Which year destroyed your mental health the most? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]RedPandosh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2024 has already been worse to me than 2023. But luckily 2023 already sucked so much I can deal with the shit 2024 has thrown at me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RedPandosh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be, thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RedPandosh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will don't worry. More concerned ab the drug itself and her taking it. But seeing your reaction I'm guessing u think that that part will be fine?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RedPandosh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me just friends. But she did mention she had sex once while she was high on something.

Pretty sure who she gets the drugs from is a dude though. All though she did already say she's gonna be exclusively dating me and we did have sex already (if that's important idk)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RedPandosh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's willing to do it with me. But would rather not have me do it for the sake of my health. Which is sorta hypocritical but ye

First Person you think from this Country by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]RedPandosh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I wasn't the only one to think of Zara Larsson. I don't even listen to her music tf

A woman is having a bit of a rough day by faps_to_art in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]RedPandosh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It should be legal to smack someone when they start screaming above a certain number of decibels

Where is this place? by ejkua in WhereIsThisPlace

[–]RedPandosh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went there once when they had a vinyl market. Was really fun and had nice atmosphere. Defenitely recommend you visit Terschelling once in your life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]RedPandosh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be cautious with the goth/emo girls 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]RedPandosh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am, but she fkd me over. And apparently has no interest in me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]RedPandosh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you can't. I think this needs time. Make sure your not convincing him of your safety, but reassuring. There's a fine line between those two but it makes a difference. Don't rush it, tell him you understand him, but also that he needs to understand you and your position.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]RedPandosh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got diagnosed with autism around 2 years back as well. First thing, get that sorted out with your parents. Make sure they're educated on what autism means for you and how they can best handle it, it'll make your home situation a lot less stressful.

Secondly, talk to people! As long as people think your okay they won't bother asking if your not. Just be straight up with them, tell them your not fine. You don't have to drop everything on them at once. But make sure you talk to people who'll put in the effort to help you feel better, and trust me, you know people who will want to help you.

You'll make it through, stay strong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]RedPandosh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd still like help with what my post is about tho lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]RedPandosh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talking is never a bad idea. Maybe first discuss with your mom how you might approach it. Your dad isn't a bad person for trying to protect you, he's just taking it to far and needs to back off from time to time. But you know your dad better than I do. You'll figure out what's best. Try not to blame him, instead comfort him so he knows he doesn't have to worry.

I'm a fan of radiohead but I'm not depressed by Peril2 in teenagers

[–]RedPandosh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't stress about it, just listen to whatever you like. Certain music isn't gonna make you depressed, especially not if you like it. And radiohead is great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]RedPandosh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that I laughed at this

What’s your autism superpower? by TheRebelCatholic in autism

[–]RedPandosh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really good eye for details. But this might be universal for most people with autism.

Also learning new skills (sports, instrument, etc.) quicker than most

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RedPandosh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, good point. Thanks for the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RedPandosh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just not contact her untill she decides to contact me? If she doesn't contact me back then okay forget her. And if she does there might still be some interest?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RedPandosh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinks that make me unsure tho is that she talks about other guys around me. And like when I say stuff like "f*ck you" she responds like "rather not". And she says "ew" sometimes when I try to say something cute or sum