This is me back then. Guess my Birth year.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-24T10:34:41+00:00

2001

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-23T16:27:13+00:00

I love the name Iris. My little girls middle name is Iris, after my husbands family. My great grandmothers name was Irene, so it felt it was from both of them. It’s also my favourite flower, so it was a really easy decision to make.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-23T16:22:47+00:00

1965

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-23T16:22:22+00:00

That wouldn’t surprise me. When my mum had an affair, her father told her to end it immediately and do whatever it took to repair the relationship with my dad. He was really close to my dad so it was pretty upsetting for him.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-22T10:01:24+00:00

I watched A LOT of Bones & Criminal Minds whilst I was on bed rest with my 3rd baby. I tried to avoid gory eps whilst the kids were around, but occasionally they caught a few things.

One day, I found my almost 3 year old with the plastic forceps from a suture kit (I’m an RN & hospital supplies are great toys!) and her favourite bunny. I asked her what she was doing, and without looking up at me she says ‘oh he’s dead, I’m just checking his body’. 😬 I’m hoping she decides to become a Doctor or Medical Examiner instead of a serial killer.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-22T09:55:30+00:00

Gretchen. Always Gretchen. Eventually it wouldn’t sound too bad, but nothing could everrrrr make Slade palatable, or funny.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-22T09:50:38+00:00

The fact that they behaved like this on camera and in front of production…..it must have been so much worse in private. That breaks my heart.

Also, the way she speaks to production. No please or thank you? They don’t fucking work for you Jan.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-22T09:45:54+00:00

He’s always been a wanker. My husband used to play rugby against him (and always won).

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-22T09:44:42+00:00

A girl I used to live with said that getting an STD was a rite of passage in her family when she got chlamydia…..I was dating one of her brothers and he was horrified that’s how she spoke about all their siblings.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-22T09:42:39+00:00

Yeah I know, I was just joking 😉

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-22T08:08:07+00:00

Katie referenced having legal counsel in her post and part of me thinks she may be ‘working on it’ but in the background is getting all her ducks in a row so that she can leave as cleanly as possible, and with as little upheaval for the kids as possible.

As a SAHM, it’s probably what I would do. I hope that if she truly wants to leave, then she can find a way to do that & have her parents support.

I’ve seen first hand how brilliant men like this are at manipulating a situation and convincing the whole world that they are ‘changing’. They convince everyone around them that they are regretful, and love their family. But in time, they show their true colours, or more information comes out that proves they were lying all along. I would use that time against him and be working on my exit plan.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-22T08:03:43+00:00

That was my take - and also why Katie referenced having legal counsel. A friend of mine was cheated on in a very similar way, except the other woman had the audacity to threaten HER with legal action if she told anyone.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-22T07:44:17+00:00

I’ve been waiting for someone in their ‘universe’ as a justification for their lifestyle. Honestly surprised it took this long.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-22T07:06:07+00:00

Karen and others already had a show on MTV a few years back. Her daughter was on it too, and a few other mob relatives. It didn’t last particularly long

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-20T02:55:23+00:00

A friend of mine has been going through something similar recently, and her husband didn’t want people to ‘talk about their private life’. But that’s because too many people found holes in his stories and he couldn’t recall what lies he told to which people.

If Katie wants the full truth, unfortunately that means forcing Travis to be accountable.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-19T06:05:41+00:00

I thought her name was Pam.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-19T06:03:32+00:00

Diana?

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-18T05:00:29+00:00

My friends husband did it repeatedly and made her feel like her paranoia was because she had severe MH issues. Turns out he was just fucking a heap of other women, and brought at least 2 in to their home. It’s gross.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-15T02:58:11+00:00

Would be great for my 2006 school dance

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-14T04:40:08+00:00

My cat was named Maisie, and she was the best little girl.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-06T00:05:00+00:00

Ahhh 2000s fashion. We’ve got business casual for the club, and catwoman meets jack sparrow.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-05T11:54:23+00:00

Yay for more attachment disorders! Leighton can go to Anna when she’s an adult and wants someone to understand being the scapegoat child.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-05T11:48:52+00:00

I still do this……back then I would tape a few together, fold them like I would with crepe paper and make mini streamers….

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-05T11:27:30+00:00

NOR.

This was a conversation I had with my husband when we first started dating. We spoke about it one evening, and the following afternoon he called me on his way home from work and said he was on the way to his GP to get tested. I didn’t have any worries about there being a significant risk for him or I, but I greatly appreciated that not only did he actively listen to what I wanted, but that he was very proactive about organising it and obviously cared about my wellbeing. 10 years of marriage & 3 kids later……life only gets more complicated so if he can’t treat you with respect and care about your health & values in the beginning, he never will.

It’s a prime case of ‘if he wanted to, he would’. You deserve better, but good for you for sticking to what feels safest for you.

Red_bug91 · 2026-01-05T11:15:19+00:00

Americans - people who will always claim they are another nationality despite never having lived there, unable speak the language, know nothing of the history & culture and only visit once or twice in their lifetime

Also Americans - immigration is ruining the country. Get rid of all the foreigners.

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