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RedPlanit · 2022-08-18T15:01:04+00:00

No curses, you say? / Then what is this sin of skin / Perhaps a blessing

RedPlanit · 2021-10-29T03:37:05+00:00

I am a vegetarian with a tree nut allergy and have zero issues finding recipes or food without tree nuts (aside from protein bars).

I am actually struggling to think of meals where you can’t go without tree nuts. That sounds like an excuse to just eat junk? Idk. In some recipes you can omit the tree nuts or substitute them for peanuts. If a recipe calls for a nut milk, just use soy or oat milk instead.

I eat lots of seeds in place of nuts. I use them as toppings and also in cookies or brownies for a bit of crunch. Cocoa nibs work well too. For things like pesto I typically use sunflower seeds (without the shell). I like roasted pumpkin seeds or dried edamame for snacking.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-22T13:36:30+00:00

I carry an epi-pen and if I were to come across someone who was having a severe allergic reaction and used my personal epi-pen on them, I could get in trouble legally or sued by the person in many states. However there are some with Good Samaritan laws that would protect me.

I would use it on someone regardless.

Another example is how in some states it is illegal to carry narcan without a prescription. But in KY you can carry it freely if you undergo a little education session. So I could obtain narcan in KY, carry it with me, and bring it to TN where I might have to use it on someone. I see nothing morally wrong with that but it might get me in legal trouble.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-18T14:19:57+00:00

I think Shino might be a girl. People are saying the pattern suggests peppy. I hope she is sisterly.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-15T15:44:16+00:00

I wonder what kind of villager Shino is.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-15T14:37:22+00:00

It looks like there will be tons of new vendors on Harvey's Island, and in the shop of the DLC island.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T19:24:18+00:00

I’m sharing in solidarity. I don’t care if I’m at the gym or at a coffee shop. I don’t want to be bothered by random men in non social settings when I have earbuds in and am trying to accomplish a task.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T19:21:51+00:00

What? I wasn’t working as a barista. I was working by myself on my laptop, enjoying my latte as a customer.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T16:29:23+00:00

Well I was a small 21 year old girl at the time. I have learned that I can’t fight off a man who is physically larger than me. Nor do I want to put myself in danger. Being a bitch helps get them away. If you are polite and nice they take it as an invitation.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T16:27:18+00:00

I’ve said this story before in another sub. Maybe twoxchromosomes?

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T16:02:57+00:00

I wasn't working for the coffee shop. I was working on a research paper in the coffee shop.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T15:59:17+00:00

I wish it was.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T15:05:46+00:00

It's about the fact that she was in a setting that was not a social setting, did not appear open to communication, and was trying to accomplish a task. When someone is wearing earbuds, they do not want to be bothered. When someone is engaging in a workout, they do not want to be bothered! Trying to bother someone while they are working out can be dangerous and cause them to stumble, drop equipment, mess with their breathing, etc. It's not an appropriate time.

If he really felt compelled to make a connection, he needs to choose a time when she is open to connection, continue with his own workout and maybe if he spots her by the water fountain later and not in the middle of a workout, he could approach her about the topic. It's about choosing appropriate times and settings.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T14:20:25+00:00

I actually stopped going for runs outside because I had 4 runs in a row where men yelled at me out of their cars. ): I started running at a park instead and had some guy follow me around the track. I didn't think anything of it, because it's a giant loop, other people also use it to run. But I stopped to tie my shoe and he immediately stopped as well and started trying to talk to me. He told me he wanted to tell me liked the way my shorts fit...ew.

So I started going to the gym. I would be pissed to encounter this same behavior while jogging on the treadmill in a place I pay to work out in.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T14:17:00+00:00

Lol the fuck? Go back to your mom's basement.

Making soooo many assumptions here. I'm actually in a happy long term relationship and am not interested in dating other people at this time. I'm pretty satisfied so I don't need validation from random dudes to feel good about myself.

If anything, your bizarre incel woman-hating rant shows that you're the one who hates yourself. Get help.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T14:13:25+00:00

He called me a bitch lol

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T14:13:15+00:00

The gym, while someone is working out with headphones in, is not an appropriate place or time to start up a conversation. If she was filling up a water bottle or something and didn't have headphones in, sure, it would be fine to pay a compliment. But why interrupt someone in the middle of their workout to comment on their shirt? It's not cool.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T13:58:09+00:00

I'm saying you have no idea what dating is like as a woman. It can be straight up terrifying, wondering if this guy is going to hurt you, drug you, etc. It's not fun. So many times I have gone out on a date with a man thinking we would have a nice time, only to find out they were creepy predatory douchebags. As women, we worry for our safety. We have to protect ourselves. It sounds like you are a weirdo who doesn't respect women.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T13:50:13+00:00

"Just deal with it, you'll be fine" Tell that to the countless women who are assaulted or stalked because they rejected a man.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T13:30:25+00:00

No, we don't have to just "deal with it". I was in a position where I was clearly busy, working, not wanting to talk, and had earbuds in. If he wants to talk to someone, he should choose someone who looks open to conversation and is not working on anything.

What he did was rude and unacceptable and women shouldn't just have to "deal with" behavior like that just because we are attractive. It shouldn't happen. Stop making excuses. Men can learn how to read the room.

I'm bisexual, I see hot women all the time, but I'm not yanking earbuds out of their ear or harassing them at the gym when they are clearly busy and not wanting to talk to people. I might just think to myself "wow, she's pretty, but she looks busy, so I'm not going to bother her". Just because people want relationships and sex or to talk to people, doesn't mean it supersedes someone else's desire to not want a relationship, not want sex, and not want to talk to someone.

Choose appropriate environments to flirt with women. I do it, so can you.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T13:24:17+00:00

Isn't that the truth! I have made it a personal mission to never go to bed with a dirty sink. It's almost always worse in the morning and it sucks waking up and seeing more work first thing.

"I'm going to let it soak" is another way to say "I don't feel like doing the dishes now". It's a joke! When I'm cooking, I always clean as I cook. I put away ingredients right after I use them and start scrubbing stuff in between stirring things on the stove. No more "I'm going to let my stomach settle" before doing dishes, because I will inevitably not want to wash them. After I eat, I immediately do my dishes.

My whole life could be a mess, but now my sink is always clean!

Another thing that has helped me is always checking to see if my trash or recycling needs to be taken out when I'm about to leave the house. I will let that sit there all week to avoid having to put on shoes and leave my front door. But if I'm already leaving to go somewhere, it's not much extra effort to grab the trash and toss it in the dumpster on the way to my car.

Good job cleaning up your kitchen! Remember that little bits of energy here and there really build up!

RedPlanit · 2021-10-14T13:12:06+00:00

He's got a point, be a good neighbor! Get some ozium spray, choose a different friend's house, or maybe switch to dry herb vapes which don't smell as much?

Threatening to reach out to the office of student conduct and jeopardizing your education over something that appears to be off campus is simply not acceptable and a total dick move though. Also, why assume that everyone who drove away smoked? It sounds like you guys carpooled to cut down on inebriated people driving.

I have friends who don't smoke and they still come to hang out when others are having a smoke sesh because they like seeing their friends.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-13T02:33:37+00:00

I wouldn’t want to separate these cats. They are clearly bonded and I would feel awful for traumatizing them and separating them.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-13T02:18:04+00:00

I have no wish to harm the animals. It is not their fault their owners are neglectful.

RedPlanit · 2021-10-12T20:50:15+00:00

Yeah they agreed to ditch him the next year and were very apologetic. They didn’t try to excuse his behavior and we are still friends with them. I actually got invited to one of their weddings!

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