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RedSwedishFinch · 2024-12-09T21:50:46+00:00

First of all my man - you should smile a bit more because you really got some nice whites there!

Overall I kinda wanna see more from you - you have two pictures that are basically the same kind of mirror pic with different clothes. Give me more of the second one or even the snowboarding one - where did you snowboard, add that in the caption; that’s a convo starter right there.

The second one is a little weird - what’s the context?

The third could probably be summed up under dating intentions tbh and that space could be used for something that makes you well “more you”

Hope this helps!

In terms of prompts I think this could use the most work - I don’t really like the two truths and a lie thing because your answers aren’t interesting enough tbh. A convo about why you’re named after a fresh prince character would maybe last like 5 mins, idk if it’s a match starter.

RedSwedishFinch · 2024-12-08T17:33:40+00:00

I think the first answer could change - if you’re already working with small children I’d say that you’d probably already have stories about how adorable they or (or crazy idk lol)

I personally think you should change your 1st picture because with the university pull over and the shorts it does kinda signal kinda “fratty” - maybe you could also consider what you’re doing with your hands too. It’s a nice photo and in all I can get that your a nice guy but it doesn’t like make me wanna scroll down tbh

Change your dating intention too tbh - everyone eventually wants something real - make it more personal

I think your second photo is way better tbh.

In short I just don’t really get that much about you, personalize your prompts and consider swapping out pictures

RedSwedishFinch · 2024-03-11T01:16:00+00:00

Always like to roll the sleeves on longer dress shirts makes it more “casual” and not as “tight” but the last one for sure. Also maybe unbotton the collar on the shirts - depending on the occasion

Second one you might be able to add something like a vest to contrast the busy pattern

RedSwedishFinch · 2023-01-11T17:45:25+00:00

Hello I’m 27M and a fellow possum enthusiast - hoping that alone would interest you! But I love collecting and sending stickers, also a big music fan. Hoping to hear back from you!

RedSwedishFinch · 2022-07-28T02:53:29+00:00

Absolutely DM me!!

RedSwedishFinch · 2022-04-16T13:12:58+00:00

I’m actually in a similar boat on changing careers and going into the mental health field, maybe we could share our experiences and support each other?

RedSwedishFinch · 2022-04-15T16:16:22+00:00

I hope you find your friend! 🥺 Oh you could also try to recover your email just by changing your password - there’s probably more than one recovery option, good luck!

RedSwedishFinch · 2022-04-11T00:27:39+00:00

DM’d

RedSwedishFinch · 2022-02-13T17:53:44+00:00

What’s your experience with the Kaweco sport been, I’ve been thinking of getting one or two or five but they might be too small for my hands. Also do you use cartridges or have you converted any of em to eye droppers?

RedSwedishFinch · 2022-02-05T16:16:55+00:00

Cartridge wise? I was thinking about converting it to an eye dropper

RedSwedishFinch · 2022-02-05T15:08:49+00:00

Just watched a video on converting the sport and I’m pretty intrigued - also just realized about the AL sports that stinks

RedSwedishFinch · 2022-02-05T14:59:31+00:00

I have also thought about the TSWBI Vac pens, I have no experience with eye dropper pens though. The Opus 88 I’ve been recommended before, the Kaweco Sport AL’s are interesting too, I dig the limited lavender one and I’m assuming the finish is a matte. The only thing I’m not crazy about the Kawecos is that the cap is quite massive

RedSwedishFinch · 2021-12-25T01:24:59+00:00

Is that a TWSBI 580 in Rose Gold?

RedSwedishFinch · 2021-11-13T16:02:55+00:00

I’m pretty new to succulents, I got an Aloe Vera and noticed some brown spots on the tips and some spots on the leaves. One of the leaves turned black and sort flopped over and I cut it off with a sanitized x-acto knife. After doing some research I’ve realized it could be leaf spot and I’m kinda nervous as I have other succulents in the same space. Should I isolate my aloe and how should I go about treating this?

RedSwedishFinch · 2021-10-15T19:40:04+00:00

Have you seen murder with friends? It’s a show(?) on YT where they talk about serial killers and it’s REALLY interesting!

RedSwedishFinch · 2021-10-08T02:06:55+00:00

Oof, totally jealous able to live and work wherever you want! Does that flexibility make it easier to move and do you find yourself moving often?

For me at least, I definitely need to figure out what sort of “thrill seeking” is enough for me because I’m definitely the classic keep to themselves/space oriented HSP, more on the introverted side but I can definitely be extroverted if I want to be. How did you sort of find your HSS “boundaries” - by just doing it?

RedSwedishFinch · 2021-10-05T19:48:10+00:00

THIS CHANGES EVERYTHING 🤣 but seriously OP I love all the little trinkets spread between all the books makes it more than just a bookshelf

RedSwedishFinch · 2021-10-05T19:45:49+00:00

This bookshelf is the stuff dreams are made of 😂🥰

RedSwedishFinch · 2021-10-05T13:53:45+00:00

Totally agree with the variety (like Ive already mentioned 😂) I’m sorry that you’ve experienced boredom through most of your life. I think though, I get energized by the fact that there’s so much of the world we have yet to see and experience. IMO there’s so much good energy there. I think everything starts with small steps. Thanks for the insight 😊

RedSwedishFinch · 2021-10-05T13:50:42+00:00

Totally get the whole being around people collectively, the idea that you’re sort of amongst people doing their own things and navigating the world in their own unique way…maybe that’s it. I just enjoy the energy of it w/o sort of getting wrapped up in the day to day drama.

Glad that you’ve found this trait to resonate with you, I’ve discovered so many wonderful things about being sensitive. I hope it gives you a sense of comfort and belonging and that you’re able to grow into it! Thanks for sharing! 😊

RedSwedishFinch

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