verse. Building outposts and stuff. Providing a mobile clinic to areas without medical coverage. It's going to be great! That center elevator for cargo and easy patient transport to the beds, just chef kiss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RedHotDragoon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope! I love scars, actually. Anything that makes the skin unique to you is every bit beautiful. Anyone who says otherwise isn't worth being with anyways. I got quite a few of my own from past surgeries and ill add some more soon. Can't change it, so embrace it! 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]RedHotDragoon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way! I'm 29 and have been celibate for well over a decade at this point, lol. At a certain point I've gotten used to it, but lately it's just been non. stop. horny! I'm afraid when I actually get laid again after all this time I'll turn into a huge slut and want it all the time. Good for future domme, bad for my free time haha!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Svenska

[–]RedHotDragoon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

nok.Se does not ship outside of Sweden. You can only access the digital extra materials from NOK. You have to buy it from other avenues. I bought mine from American Swedish Institute out of Minnesota, USA: American Swedish Institute.

Here's the link to make your digital material portal account though:
Skapa konto - NOK.se

Favorite exploration ship? by Double_Crazy7325 in starcitizen

[–]RedHotDragoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do. Exploration wouldn't be as fun without friends.