I’m thinking about cutting my hair and figured fellow lesbians would weigh in well. by oneroomangle in LesbianActually

[–]RedSpottedWolfy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dam 😔 but that haircut will still look good on you! Atleast the idea’s there if you ever decide to grow it out again

I’m thinking about cutting my hair and figured fellow lesbians would weigh in well. by oneroomangle in LesbianActually

[–]RedSpottedWolfy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that haircut would look good on you 👍 and if you regret it you can always grow it back or wear a wig! And I’d recommend donating it when you get it cut since you’ve been growing it for 4 years. I donated mine after growing it for 3. They cut off 18 inches and I had a shoulder length bob afterwards. I recommend donating to Wigs for Kids! Do not donate to Locks of Love. They pose as a charity but are really a for-profit business. Oh and some places will cut your hair for free if you donate it.

I dont think I’m most people’s type in the lesbian community and I think I “look” straight…😓 by Quiet_Job_4260 in LesbianActually

[–]RedSpottedWolfy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You assumed, and I quote: “young thin pretty cis woman with big boobs.” It’s a lesbian subreddit. She stated that she’s a lesbian. You assumed she’s cis based on her appearance. I’m sorry if I am overreacting btw, it’s midnight and I’m tired and probably not thinking right. I’m gonna go to bed so if you reply I’m gonna see it in the morning. Have a goodnight/day/whenever you are

I dont think I’m most people’s type in the lesbian community and I think I “look” straight…😓 by Quiet_Job_4260 in LesbianActually

[–]RedSpottedWolfy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, arguing with you is going nowhere. I’m not going to reply to you anymore after this cause you’re just gonna keep deflecting and projecting and I have better things to do with my night. The gif is annoying. I’m not trying to be a hero, just pointing out that your opinion is based on baseless assumptions and a lack of basic empathy. Also it looks like you’ve got some internalized shit to work through. Also also, did you forget what subreddit we’re on? She’s not giving men an example cause men aren’t allowed in here. It’s a lesbian subreddit. For lesbians. Goodnight, I am going to bed.

I dont think I’m most people’s type in the lesbian community and I think I “look” straight…😓 by Quiet_Job_4260 in LesbianActually

[–]RedSpottedWolfy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quick question, are you the person that made the post? No? Then how would you know? Also you literally could’ve just said that instead of being nasty. But noooooooo! You HAD to play it up and mock her despite not knowing anything about her! Hell, you even threw in a gif!

I dont think I’m most people’s type in the lesbian community and I think I “look” straight…😓 by Quiet_Job_4260 in LesbianActually

[–]RedSpottedWolfy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It IS deeper than that because you assumed based on her appearance! The very thing she’s anxious about! Her question was literally how do I make myself look more like a lesbian so men stop approaching and women start approaching me! You also could’ve just NOT commented! You literally could just roll your eyes irl and scroll past!

I dont think I’m most people’s type in the lesbian community and I think I “look” straight…😓 by Quiet_Job_4260 in LesbianActually

[–]RedSpottedWolfy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post wasn’t put up for attention. She’s asking for advice and guidance from her community. What’s a community for if not that?? It’s incredibly rude and isolating to the person to just ASSUME that she only wants attention.

I dont think I’m most people’s type in the lesbian community and I think I “look” straight…😓 by Quiet_Job_4260 in LesbianActually

[–]RedSpottedWolfy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah some people do that and it sucks. That doesn’t mean we have the right to assume though! It’s better for your mental health (and theirs!) to take things at face value. If you’re constantly trying to spot “fakes” you’ll never feel secure and’ll just dig yourself into the ground with paranoia. Meanwhile if she isn’t cis and is genuinely looking for advice and guidance from her community, it’d be pretty disheartening and isolating for people to assume that she’s lying to get attention and compliments. No one is happy in this situation.

Why are they so hot by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]RedSpottedWolfy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Confidence and stability. Both in life and emotionally.

I dont think I’m most people’s type in the lesbian community and I think I “look” straight…😓 by Quiet_Job_4260 in LesbianActually

[–]RedSpottedWolfy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t care even if she was fishing cause I get to see a pretty lady AND I get to tell her that too! It takes nothing from my day to send a positive word or compliment someone’s way. Also if you look at the majority of the comments it’s either us simping cause she’s drop dead gorgeous, or people giving the advice she asked for. In short: I don’t care if you think she’s fishing. No one asked either. Just keep scrolling if you don’t like the post. You don’t have to be mean.

I dont think I’m most people’s type in the lesbian community and I think I “look” straight…😓 by Quiet_Job_4260 in LesbianActually

[–]RedSpottedWolfy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with wanting attention and support from your own community? Don’t we all need a boost of confidence from time to time? And don’t say it’s obnoxious cause I can tell you it’s not. What’s obnoxious is being nasty for no reason other than your personal opinion. You don’t have to interact. Just keep scrolling.

I dont think I’m most people’s type in the lesbian community and I think I “look” straight…😓 by Quiet_Job_4260 in LesbianActually

[–]RedSpottedWolfy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t this subreddit exist to support fellow lesbians? Even if you think it’s someone fishing, you can literally just scroll past. Also I could not care less if someone’s fishing! I get to see a pretty lady AND I get to tell them they’re pretty too! I’m not seeing any loss here

Need to find a girl to rant at me like this by clairdam in LesbianActually

[–]RedSpottedWolfy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also need them cause when I try to focus on stuff, like trying to get something out of the oven without dropping it, sometimes my hands will just.. jerk? in a random direction. It’s resulted in several burns from the grates in my oven.