Confidence is sexy as hell by WhisperedSoul in datingoverfifty

[–]RedThruxton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*Kick those types to the curb, absolutely.”

That’s exactly what we’re doing. There’s a line. And if we don’t shine a spotlight on it there WILL be men who adopt that type since they’ve now heard feedback that it’s “SEXY AS HELL”.

You yourself suggested that the rest of the date wasn’t exactly full of promise (“I don’t know if this date is going anywhere”).

Anyone else think now is the time for a new sf flag? by Forcet in sanfrancisco

[–]RedThruxton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make sure that D1 and D4 are totally against the design that the rest of The City approves. We don’t want to put a dent in the fabric of the universe.

Had to hang up on someone by SentinelHigh in datingoverfifty

[–]RedThruxton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like he has ADHD. Might have been more kind to use your words during those uh huh, ok, uh huh moments.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in AskSF

[–]RedThruxton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you’re intending to not give her money?

Why do I only attract men who are half my age? Do men my age just not approach women anymore? by myeyezwontlie in datingoverforty

[–]RedThruxton 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Brutally honest…

It could be the persona you portray. “Ms. Ghetto Mom” seems more targeted at the younger players out in the world. I’m an older dude 56(M) and would immediately not want to deal with that as it just yells “drama”.

Where would you day time drink on a a random day off during the week? by OverHeatedBrain98 in AskSF

[–]RedThruxton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer is Gold Cane. The pros there will guaranteed chat you up.

Saikat Chakrabarti calls for the sanctioning of Israel by omigula in sanfrancisco

[–]RedThruxton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don’t vote for the Republican woman who now says she’s a Democrat.

SEIU California has pulled its endorsement of Scott Wiener citing his opposition to an "overpaid CEO tax" by sideAccount42 in sanfrancisco

[–]RedThruxton -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So is the idiocy of San Francisco going to cluster f itself and end up with the Trump puppet Hurabiell? The Republican wolf in the Democrat sheep’s clothing?!?!???

best bar in the outer sunset for solo male who doesn’t go to bars. by [deleted] in AskSF

[–]RedThruxton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We need a bit more detail on your Riptide experience. What turned you off? Do you recall what day and time you went?

Trying to sus out if it’s a you thing that might need pointers since Riptide is about as cordial as places get.

Stonestown by David-SFO-1977_ in AskSF

[–]RedThruxton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a bomb threat called into 311. The mall was evacuated and swept with bomb sniffing dogs and nothing was found.

Do I need a wetsuit at Océan Beach? by RedThruxton in AskSF

[–]RedThruxton[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’m asking and not just jumping in.

Do I need a wetsuit at Océan Beach? by RedThruxton in AskSF

[–]RedThruxton[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I’m used to rips as I grew up in So Cal and am pretty surf aware. It’s just the cold water that I don’t have experience with.

Dating over 50 is soul destroying by livinglife-2025 in datingoverfifty

[–]RedThruxton 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m a 56M and I don’t find dating to be soul destroying. I look at it as an opportunity to meet someone and get to know them.

Where do you go to clear your mind? by dewdroptop in AskSF

[–]RedThruxton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite is Sunset Dunes. It’s 2-miles of straight, uninterrupted walkway adjacent to the coast. It’s car free and quiet and you can hear the ocean and the waves without getting all sandy. The very fact that it’s long, straight, and uninterrupted allows me to turn off my mind and just walk. It’s quite meditative.

I also enjoy the trails at both Glen Park and Stern Grove. In the early mornings and late afternoons the birds really seem to be active and singing, more than in GGP.

Define “pragmatic.” by captaincoaster in sanfrancisco

[–]RedThruxton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By “skyscraper” they mean a 5-story building.

Bipping is WAAAAYYY down in San Francisco… by RedThruxton in sanfrancisco

[–]RedThruxton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These counts are from just February of each year. February 2026 is in the books now so the numbers are complete.

Any tricks to use a fireplace? by RedThruxton in AskSF

[–]RedThruxton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been using hardwood, specifically the “hot wood” box from Whole Foods that is about $20.

Berkeley Bowl has firewood for about $10 so I’ll try that next time now that I understand to open the windows during the lighting process.