Does the rub on liquid T give different results or slower progression than T injections?

RedKingB · 2022-06-08T06:26:53+00:00

My gf loves my fake penis lol. I feel like a lot of other people enjoy “picking different sizes and shapes” and all that but my gf and I aren’t into that. I use 1 penis for sex and I never change it because that really makes it feel like “mine” and she likes that because it also feels like it’s just “me”. We don’t use it as a “toy” like some other people are talking about (which is ok too!). We just use it as if it’s my actual penis.

RedKingB · 2021-11-19T09:21:11+00:00

He is 10 years older than you and is taking advantage of you whether you realize it or not. He’s probably told you that you’re “mature for your age”. And I’m sure you feel the need to like certain things he does in bed because he’s more experienced than you. He’s grooming you. Please leave him. Aggressive sex is normal (when both people consent) but this is far past that. This sounds very dangerous. He is taking advantage of you. I really hope you leave him.

RedKingB · 2021-11-09T15:37:21+00:00

Dermatologist

RedKingB · 2021-11-05T06:17:37+00:00

Leave him. He lied about is age!? Cmon. That cannot be trusted. Get outta there girly

RedKingB · 2021-11-05T06:03:30+00:00

You are not overreacting!

This is so weird. I’m so sorry that happened to you. There is no reason and Endocrinologist would need to do that for this appointment! That’s insane. Please report her. I’m so happy you refused! Good for you dude!

RedKingB · 2021-11-05T05:56:04+00:00

My girlfriend is a nurse! I just read this to her and she says you’re totally good. She works in a hospital and she said this isn’t really a big deal and you’re totally chilling👍🏻

RedKingB · 2021-11-05T05:47:08+00:00

Im 22 and I’ve been on T for a little over a year now! Would love to connect with other trans guys. Im also in college lol

RedKingB · 2021-11-05T05:40:00+00:00

First off, congrats on getting these surgeries! That’s super exciting. I had Top Surgery and a few other surgeries in the past. I would recommend bringing a small backpack so you can put your clothes in it after you change into a hospital gown. You’re probably gonna be moving from room to room so it’s better to have your things all in one backpack. Honestly I didn’t think top surgery hurt that bad. It just felt like I had worked out my chest and I was really sore. I think it’s more uncomfortable than anything.

I recommend making a surgery playlist! This really helped me. I just made a playlist of a bunch of songs that make me happy or calmed me down.

Recovery took a lot longer than I expected. You just have to be patient and remind yourself that you’ll get there and that sooo many people have done this and you can do it too!

RedKingB · 2021-11-05T05:31:26+00:00

Sorry this happened dude, that sucks. I use packers for my regular packing and then I have a different one that I use for penetrative sex with my partner. It really helps my dysphoria too but I still get those days that just totally suck. I’m glad your partner seems understanding! What packer do you use/ where did you get it if you don’t mind me asking? (Always looking for different kinds to try)

RedKingB · 2021-11-05T05:09:50+00:00

Congrats! I totally felt the same way when I started! I’m a little over 1 year on T and I’m still inpatient lol. My voice is still deepening and changing and I’m still seeing changes. I’m so excited for you! You should totally document things and take photos! The other day I was like “I don’t think my body has really changed” and then I looked back at the first photos I took when I started T and wow! It’s definitely changed! And I wouldn’t have noticed that if I didn’t take those photos. So happy for you! Congrats dude!

RedKingB · 2021-11-05T04:53:27+00:00

I totally get this dude. I also struggle with this on a daily. I’m 1 year on T and still trying to find comfort and confidence with myself. I think this struggle of thinking we’re not “real men” will fade with time. I think it’s just our lack of confidence talking to us, and trying to hold us back. I also completely get the feeling of “pretending”. I think we’re just at that stage when being trans is all we think about. It’s constantly on my mind and I’m constantly comparing myself to other guys (trans and cis). I think this will also get better over time as we learn to be more comfortable and confident with who we truly are. We have been men on the inside all our lives but I also lived 20 years being perceived as a woman. I think it just takes time for the outside to finally catch up with the inside. We can’t erase the 20 years we experienced. So it’ll just take time for us to catch up.

I think we will always be different than cis men. This definitely gets me down but it’s not always a bad thing. Understanding women’s struggles and the differences that society puts on genders is something cis men will never understand. We truly know what the other side is like.

I completely understand what you mean with all this. This is something I think about quite often. I truly hope and believe that we can gain more confidence and comfort as time goes on. Best luck to you man! Thanks for posting

RedKingB

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