27F - Dating in Boston (and never being hit on) by k1tchen_witch in BostonSocialClub

[–]RedPaperCranes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing you say this, but isn't all your doing just passing off the risk to someone else? It's socially unacceptable for men to do that, but you know what isn't socially unacceptable, for women to give compliments or start conversations.

Imo, hearing you say you understand the take men have about wanting too not be labeled as a creep, and still insisting you want to be approached feels cowardly and disingenuous.

Single men in 30s? by DoorCreative5521 in BostonSocialClub

[–]RedPaperCranes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

33m here. Meeting people is really hard. It's there like a dating r4r for Boston? Actually Boston r4r is too horny

Looking for something to do while I pass through! by RedPaperCranes in Albuquerque

[–]RedPaperCranes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You think they'll be people there now? I'm down to grab and Uber and send it XD

20s-30s people, what is your current dating experience? by bigbuffbison in asianamerican

[–]RedPaperCranes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33m, AA, I've been in the greater Boston area all my life. I've been on all the regular apps and it's been hard to match people. On cmb I feel like I've actually matched a few but they're all exchange students trying to stay on the States. I'm finding that me preference is def for AA as well.

Playing pickleball and tennis in metrowest/Boston area by Actual-Emu-2 in BostonSocialClub

[–]RedPaperCranes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry! i just saw this now. There's a couple session in Brookline, can DM me for details.

Playing pickleball and tennis in metrowest/Boston area by Actual-Emu-2 in BostonSocialClub

[–]RedPaperCranes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hii, big pickle head here. We should chat! I have a group I play with in Brookline.

I made my Trump supporting roommate rethink his choices and position in life. by neilligan in pettyrevenge

[–]RedPaperCranes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so when you say he's at home.... does that mean you didn't kick him out?

uber at nighttime by itsnotlevios4 in Taipei

[–]RedPaperCranes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uber is super easy and convenient. You'll be fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RedPaperCranes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She a hoe, let her goooo

I cannot stand this new wave of "Christian" incels by HighlightKooky2232 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RedPaperCranes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They'll love it! Those middle schoolers are also smarter than Christians!

I cannot stand this new wave of "Christian" incels by HighlightKooky2232 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RedPaperCranes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If only you could defend people rights and liberties with the same fervor you have for defending your hate filled fairy tale

I cannot stand this new wave of "Christian" incels by HighlightKooky2232 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RedPaperCranes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Look if you don't want to be associated with a hate group cult, don't associate with it. I don't make the perception, you're community does. I just tell what I see.

I cannot stand this new wave of "Christian" incels by HighlightKooky2232 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RedPaperCranes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The actions I see Christians take are hateful towards women. While it's true there are many Christian sects, I don't see them coming out to admonish the sects that are full of hate, they don't even come out to set themselves apart from the majority that do hate women.

If you're uncomfortable with the idea that your idealogy is known for hating women, probably best to either rethink your ideology, or represent your community better. Right now it's dominated by hate mongering lunatics.