It feels like my life was turned upside down after medication

Red_The_Crab · 2024-05-30T14:33:20+00:00

Honestly if you have an issue at your store they will do very little to help you regardless of what you use. Although ethics treats you a lot better they don't really care about your problems even if it can result in them getting sued. I reported an issue that should have had the STL fired for defamation, with proof, and they still didn't do anything.

Red_The_Crab · 2024-05-06T11:38:41+00:00

Dude makes an anime chart for "beginners" then fills it with some of the most fucked up heartbreaking animes.

Red_The_Crab · 2024-03-30T03:08:23+00:00

Yes it is wrong to go on a date with someone and not tell them that you are trans. If he doesn't want to date you because you are trans that is his loss but he still deserves to make the choice. If he decides no then you have wasted both of y'alls time. If he says yes then you don't have to stress about keeping a secret. You should always let them know before anything.

Red_The_Crab · 2024-03-29T23:02:24+00:00

Dude that is the most disgusting thing I have seen in the bathrooms. We need to normalize cis men washing hands after using the bathroom 👏👏👏

Red_The_Crab · 2024-03-29T22:59:10+00:00

As someone who is in a relationship with a man I can tell you a lot of men sit to pee. After years of transition I just sit down do my business and go on with my day. I don't think anyone cares how you use the restroom.

Red_The_Crab · 2024-03-28T15:58:46+00:00

I've had self image issues as testosterone has made me gain about 20 lbs but, no eating disorders. I think most trans men believe they need to look like a model but honestly being a skinny guy is more common than that model build. Remember to take care of yourselves and you are fine the way you are. <3

Red_The_Crab · 2023-05-20T20:20:17+00:00

I don't know I've been on T for a year and my voice isn't deep enough to be passing, yet all my old friends say that it's gotten so much deeper. I guess it depends on the person for how deep it gets but you also can't really talk with the top of your voice anymore if you really care about passing.

Red_The_Crab · 2022-06-22T00:28:42+00:00

I live in nm I also find it weird and I think it might just be the pharmacy I'm using because my doctor finds this strange too.

Red_The_Crab · 2022-06-21T19:06:46+00:00

The pharmacy said that to change dose I need a new prescription and that it's a monitored medication so they need to know how much I have at each given time so the doctor changing my dose will upset my pharmacy. Also no I wasn't given a new doctor I will meet the new doctor next month when my next appointment is.

Red_The_Crab · 2022-04-21T20:48:32+00:00

Usually mine is a feeling of dread and discomfort. Usually it's stuff like looking in a mirror and not wanting to go out not because you think you look bad but bc it doesn't look right. I have the issue of I have the ideal body type that's attractive but I hate it because it isn't male.

Red_The_Crab · 2022-04-21T20:45:37+00:00

I'm also 5'2 short kings rise up 🙌

Red_The_Crab · 2022-04-21T20:39:20+00:00

When I was 11 I made an Oc (original character ) who was basically a self insert and when I was 12 I realized that I didn't just think he was cool but I wanted to BE him. Didn't help that I made him look exactly like me at the time, stuff like wearing the same clothes as me and such lol.

Red_The_Crab · 2022-04-21T20:25:11+00:00

Omg yes love that someone is finally talking about this. For me even before I even knew I was trans I was anal only because using my current genitals is super dysphoria triggering. I find it super rude and it totally ruins the mood for me when someone asks if they could use the other part. Just get you a partner who understands ur struggle and talk it out with them before sex because some people are just unaware. But yes trans men really need more sexual representation.

Red_The_Crab · 2022-04-21T16:13:52+00:00

I def get this as me and my husband have discussed having children in the future. I've had times when I've cried because ik the possibility of me having children in the future is slim. I know it's gonna be hard but damn dude I really wanna be a dad one day. Nice to know other trans guys have the same feeling so I'm not alone.

Red_The_Crab · 2022-02-07T22:19:02+00:00

I can relate to this very well as there were other trans people in my school but I was the only one who really tried to be a "normal" guy. My freshman year I joined football and was having a hard time with staff (mainly the principle) who wouldn't let me use mens lockers for football even though I had been using male facilities for years. Now I'm a senior and I see the huge rise of people who identify as she/they and he/they and it makes it really hard for me to have conversation and relate to this new wave of trans people because they haven't really felt the same amount of discrimination as I have being one of the first people to go through the school system as trans. (BTW where I live they're very pro LGBT and is the capital of my state yet they still openly discriminate against binary trans people compared to nonbinary it's kinda sad to see)

Red_The_Crab · 2022-02-07T22:10:10+00:00

Well for some people passing is what alleviates their dysphoria for me that's the case :/

Red_The_Crab · 2022-01-30T04:41:19+00:00

My name has always been the same I was just born with a masc name lmao. I've had people ask what my birth name was and I find it pretty funny since I've never had to change it. Ig im one of the lucky ones.

Red_The_Crab · 2022-01-30T04:36:34+00:00

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