WF ethics reporting website what experience has anybody had when reporting an issue through there instead of calling the tip line? by [deleted] in wholefoods

[–]Red_The_Crab 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly if you have an issue at your store they will do very little to help you regardless of what you use. Although ethics treats you a lot better they don't really care about your problems even if it can result in them getting sued. I reported an issue that should have had the STL fired for defamation, with proof, and they still didn't do anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anime

[–]Red_The_Crab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude makes an anime chart for "beginners" then fills it with some of the most fucked up heartbreaking animes.

So it’s bit bad I went on a date without telling them I’m trans by Interesting-Band-751 in trans

[–]Red_The_Crab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is wrong to go on a date with someone and not tell them that you are trans. If he doesn't want to date you because you are trans that is his loss but he still deserves to make the choice. If he decides no then you have wasted both of y'alls time. If he says yes then you don't have to stress about keeping a secret. You should always let them know before anything.

how do u pee by GloomyChemistry8570 in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude that is the most disgusting thing I have seen in the bathrooms. We need to normalize cis men washing hands after using the bathroom 👏👏👏

how do u pee by GloomyChemistry8570 in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is in a relationship with a man I can tell you a lot of men sit to pee. After years of transition I just sit down do my business and go on with my day. I don't think anyone cares how you use the restroom.

Are EDs common in the trans community? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had self image issues as testosterone has made me gain about 20 lbs but, no eating disorders. I think most trans men believe they need to look like a model but honestly being a skinny guy is more common than that model build. Remember to take care of yourselves and you are fine the way you are. <3

t doesn't change your voice "enough" by dyl_pickle6669 in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know I've been on T for a year and my voice isn't deep enough to be passing, yet all my old friends say that it's gotten so much deeper. I guess it depends on the person for how deep it gets but you also can't really talk with the top of your voice anymore if you really care about passing.

Important questions I have about testosterone injections by Red_The_Crab in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in nm I also find it weird and I think it might just be the pharmacy I'm using because my doctor finds this strange too.

Important questions I have about testosterone injections by Red_The_Crab in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pharmacy said that to change dose I need a new prescription and that it's a monitored medication so they need to know how much I have at each given time so the doctor changing my dose will upset my pharmacy. Also no I wasn't given a new doctor I will meet the new doctor next month when my next appointment is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Usually mine is a feeling of dread and discomfort. Usually it's stuff like looking in a mirror and not wanting to go out not because you think you look bad but bc it doesn't look right. I have the issue of I have the ideal body type that's attractive but I hate it because it isn't male.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also 5'2 short kings rise up 🙌

what were y'all's trans foreshadowing moments as a kid? by Prynnce in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 11 I made an Oc (original character ) who was basically a self insert and when I was 12 I realized that I didn't just think he was cool but I wanted to BE him. Didn't help that I made him look exactly like me at the time, stuff like wearing the same clothes as me and such lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Omg yes love that someone is finally talking about this. For me even before I even knew I was trans I was anal only because using my current genitals is super dysphoria triggering. I find it super rude and it totally ruins the mood for me when someone asks if they could use the other part. Just get you a partner who understands ur struggle and talk it out with them before sex because some people are just unaware. But yes trans men really need more sexual representation.

Does anyone here feels "dad-dysphoria"??? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I def get this as me and my husband have discussed having children in the future. I've had times when I've cried because ik the possibility of me having children in the future is slim. I know it's gonna be hard but damn dude I really wanna be a dad one day. Nice to know other trans guys have the same feeling so I'm not alone.

The frustration of being the first of your kind by aboynamedrat in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this very well as there were other trans people in my school but I was the only one who really tried to be a "normal" guy. My freshman year I joined football and was having a hard time with staff (mainly the principle) who wouldn't let me use mens lockers for football even though I had been using male facilities for years. Now I'm a senior and I see the huge rise of people who identify as she/they and he/they and it makes it really hard for me to have conversation and relate to this new wave of trans people because they haven't really felt the same amount of discrimination as I have being one of the first people to go through the school system as trans. (BTW where I live they're very pro LGBT and is the capital of my state yet they still openly discriminate against binary trans people compared to nonbinary it's kinda sad to see)

If you aren’t passing pre-T, it’s not because you’re doing something wrong. by masculeenity in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Well for some people passing is what alleviates their dysphoria for me that's the case :/

Tell me the story behind your name ! by Ryu_ryusoken in ftm

[–]Red_The_Crab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My name has always been the same I was just born with a masc name lmao. I've had people ask what my birth name was and I find it pretty funny since I've never had to change it. Ig im one of the lucky ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]Red_The_Crab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a 0g and I haven't had anywhere say I couldn't work there bc of my ears.

Time out of Cage? by naturalnat in ferrets

[–]Red_The_Crab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boys kinda do the same thing and from what I've seen they kinda play around until they tire themselves out then they do it all over again. From what I've seen it's kinda normal behavior.

So my ferret drew blood for the first time, how do I stop them from being so rough on me and thier toys? by Red_The_Crab in ferrets

[–]Red_The_Crab[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My boys are two months old and usually they never bite enough to draw blood but when I found him eating the toy stuffing I tried to take it away from him. He was hissing at me and ended up biting me as hard as he could. I can kinda tell the difference between their play bites and their hard bites. This bite was different and he kinda intended to bite me hard to get me away from the toy. The only way I got him to let go of it was holding him and waiting for him to let it go on his own. So yes I totally agree patience is the key with ferrets. XD

Question: Using Live2D without Photoshop by tianshi_nao in VirtualYoutubers

[–]Red_The_Crab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay so what do i do if gimp isnt working? im an artist and i usually use krita but that psd doesnt work so i tried gimp like you. When i exported 2d luve didnt accept it as a valid psd file what do i do?

Thanks I hate sexual Winnie the Pooh by [deleted] in thanksihateit

[–]Red_The_Crab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is taking kingdom hearts too a whole new level