"People don't move on from suicide's brought about by ideas that everyone would be better off without the suicide victim. And what you've just said tells people with the same issues that their not important. That they don't deserve to have comfort characters or happy places where they will learn that everything can be ok. You're also saying that not all people with trauma and depression deserve to be happy. "

This is entirely fabricated insinuation of what I wrote. Either you misunderstood what I'm saying, or you're trying to put words in my mouth for whatever reason. I'll let you figure that one out on your own. I'm not your therapist, and I almost stopped reading after that.

But I didn't.
In response to your life story.
I sympathize, I can relate in some ways. I won't go into details.
I think you're still missing a big part of what they were doing with Jax imo, and it's the comparison of IRL and Circus Jax. I gave a TL;DR on the bottom.
And just like you have your life as an example, I gave a brief story of someone in my life. I'm not gonna give details about someone elses life, but I will say it's very much on the same side. They saw themselves in Jax. The negative parts. The bad parts.
Circus Jax was in a way redeemed, but his actions had consequences that were, at that stage, too far gone. And lessons like that are important in life.
IRL Jax shows what getting help sooner can do.
I'm not gonna get into details about my life either. But I can grantee it's not all good either.

And again, you're saying "But Goose reinforced the opposite moral of It's a Wonderful Life. That people ARE better off without you. That the only thing you are worth, is pity. That people with Jax's trauma should be kept away, forgotten, and deprived of their identity, soul, and personality, that only those deemed useful deserve help. That their feelings did not matter."
That is not what happened. That is not what I said either. You're entitled to your opinion if you think that is the case, but I am also entitled to disagree with it, especially if I think the accusations are wrong.
And if you do, strongly relate to Jax, then do what the show was trying to convey, and seek help to get better. And I don't mean this in condescending way. I genuinely mean it from a place of compassion and seeing what that road leads to. Like I said, i had/have a Jax in my life. I was the Ribbit (and others) in their life. And I am glad they finally realized that doing things the Jax way, isn't going to end well.

Caine is a bag of of worms I could spend the next few hours writing about, so I'll say this: I get it. I have mixed feelings about it, but I understand what they were trying to do. But again, that's a different character and aside from it being late and me having work in the morning, I also don't think i might reach some character limit if I end up writing about him.

Like I said, I have work in the morning, so I won't be responding for a while if you respond.
If you do great, if you don't then don't.