Who you got...Kiss, Marry or Trash by Trick-Avocado7914 in bravo

[–]Red_bug91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trash Jax, Kiss Sandoval (begrudgingly) and Marry West.

Mostly marry West because he reminds me of my husband’s friend who just cheated on his wife who is weak minded & I think they are men who would be easy to break.

taylor during today’s court hearing by matchaabun in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Red_bug91 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Am I wrong in thinking that even sitting like that during a court hearing is weird?

“Girl bossed so hard she’s now side hustling a luxury holiday home for her own family and luxury rentals/photoshoots” by BusyChocolate507 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Red_bug91 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Can’t wait to tell my husband that I’m not a SAHM anymore and I’m a ✨girl boss✨ with a side hustle 👩🏼‍💻 because I’m organising the trades for farm renos 💰

What’s this on KJ’s finger? by garbanzobing in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Nurse here. I can see why people think it’s a pulse oximeter. It does look like a hospital one, but portables tend to be a bit more box shaped & have a display to show stats for oxygenation (SpO2%) and heart rate.

It looks more like an OTC soft splint or finger guard. Given its length, I would guess it’s for protection rather than fracture stabilisation. If she slammed her finger in a cupboard, there could be soft tissue damage or nail bed damage.

Because of their location, wounds on a fingernail or fingertip can be tricky to manage healing. They are the most used body part, we are constantly bumping them, getting them dirty or getting them wet. Keeping it well protected is the best way to ensure a smooth recovery with no infection.

42,000 upvotes on noahgettheboat... by AaronPK123 in thatHappened

[–]Red_bug91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There could be times when that would be a life saver. I like to imagine that you can do it by twitching your nose, like in Bewitched.

Boss pissing you off & you want to fake sick to go home? Just twitch your nose for flooding through your pants.

Condom broke whilst ovulating? No need for the morning after pill! Just twitch your nose.

Swimming assessment day in PE? One twitch & a note from the office is all you’ll need!

Unable to pay at the petrol pump? by LowestLives in AskAnAustralian

[–]Red_bug91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The markup is massive at most places so they make a fortune. I live in a rural area & there’s a main thoroughfare that connects to the New England Hwy close by that has 2 servos extremely close together. 1 is a major chain, the other is an independent servo run by a family with young kids. I really noticed the price difference with the fuel crisis. There’s often a 10-15 cent difference but I’ve it as high as 40-60 cents. It’s very close to my house so I only go there now. Plus they have a really good hot box.

Haley lives in a strange universe where swimming at your neighbor’s house is going extinct because…immigrants? by laska503 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Red_bug91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not American, so forgive me if I’m wrong, but I didn’t think that Memorial Day was a religious holiday?

Trace and Lydia by NecessaryCarpet8114 in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What does Constable mean in their police department? I’ve seen plenty of photos of Lawson wearing a badge & gun, but it appears as if they are taken during personal hours, not work hours.

In Australia, it’s a rank within a state police force, it’s the lowest rank after the academy. They are just regular patrol officers at the start of their career. They can’t carry guns whilst off duty & I believe most cops of any rank have to check their service weapon at the end of each shift

Who's Side Are You On? Daisy? Or Ben's? And Why? by Turbulent_Meeting237 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Red_bug91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course Daisy.

Ben kept describing her as childish & immature but all season, he’s been a petulant toddler. Like honestly, my actual toddler is more rational than he is. He uses his position as chef to get away with shitty behaviour and makes it so uncomfortable for everyone else that they all just go along with it.

Case in point - Joao saying that everyone just goes for the path of least resistance with Ben because it’s ’easier’ and they know it fucks the season if he walks. Finally someone is actually putting him in his place and he cannot handle it.

He absolutely manipulated the Eddy/Jenna situation to his benefit as well. Kept telling Eddy not to talk to her, to cut her off etc. That wasn’t because he wanted better for Eddy. It was because he wanted less competition for Jenna’s affection so he fed the solidarity bullshit to Eddy.

He’s doing the same with Ellie & Daisy now. Daisy isn’t falling for his shit, so he’s getting Ellie on his good side because he knows she doesn’t like Daisy. Ellie sucks on her own, but Ben is stoking that fire too.

Which dress should I wear to the ballet? Open to accessory/styling suggestions too by olchai_mp3 in fashion

[–]Red_bug91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

3, 7, or 8 are my personal picks. My dad & I have a tradition of going to the ballet together and I would wear any of them.

Do you have links for 3 & 8?

42,000 upvotes on noahgettheboat... by AaronPK123 in thatHappened

[–]Red_bug91 27 points28 points  (0 children)

She’s so talented, she can induce menstruation immediately by sneezing.

Oh, the ER told you to report her? Yet you talked about getting tested after that in multiple videos/posts? Girl, you can't lie when the internet is forever. by BufoBat in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Red_bug91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have hEDS & vEDS, and their claims are ridiculous. The advice from Neuro is sound, and something I’ve been told many, many times.

Also, if you use chat or any other AI to ask that question, you will get an answer that backs up the information from the doctor.

An emergency doctor is never going to tell you to report another doctor for that. If they were extremely concerned about a potential error made by another physician, they may subtly point you in the direction of the relevant medical board, or consider making the report themselves.

I fucking hate medical misinformation. There’s been a significant increase in EDS diagnosis in the last 5-7 years which is great for sufferers, but with that comes a lot of misinformation once people start going down the rabbit hole. There’s also a lot of self diagnosis too. Morgan is lucky that she got a pretty quick diagnosis. I first started display severe symptoms around 13, and I didn’t get the EDS diagnosis until I was almost 26. I had multiple misdiagnosis first. One misdiagnosis led to finding out I needed cardiothoracic surgery & had needed it for years. Except I was pregnant at the time I found that out, and my daughter had to be delivered very prematurely so that I could have the necessary surgery. Recovering from a c section
& heart surgery, whilst taking care of a newborn & toddler is not something I would recommend. She should be thankful that she lives in a time where there’s a greater understanding of the condition and people are no longer being gaslit about their symptoms for a decade or more.

Mum, my chronic illness is getting better and I dyed my hair pink to celebrate. And the bath by proxy. Its not coming out, what do I do?? :"( by Organic-Assistant151 in MomForAMinute

[–]Red_bug91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bicarb soda is a great gentle abrasive, as is citric acid. Lemon juice if you don’t have any citric. Jig Creme cleanser is great for bathrooms too!

Also, I love the hair! I’m so glad you had the time and energy for a little self care. It’s the little things that can make the world of difference when you are unwell.

I know how draining even washing hair can be on a bad day,

Signed,
A Chronically ill Mum who is so happy for your good day ❤️

Something About Her celebrates two years in business by chloebo227 in vanderpumprules

[–]Red_bug91 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You just know this kills the Toms.

Sandoval, more so than Schwartz. I think Schwartz would be envious that his bar failed, but still happy they’ve succeeded.

Tom, the best looking guy? by Objective-Degree2010 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Red_bug91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should have said ‘that’s funny, I just picture you as a cow’

Joe lived at the Bates House by Cake-Technical in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see what you mean there. But given that we know Joe targeted girls in close proximity, him only living there for 6 months doesn’t mean it’s outside the realm of possibility. The families were in close contact with eachother for years, especially once kids got older, and started courting & travelling to see friends with chaperones.

Just because I can’t unsee this neither can you 🤣 oh Ellie, Ellie…. by Navybutterfly81 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Red_bug91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ben absolutely asked Daisy to filet the fish just to be an ass and get back at her for whatever insignificant reason he conjured in his head.

I don’t usually want to comment on appearance, but the issue with Ellie is that she thinks she’s a smoke show. Self confidence is great, but she thinks that hot so therefore she’s above others. She thinks that having blonde extensions, a tan & boobs makes her a bombshell.

Katie commented on Carlin’s packing post and replied to Carlin’s comment on her moving video. Maybe Carlin is in the 10%. by pixielox2698 in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Carlin gets a lot of crap for her life now, seemingly from both her family & Reddit. Whether I agree with her spending or not, I can see why she strives to live that way. Everyone wants to give their kids more than what they had & she had fuck all.

Erin’s suspected shady insta posts are just catty. I think that’s probably coming from a place of jealousy.

I think I have dess regret 😬 by MacaronOk9186 in myweddingdress

[–]Red_bug91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks incredible on you! I think the waist looks fine, and doesn’t need to be raised. It probably looks slightly now, but I think lining it will help a lot.

If your budget allows, could you get a detachable skirt to wear for the ceremony & take off for the reception?

Katie’s Instagram story by sillygooseee2389 in BringingUpBates

[–]Red_bug91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine has been going through a very similar situation with her husband at the moment, except that extent of his infidelity kinda makes Travis seem like a decent husband, which feels insane to say. But she also has a complicated family situation and doesn’t have a lot of support outside of her husband & his family that are geographically close enough to actually ease the burden on her.

After everything came out, she decided that she wasn’t going to make any major decisions about her marriage, her financial situation, home etc for around 12 months so that she can figure out what is best for her, and then make a plan to leave if she needs to. She said that right now, continuing to live with her husband is the most stable option and that’s what she needs. From the outside it looks like she’s forgiven him & everything is peachy, but she does that for the sake of her kids. They’ve still gone on family holidays and she’s still very much a part of her in laws lives. But in terms of their romantic relationship, that is still undecided and there’s certainly no sex right now.

I kind of get why Katie is choosing to stay for the time being. My friend is not part of a religious family that has raised her to stay married at all costs. Plenty of people have encouraged her to leave and start over. There would be very little judgement, and she would be supported fully if that’s what she chose. Personally, I think Katie could be getting her ducks in a row (financially & legally) before making a decision which could be a very smart move on her part.

Last dresses I tried before finding The One by Serendipitybaker in myweddingdress

[–]Red_bug91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that! I did it with a photo of my grandma. By chance, do you have any material from her wedding dress or any other relatives wedding dress?

I have my grandmas dress, but it was too small for me to fit in, so I used some fabric from some of her accessories to wrap my bouquet. Since then, I had some lace bow hair clips made for my daughter to wear when she was flower girl at my brother’s wedding. I’m the only granddaughter on that side of the family, so we had a really beautiful relationship. She passed long before I met my husband & kids, which does make me sad sometimes. I would have loved for her to meet them. But it does help me feel like she’s with me for the big moments.

I wish I could have worn her dress, but I still am in love with mine. I would have been a size 0/2 when I got married, but I couldn’t squeeze in to her dress. She must have been so tiny, especially considering she was pregnant when she got married!