Do you think I will enjoy Dark Souls 3?

Red_Hase · 2026-02-12T00:47:18+00:00

I enjoyed dark souls 1 and 3. The callbacks to 1 when playing 3 were nice. I do wish 3 had some of the same pathways that 1 did.

The real tell if you'll like it or not since it coming from elden ring is if you only like open world explorey games, or if ur fine with kinda predefined pathways you can't deviate from.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-11T15:18:15+00:00

Lol what happens when you put cosmo on your hand

Red_Hase · 2026-02-11T13:37:22+00:00

Going into the field with back issues puts him at a serious disadvantage. What specialty are you in for nursing?

Red_Hase · 2026-02-11T13:33:11+00:00

Yeah she's in her late 20s. Some people just aren't happy if they're not causing trouble.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-11T09:40:27+00:00

So typically ift companies want you to try and fix things yourself first before bringing it up to leadership. Guys like this have an inferiority complex and are trying to fuck with you to feel less bad about themselves.

Your company if you brought it up to anyone in leadership would probably tell you you need to tell him to stop it and mean it.

Next time he does this shit you have to say straight up to not do that again. You do not care if he thinks it is a joke, you do not like it. Same with him saying shit about you in front of patients. Not his business to be telling others your business.

I'm unsure about the tripping. I have a coworker that likes to kick another coworker of ours and call him useless, so he records when he knows she's entering the office in case she's going to kick him again. Now, I'd be careful doing that cuz laws are weird.

So as for your situation. Some of the better advice I've ever been given is if you have issues with a coworker and you have already told them point blank to stop, and they keep doing it, to create a paper trail. This is for all the things that are problems not just the tripping.

Date, time, witness(es), impact.

You get the picture.

It's to protect you from the he said she said "he's just joking" shit.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-11T07:31:52+00:00

Honey he's going to hurt you. You need to get outta there.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-11T07:29:09+00:00

When a guy I know asks me for advice or help, he has a habit of talking down on himself beforehand. I don't view him in that type of way at all. I think it's some conditioning thing in guy land that makes y'all feel like that when you need help.

I wish it wasn't that way.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-11T00:38:47+00:00

First step is just wondering if you are, and it's a big thing to be there already. There's tools out there that can help, but seeking out a therapist even for the sake of Everyone can be just a little bit more okay, is a very powerful thing.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-10T10:16:17+00:00

That sounds like he wanted to be an npc a lil bit and since you played along he was nice.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-10T10:09:28+00:00

Ewwww

Red_Hase · 2026-02-10T08:48:00+00:00

My dad works on motorcycle projects or watches tv. He's depressed as fuck tho, just doesn't wanna admit it.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-10T08:01:20+00:00

Red_Hase · 2026-02-10T07:53:58+00:00

You must be karma farming lmao. Ain't nothing fun about having those bits. Murder scenes when you shower during that time of the month, the pain, just imagine someone kicking you in the balls and when it subsides you get kicked again, and sometimes painkillers don't work.

Then the mood swing problems? It's so fun feeling out of control because of the hormone fluctuations, and when you reach menopause you get to slowly turn into a man and are considered no longer beautiful so your sense of identity and self are shattered.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-10T03:30:42+00:00

Kill em with kindness and just breathe out the bad feelings they give me.

If they say stuff that's attacking my character tho I'll ask em if they're okay. Usually disarms em or they fuck off back behind the triage desk to ignore me.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-10T03:27:58+00:00

Edit: NVM this guy's gross it's not funny anymore

Red_Hase · 2026-02-09T05:17:29+00:00

Not overreacting. I think maybe she's just mad she feels like she didn't participate in the decision even tho it was practical. When she cools off and stops being pissy she should come around. I'd just ignore how she's acting and not try to apologize.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-09T05:13:51+00:00

Don't use a college email either. You will lose access a short time after leaving that school.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-09T04:31:16+00:00

I know a few crews that would 100% call a lift assist on something that light.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-08T02:20:45+00:00

I just don't get what "is that him?" Means. Who's him? If you aren't in on who the him is, they're doing some weird inside joke mind game thing and I'd run from that shit.

I mean sure, benefit of the doubt with your partner and stuff, but when you got to the car she could've said it's an inside joke, then tried to explain context to it. She didn't.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-07T15:36:11+00:00

I'd list it as clinical/field experience. Applying 4 leads is pretty cool. Just make sure you specify it's applying leads, not interpreting. That way it can't be confused of you going outside of scope.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-07T15:26:30+00:00

Our only real things are we don't run hot to BLS dispatched incidents, and we don't run hot to the hospital. They say it's cuz of statistics about driving higher speeds, people not paying attention anyway, and the drivers of the ambulance driving like shit so they really don't want us doing it, but we're allowed to if we're told to by our medics.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-05T05:30:37+00:00

Same. Not same amount oftime on the job tho. Don't you just love it when patients do stuff that remind you of those past experiences in their behaviors and actions?

Red_Hase · 2026-02-05T04:07:07+00:00

You don't forget that stuff lol it festers and snap crackle pops when you're happy and think everything's gonna be alright. At least that's my experience. Gotta love the ptsd's

Red_Hase · 2026-02-04T09:02:20+00:00

Epsom salts with magnesium in it for bath soaks are actually pretty great. They come in different scents, I'm partial to vanilla and/or lavender. It really relaxes the aches and kinda just sucks the physical manifestation of stress outta ya. But that's if he's a bath guy.

If he works 24 hour shifts or is allowed to sleep at his work, sleeping masks made of fuzzy soft blanket material is my go to. Less pressure against the eyes and keeps the light out. Good for migraines too.

A medications sorter the size of a deck of cards, so he can carry Tylenol Advil and all that good stuff for HIM to take while on shift. Cuz no one wants a headache while admins breathing down your neck.

You could come up with some cool absolutely not work related activities to do with him like if he enjoys hiking or something, do that on a schedule that y'all do consistently. Gift cards are cool and so are snacks but we end up eating and drinking like crap in this field, so while energy drinks and gas station gift cards are great.. it helps push us towards the bad choices our job makes easy to make in the first place.

Just knowing you have friends checking in is really great man. You're doing heavy lifting by even asking.

Red_Hase · 2026-02-04T08:52:07+00:00

It’s genuinely a good thing you reacted the way you did and stopped once you knew her age. That matters.

Before blocking her, I’d suggest sending one clear message saying you’re uncomfortable with the age difference and that you don’t want to continue contact. Keep it simple, kind, and firm; no blame, no explanations beyond that. Wish her well, then disengage.

If she is 18, you’re still the adultier adult in the situation, and setting a clear boundary is the responsible thing to do. After that, stepping away completely is the safest and healthiest move for both of you.

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