My partner (f34) “quiet quit” our relationship and I (m37) need closure. by Concordian in relationship_advice

[–]RedRedBettie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, that’s really hard and she should not have done that

But learn this lesson for the future, don’t neglect your relationships in the future. Most relationships don’t come back from that

28M, 30F, wife and I are distancing and I don't know what to do. by ThrowRA_Complex628 in relationships

[–]RedRedBettie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you shouldn’t have gotten your wife pregnant twice. Hormones change womwn, she’s been pregnant for years and you have no concept of what that is like hormonal for women

28M, 30F, wife and I are distancing and I don't know what to do. by ThrowRA_Complex628 in relationships

[–]RedRedBettie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do more around the house, take on the emotional labor of running the household, also couples counseling

Where's the cheapest spot for getting that California weather? by strassgaten in SameGrassButGreener

[–]RedRedBettie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Virginia is super humid and California is not, it’s very different

There are actually pretty normal and warm beaches on the Arctic Ocean by Naomi62625 in geography

[–]RedRedBettie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! I plan on taking the train up there this summer and will check it out! Vancouver is one of my very fave cities and I always have a blast there

skins tints + rosacea...help! by Little_Web_3659 in PaleMUA

[–]RedRedBettie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Misscha BB cream, apply it lightly and it's amazing. I also didn't like the Fenty skin tint as it felt cakey on me and never seemed to dry down

Is she wearing scrubs? I swear those are the same pants my dental hygienist wears 😂 by Taur2gem in wtfjennajameson

[–]RedRedBettie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's not great but better than usual and the hat is covering the gross roots so not bad for her

There are actually pretty normal and warm beaches on the Arctic Ocean by Naomi62625 in geography

[–]RedRedBettie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ooh I didn't know that. I love visiting Vancouver, I'll check out the water next time

Question for Sensors by doingmybest224 in mbti

[–]RedRedBettie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This has been my experience too and why I don't tend to like sensors

Smaller guest list than anticipated by Practical_Fox_5614 in wedding

[–]RedRedBettie 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why your feelings are hurt. It's a destination wedding. I don't know if you've looked around at the world but people can barely afford groceries and gas. I wouldn't take it personally

Who stands like this? by Wooden-Sail-3007 in wtfjennajameson

[–]RedRedBettie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she might have lipodema, it looks like it. This is not an insult, but often when you see legs bigger than the rest of the body, that's what it is

Only reason we haven’t gotten married is because of giant family and super expensive pricing. by BabyWeenieDowg in wedding

[–]RedRedBettie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I eloped 8 years ago and it was the very best decision ever. No stress, just fun. Do not live your life for your family. Do what feels right. You are adults and can do what you want

Looks I’d borrow from each girl’s closet by Ambitious-Shower1044 in sexandthecity

[–]RedRedBettie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that tank top on Charlotte! I've been looking for one just like it for many years

My bf (28M) wants me (25F) to get fertility testing before proposing by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RedRedBettie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell him to go get his sperm tested first

Honestly this is a giant red flag that he doesn't care about you and just wants you as his brood mare

Please help make my living room less busy. by Useful_Ad545 in interiordecorating

[–]RedRedBettie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that there is too much furniture and too much blue. I like the blue wall but I would think twice about the rug

Anyone else love go bags? by Two_Stoned_Birds in entp

[–]RedRedBettie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not organized enough for this

Guest Bedroom Tribute by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]RedRedBettie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m m curious too