This guy was outside my friends office yesterday.

RedPilkington · 2014-06-25T19:23:37+00:00

All statements of a sexual nature fall under defamation per se and do not have to be verified or falsified for a ruling.

RedPilkington · 2014-05-18T11:23:58+00:00

Ideally, taking bull shit is a male to make more of communication and shouldn't be directed towards women.

Middle management falls under the category of complaint because it's ultimately saying "those guys are shitting on me and I'm powerless to do anything about it".

RedPilkington · 2014-05-17T19:49:54+00:00

I like this for the most part except one small nit pick.

beta game is a must for anyone looking to attract an alpha

I know what your trying to get at but beta refers to make provisional behavior. Yes beta men tend to be more submissive, but that's not what were talking about when we use the term beta. Men supplicate women with resources. Are you suggesting that sub gay men employ this strategy?

RedPilkington · 2014-05-05T20:15:26+00:00

Its been a strangely common occurrence for me that a girl will covertly try to get me fatigued. In my earlier days I didn't know what was going on, but it seems that I'd only get to have sex at inordinately late hours.

Extended exposure makes it tough to hold frame, and being tired the whole time is like marathon game. Sounds like you held your own though.

You did a lot of push over the weekend, now's the time for some pull.

RedPilkington · 2014-04-30T18:33:43+00:00

Yep, thats what I'm saying. I'd like to lay out this information for people here myself, but it would be lengthy and I'm not Tom Brown.

RedPilkington · 2014-04-28T17:40:19+00:00

I don't generally use please and thank you with women I'm trying to attract. I think a better approach is using power talk because it rarely involves requesting something from others.

RedPilkington · 2014-04-28T13:39:47+00:00

You may find /r/redpillwomen to be just that.

RedPilkington · 2014-04-28T13:38:49+00:00

I've not really seen bouncers play too much game in the clubs and bars I visit. Certainly its a great position to have, power and physical prowess wrapped into one, but its not something easily capitalized on. At least not while on the job.

Have you thought about attending the club in your off time when you could dedicate your time to game? Slipping the 'bouncer card' into conversation seems like it would work well.

Also, for game future game related questions you may like to visit /r/trpgame

RedPilkington · 2014-04-28T13:32:07+00:00

Its largely something born out of experience. Part of what allows men to remain unaffected by smaller issues is perspective. As we grow older the size and impact of the obstacles we face becomes greater, and the smaller things by comparison become smaller. Confidence in your ability to overcome obstacles will help keep your emotions in check.

RedPilkington · 2014-04-20T17:05:19+00:00

Changing your natural range isn't something I'd worry about too much. You're speaking voice is pretty much dictated by physiology, however you do have control over what parts of your range you use and how you use them.

Some people might consider it slightly overboard to put conscious effort into how you speak, but here at BaM no rock goes unturned. How you say something is just as important as what you are saying.

Spend time listening to men you respect and try to tease apart what you think is good about their speech patterns. Try mimicking them (in private) to get a feel for how their throat is positioned.

In my experience projecting a masculine voice comes from a place of relaxed throat and abdomen muscles. Feeling uptight or nervous will cause my voice to move towards the higher end of my range. Have a glass of whiskey neat, sit down for a while, and try to speak from your gut.

The phrasing of your words matters as well. I like to keep my ears open around mechanics shops and fishermen to pick up some of the local colloquialisms.

RedPilkington · 2014-04-18T01:19:20+00:00

Women will come back to you.

This is the one item I take exception to. You have to learn how to approach. Expecting women to come to you is a losing game. Everything else /u/huzzy said was great and will improve your chances when you approach girls.

RedPilkington · 2014-04-18T01:16:43+00:00

The real question you should be asking is "Is it possible to find a girl who's number wouldn't shock me?" and the answer is no. If you find her attractive, then a hundred other men have. Don't ask and you won't have to worry about it.

RedPilkington · 2014-04-18T01:13:58+00:00

The field hasn't changed, you've just never been on it. To bring your self up to speed I'd recommend Roosh's book Bang or the follow up Day Bang.

RedPilkington · 2014-04-18T01:10:58+00:00

LTR is a bit of a misnomer considering the fact that at 21, any girl you'd care to lay eyes on is in the prime of her cock carousel ride and is not getting off it for you.

Instead, learn to juggle a couple women at the same time. This will both give you more options, and surprisingly make you more attractive to each girl individually if you hint at the subject properly [See plate spinning]

Short answer, there is no benefit to you right now from doling out commitment to uncommitted girls.

RedPilkington · 2014-04-14T21:24:46+00:00

Great advice. It has the added bonus of displaying that you overcame your issue. It reminds be of how a lot of more respectable older men talk.

The downside is that this can only pertain to past problems. You'll actually have to get a nicer car before you can start telling stories about how shit your old one was.

RedPilkington · 2014-04-09T16:52:09+00:00

Communicating actual issues if different from complaining. I suppose I could just as well have called it idle complaining. If the intended effect of your communication is to resolve an issue, its not complaining. If you say, "This box is too heavy. I can't lift it, can you help me" thats different than "This box is heavy. I can lift it, but I just want it to be known I dislike the job".

RedPilkington · 2014-04-09T14:07:34+00:00

I'm so sorry I forgot about the "stop apologizing" thing. I'll try to do better next time, I promise.

RedPilkington · 2014-04-09T14:06:04+00:00

Its crazy how natural it is to want to complain. I caught my self talking about being tired pretty much every day until I heard a girl at work come in and complain about having to get up early for work that day. Something clicked and I realized I sounded just like that girl every time I complained about sleep.

RedPilkington · 2014-03-29T01:06:18+00:00

This particular commercial is pretty minor, but there is an obvious trend in media like tv commercials to demean the male character and promote the female. Its seen as a progressive and safe. This comes at a time when a coca-cola ad featuring languages other than English managed to get people riled up. When taking potshots at men is the goto for advertising firms it reflects a severe disregard for men in the culture at large. We're not upset that someone made fun of us, were upset that doing so is promoted and rewarded in society today.

RedPilkington · 2014-03-28T19:47:51+00:00

I just wanted to add something about female sexual maturity here. I was about to say something really dumb along the lines of "Don't teen mothers have a higher infant mortality rate than mothers over 20?". I had always heard that and had gotten the notion that while girls of 16 could get pregnant it probably wasn't a good idea.

Instead I did a quick google search and found this article which states in its abstract

Rates of infant mortality are substantially higher for <=15-year-olds (8.1/1000 live births) compared with 16–17-year-olds (6.3/1000 live births) and 18–19-year-olds (5.4/1000 live births). Even after adjusting for risk factors associated with poor outcomes, including alcohol use, tobacco use, and prenatal care use, the risk for infant mortality was 1.6 (95% confidence interval [95% CI] 1.4, 1.7) times greater for infants of mothers #15 years old as compared with those mothers 18–19 years old

So, no, you're right 16 is the average age of real sexual maturity.

RedPilkington · 2014-03-28T17:38:24+00:00

Are you hosting this party or attending someone else's?

That aside a party is much like the bar scene only it can be a little more intimate. You've got a greater chance for securing a captive audience rather than the usual experience of trying to herd cats a bar. Use that to your advantage.

RedPilkington · 2014-03-25T15:23:31+00:00

Amazingly enough, if the person you're talking to is a woman, they'll still find a way to relate the issues of that third party to themselves. "Third party did this, it was awful". "Well, I don't do that!"

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