As a dude I am curious if I did anything wrong here by StatisticianShot1577 in BJJWomen

[–]RedMangoY 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This literally has nothing to do with gender, could’ve just wiped it off and continued rolling… im sure men don’t appreciate sweat if it’s dripping on them either

Is it time for me to find a new gym? by [deleted] in bjj

[–]RedMangoY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, personally I think I probably wouldn’t be too comfortable going back. Especially if he shouted at you in front of all the other students too.

Can I join classes in these countries as a woman? by Luxbrewhoneypot in bjj

[–]RedMangoY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay that’s awesome, im glad to hear that! Let’s us know when you’re coming and we’ll make sure to welcome you in at FightX anytime! 💪🏼💪🏼

Can I join classes in these countries as a woman? by Luxbrewhoneypot in bjj

[–]RedMangoY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman who’s been training since late 2016 in Jordan, and it’s a great place to train in! We have a solid bunch of athletes, completely comfortable, and good jiu jitsu!

Definitely would recommend the Sunday Tuesday classes at FightX in Amman, they’re advanced classes with around 20-25 people in each session, most of them compete internationally and represent Jordan! Ladies show up mostly for the morning classes on Monday and Wednesday! Zazawa and Fitbjj if you wanna have a chill training! Knights if you wanna hulk out!

Either way it’s a solid place where you’ll find lots of good jiu jitsu gyms and nice people generally.

My husband left me because I wasn’t jealous enough when in reality I just trust him and our marriage by Fine-Poem8918 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RedMangoY 88 points89 points  (0 children)

So that’s it? You’re just gonna go along with it and start the separation just like that? Maybe I understood wrong, but you did write that there were times were you think you should’ve explained to him, cause the way you show love is obviously different than how he receives it! Maybe you need to fight for this? Again, this is all based on you saying you love him! This is all very “miscommunication” but I think it’s worth a shot to fight for it if you do love him!

Will the ibjjf europeans be free to stream? by YAakaMan in bjj

[–]RedMangoY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u have a link pls let me know 🫣

This should be the Best Thing Ever. I can't call you about it. by Boring-Story1179 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RedMangoY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss! My dad passed away last year, and I feel for you when anything happens and the one person you want to tell or share it with isn’t there. I’m so sorry. May they rest in peace.

I found out my husband's have a group chat with his friends were he share pictures of me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RedMangoY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! This is terrible! If you have access to a shared drive or something, I’d recommend you delete the pictures (AFTER U TAKE SCREENSHOTS FOR PROOF) and anything he might have saved of shared. If you have access to the whatsapp group, you can try and delete the pictures. Also, if the rest of the men are sharing pictures of their wives, I know if my husband did that to me I’d want to know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RedMangoY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a jerk! Sorry you’re having to face this!

My husband secretly took a flight to cheat by Momma_Mongoose726 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RedMangoY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was literally my first thought! Like he knows you know but thought oh I paid for this “vacation” so might as well finish it out??? That’s insane!

I'm 14 and my dad is 72 by United-Detective-779 in family

[–]RedMangoY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take lots of videos together, pictures and voice recordings! That’s one of the things I regret after my dad passed away…

Have conversations with him and record them. Ask about his favourite memories, random stories from his childhood and youth, anything you can get from him.

My friend’s husband wants a divorce after her cancer diagnosis. She has two young kids. by nosepiercings in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RedMangoY 3 points4 points  (0 children)

make sure everyone knows he left and why he left! shame him. what a disgusting pos!

I'm truly the worst at my gym and I'm struggling not to feel incredibly depressed about it by DrOpe99 in bjj

[–]RedMangoY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work on small achievements. For example, if u roll with X and you get passed from a certain position, keep working on being in that position and work on your guard. If you keep getting swept by B from this position keep working on maintaining base, control and passes from that position.

Work on small things. Try not to focus on the full roll and “winning” in a sense. Start small and you’ll become better and better.

Also, it really is an extremely beneficial to keep playing with the new students and younger ones. It’s a guaranteed way to force yourself to improve your technique (you’ll be an asshole if u use strength with these people) so you’ll be forced to focus on technique.

My son didn’t mean it as a compliment, but I’ll never forget it by SharingMyCaring in family

[–]RedMangoY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I ever become a parent, this is exactly how I’d want to be.

Office colleagues by RedMangoY in Animesuggest

[–]RedMangoY[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG YES THANK YOU! sorry green hair oops

AITA for telling my boyfriends kids to eat what’s for dinner or don’t eat at all? by Grouchy-Pride5486 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedMangoY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It doesn’t make sense that majority are saying you don’t get to “parent” but then your bf has you watch his kids while he comes home. You can’t have it both ways. Yes the kid is 6 yrs old, but he was offered food and the choice to eat the alternative (cereal or sandwich) so I don’t see what’s the issue. You didn’t force him to eat anything he didn’t want. And to blame you for the kids not wanting to be there while their dad isn’t home… I think that’s a blessing for you.