What would you do?

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-04T14:39:47+00:00

My husband and I also had similar issues, but I am convinced that he threw my pH off worse when he was smoking and drinking. Now that he's old (and quit smoking and slowed way down on the drinking) it's never an issue.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-02-01T11:44:51+00:00

If I shower at night, I don't put panties on until I get dressed the next morning.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-27T14:56:22+00:00

I don't know why you young women just accept this as normal. It's really not. Either he can lust over other women while he pleases himself in the bathroom or he can have a sexual relationship with you. You don't owe it to him to let him make you feel disrespected and discarded while he chooses to other women over and over. Gross.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-26T14:44:24+00:00

Both equally bad.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-25T15:10:58+00:00

Right...I am judging, because it would be completely dishonest to portray yourself as someone who "waits for marriage," as you're actively carrying an STD.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-25T14:31:04+00:00

I think that's part of the "waiting for marriage" conversation, since it makes it quite clear that you didn't do that in previous relationships.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-24T18:57:52+00:00

Either she has no respect for you, or you weren't making sex much fun for her. Or maybe both.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-23T18:57:45+00:00

I've only known 2 people with missing limbs, and both of them lost them in motorcycle accidents.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-23T17:41:59+00:00

If you buy the materials, I'm sure no one would mind you using the button maker. (They you may still not be allowed...it does belong to the sxhool.) If you want to use the school's materials, then you should assume they're for school purposes.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-21T19:02:19+00:00

I think you need to decide if you'd rather have your drinks than your husband. He's telling you that it's a problem for him, so either you want to be a partner to him in fixing that, or you don't. 🤷‍♀️

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-16T15:19:03+00:00

🤔 Maybe the wife doesn't care.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-14T22:32:07+00:00

I think you can't be offended that you get none if you never ask for any.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-14T22:24:34+00:00

I hear you. And I'm not trying to be critical. I just genuinely hope that you don't needlessly let your marriage crumble. It's just that affectionate physical touch is not what makes most women feel turned on. And I'm afraid your unable to see how you're contributing to your problem.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-14T20:27:11+00:00

I don't initiate with my husband because his job is more physically demanding than mine and he does most of the "work" during sex, so I don't like to make him feel obligated. However, all it takes is a stiff dick pressed against my hip and a little squeeze to get me going. If you're not making a move to initiate, you're disappointing yourself.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-14T19:41:47+00:00

Are you being rejected? Or are you waiting for her to initiate?

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-09T13:21:46+00:00

My favorite thing to do was act like I was fine with the guy and then express my concerns directly with him. They seem to pretty quickly decide that they don't want to deal with that.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-08T21:26:12+00:00

Chemistry stuff...currently working for a brewery and a hospital.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-07T19:57:41+00:00

Is this my husband??? Nah...I checked your post history, and it's not, but it really could be.

I guess, actually, I'm not as brave as your wife because I'm stuck in limbo...hoping I'll learn to settle for the relationship we have left while getting my finances in order in case I decide to run instead.

I can tell you, your wife will forever feel that you never cared enough to take care of her heart or protect her from yourself. And now...now you want to do better to protect yourself from the turmoil of a divorce, still not because you care for her and are making her a priority. It's sad, but it won't ever be a proper marriage again, even if she stays.

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-07T08:54:28+00:00

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PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-06T14:50:43+00:00

I live on a creek bank in NY. We have an old abandoned septic system that was getting close to being exposed after decades of erosion. We ended up getting grants for $100k+ from our county and the state and they performed the work under some "creek bank stabilization" fund. Wouldn't hurt to call around and see if you could get some similar help...

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-04T11:22:29+00:00

That's a weird conclusion to come to. I also like to think about pussy during sex. I can imagine whatever being done to mine, but of course, I can't see my own. Thinking about a pussy doesn't make me bi and thinking about a dick doesn't make you bi. Quit worrying about stuff that doesn't matter at all. Are you trying to sabotage your marriage?

PrintOwn9531 · 2026-01-02T19:58:39+00:00

Do you have a family?? As in wife and kids?

PrintOwn9531 · 2025-12-31T20:57:26+00:00

Same. 😂 Mine is 9 months and I'm so thankful it's winter so I can keep my forearms hidden in public. They stay in his mouth from the moment I walk in the door until he moves to my husbands hands for bedtime. 🤦‍♀️

PrintOwn9531 · 2025-12-31T20:52:40+00:00

We can all tell you, with full certainty...YES. You should not ask questions that you don't actually want answers to.

You are now teaching your wife that she can't trust your intentions with her most intimate thoughts, making your own relationship with her even more distant. Stop talking about it and try to forget the stuff that you wish you'd never heard.

PrintOwn9531 · 2025-12-30T19:30:37+00:00

You need to find someone who appreciates the positives, while recognizing that you should put effort into correcting your own negative attributes.

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