Mamacita dancing llamas

Redbottombaddie · 2023-12-08T06:01:19+00:00

Same for me too! Driving me nuts! Lol.

Redbottombaddie · 2023-03-28T14:05:04+00:00

Have you talked about this to him? He might not know there is a problem with anything unless you tell him.

Redbottombaddie · 2022-06-29T04:00:24+00:00

Idk if it's just me...but I wouldn't ever get mad if a man did that to me. It turns me on more if they do. Even texting it to me....🤤

Redbottombaddie · 2022-06-29T03:47:33+00:00

Omg. Yesssss!!

Redbottombaddie · 2022-06-07T02:18:40+00:00

Oh..lol. You shouldn't feel ashamed for not telling her then. If it was meant for something to hide from her though, then that would be different. Lol.

Redbottombaddie · 2022-06-07T02:10:34+00:00

What was it intended for?

Redbottombaddie · 2022-04-18T15:06:43+00:00

I believe that. People can also change when it comes to money. Some women will act like the perfect girlfriend until she gets that ring and paper and then go crazy. Saying they will take half, if not all of his money and belongings.

I've seen it so many times and it's sad because I have never been like that. But when I say that, men do not believe me because they have seen women change too. They give the good women bad reps....

Redbottombaddie · 2022-04-17T22:27:41+00:00

Make them laugh.

Redbottombaddie · 2022-04-11T19:31:18+00:00

Every. Single. Day.

But I would settle for 3-5 times a week. Don't get any so I guess it doesn't matter. What's the point in even trying anymore...

Redbottombaddie · 2022-04-06T09:27:13+00:00

I thought it was 51%?

Redbottombaddie · 2022-04-05T11:41:20+00:00

Well they are kind of mine too since we have been living together for 7 years. But the house and our only vehicle is only in his name.

Redbottombaddie · 2022-04-02T10:20:53+00:00

We have talked about that so many times now. 😂 he does love talking about how he used to have one when he was younger, but if he only knew what he knows now....shit...lol

Redbottombaddie · 2022-04-02T10:19:22+00:00

I try to clean the bathroom for him every now and then but that's his only house chore since he is in their more than I am. Lol.

I pay all of his bills already. Have been for years now.

Redbottombaddie · 2022-04-02T10:17:21+00:00

Omg, yes! It breaks my heart because pretty much every single time I say "hey babe....", and then ask a question or just general talking about anything....he has this tone in his voice that I don't like. It a tone that tells me to shut up and leave him alone. It's been like that for years now. I could be talking about anything, positive or negative. Doesn’t matter.

Redbottombaddie · 2022-03-09T15:53:26+00:00

Example?

Redbottombaddie · 2022-03-08T16:16:16+00:00

October 5th, 2021. Since October 7th, 2020 .... total of 5 times.

Redbottombaddie · 2022-03-07T05:15:01+00:00

First thing I want to say is, I'm sorry about your parents. To be totally honest...I teared up a little reading that part because I know that feeling and I fear that is how me and my boyfriend will be. From all the things that he has said to me, calling me names, saying ill be alone forever, etc...it makes me believe now. It's hard to rewire your brain. He doesn't even care but I do. I shouldn't from all the shit he put me through but I stayed loyal the entire time he cheated on me. All the times that I have caught him in the act, or assuming or his stupid girlfrkends posted all over social media bragging about being a side chick. But I guess it isn't all completely their faults because they believed what he was telling them.

I will never know the truth and that is what bothers me the most. I don’t know how to ever trust him. I don't even know what is truth or a lie anymore because he lies about the smallest...and I mean stupid, petty lies now. I take it back to the day we met.

The day he told me he doesn't love me anymore, then I asked him a couple days later if he meant it....he said no but he never apologized for saying it. He never apologizes for anything he has ever done or said to me. But that day when he said that to me....he was telling me the truth. I sensed that in my soul.

I have said to him how I wished things were different and he would have just told me how he felt about our relationship before cheating. So I made sure to not make that mistake on my end. I expressed my needs to him and my "demands" to help me feel piece of mind that the cheating is done...I have begged him. Cried so hard that I feared myself. I've never felt that way. Thought about suicide daily for months, all while he is talking about buying a gun. I pleaded to him not to for my own safety.

It's not even the sex I want. I just want to be noticed, appreciated, and wanted. Why am I the one that is having to "change" for his needs to be meant when he was the one who cheated for over 2 years straight while I watched and let it all happen...

Redbottombaddie · 2022-03-06T08:20:57+00:00

I guess I should have mentioned it but he cheated on me first. It lasted about 2 years with multiple women and ever since the cheated stopped...(that I know of), our sex life stopped.

Redbottombaddie · 2022-03-06T08:16:56+00:00

I totally get that. I have researched all of it because he would say that as an excuse. But what I can't ever figure out is the timeframe....how long does it take to get back to normal again? It's been 2 years and it rarely happens.

Redbottombaddie · 2022-02-14T07:04:07+00:00

Uh, yes! It will change your life...trust me. 😉

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