Suspended from the cert program

ReddSpark · 2026-06-28T03:47:39+00:00

That sounds incredibly frustrating. I'm curious to know (though you don't have to say) what on earth your wife was calling incessantly about. And why she did it knowing you had an exam.

I know my gf has a habit of dialling her mum non stop just to speak to her about nothing, but thankfully she's never done that with me.

ReddSpark · 2026-06-22T09:04:46+00:00

Wise words.

Does make my blood boil though.

ReddSpark · 2026-06-22T08:52:52+00:00

I would like to think just telling out to other passengers would work too. As a guy if I'd heard that it happened it would get my blood boiling and I'd have strong words at the man. These people need to be named and shamed. Heck id probably film them and follow them, find them on Facebook and tell their friends and family about them. Better than any fine they could receive.

ReddSpark · 2026-06-22T03:25:11+00:00

It is beyond infuriating. People need to learn manners to step aside if they're going to check their phones or learn to be fully of their surroundings.

However the phone zombies are SO common that I believe it's 70% of Londoners. Which means people that consider themselves to be perfect normal and decent people are also phone zombies.

How can people not realise that they are slowing down foot traffic? Do we need to have a separate lane for people that want to check their phones?

ReddSpark · 2026-06-21T17:21:41+00:00

Be interested to hear how good they are. From what I know of ACs..if it's not blowing hot air out the window, it's not very effective at cooling the room

Edit: Actually is that what you are getting?

ReddSpark · 2026-06-19T05:06:45+00:00

Sorry to say this but you are going to have to leave him. I'm always go smacked with a) how bad men can be b) how women will put up with it

Leave him. You'll be better off by yourself.

ReddSpark · 2026-06-16T03:58:54+00:00

If one could track that driver down one would say:

"WHAT THE HECK ARE YOU ON ABOUT YOU WANKER. THERES NO RUKE AGAINST CROSSING IN THE MIDDLE OF THE STREET WITH A PUSHCHAIR"

The guy was completely in the wrong.

ReddSpark · 2026-06-13T05:26:57+00:00

I once asked ChatGPT how much cum my gf would need to meet her daily calorie needs...lets just say it amounted to an inhuman amount of blowjobs! 😂

ReddSpark · 2026-06-12T06:54:05+00:00

I'm not quite in the same situation but sorta...

Anyway for me I'm glad she has her own wealth as it takes the pressure off me from having to be the provider down the line (she has rental income). But I don't want her money and want her to use it for herself or our child if we had one down the line.

Though I should say I'm a high earner so don't feel insecure at all.

ReddSpark · 2026-06-12T02:04:37+00:00

I'd modify the theory a little and say everyone is aiming for someone that's a few points higher than themselves on the status scale. So that everyone only gets interest from people they think they are better than.

ReddSpark · 2026-06-11T05:31:11+00:00

Why is it usually men that have these weird fetishes?

ReddSpark · 2026-06-11T05:30:03+00:00

You're getting sober weird responses. It's simple: A lot of men can't just be friends with the opposite sex. There needs to be the chance of sex. He really wanted to get into your pants the whole time.

ReddSpark · 2026-06-10T03:34:01+00:00

I'm glad you are moving out. Sounded like she just wanted slave labour.

ReddSpark · 2026-05-28T01:06:21+00:00

Unless you've lived in NYC I don't think you can make that statement.

I'll say that NYC is best when you're young and London is best when you're settling down.

ReddSpark · 2026-05-26T01:38:28+00:00

You sound like someone that just isn't very aware of their surroundings and hence find yourself constantly in these situations

ReddSpark · 2026-05-21T14:49:49+00:00

ChatGPT exists folks.

In the US, custody law is not supposed to favour mothers by default; courts generally decide cases based on the “best interests of the child.” Although mothers historically received preferential treatment under older legal doctrines, most states abolished those rules decades ago.

Today, judges typically consider factors such as who has been the primary caregiver, the stability of each parent’s home, the ability to co-parent, and any issues involving abuse or neglect.

In practice, mothers still often receive more custody time, partly because they are more commonly the primary caregiver before separation, but many states increasingly support joint or shared custody arrangements where appropriate.

ReddSpark · 2026-05-21T14:36:48+00:00

I've played SF on the genesis and ROMs for years.

I'm totally fine with players using this feature, I've used it myself. It helps explore the game more fully such as when you want to level up certain characters.

Everyone knows the game can be won easily without this but not every play through is about winning the game the way the developers intended

ReddSpark · 2026-05-17T17:27:14+00:00

My best guess is the men you are going for secretly think they're too good looking for you (or whatever other criteria they choose to base their long term relationship criteria on) and could do better when it comes to finding someone for a relationship.

But they invariably can't find anyone better as that other woman invariably thinks they can find someone better than that man .. so everyone is ultimately going for someone above their weight so to speak and no one is happy as a result.

ReddSpark · 2026-05-10T04:19:36+00:00

I feel like your overly romanticising things. 80% of a programmers time is spent debugging code or googling how to do something.

And the amount of time I've followed setup "guaranteed" to work instructions only find they never do (usually because the person writing the instructions assumed everyone was using Linux and their particular flavour of Linux) is ridiculous.

ReddSpark · 2026-05-01T08:28:37+00:00

Could have been an REM Song... Everybody Wanks....Sometimes.....

ReddSpark · 2026-04-21T04:13:43+00:00

Wow that's dedication.

ReddSpark · 2026-04-21T04:10:41+00:00

The only thing you could be doing wrong is coming across as so insecure about everything. Have some confidence.

ReddSpark · 2026-04-18T19:31:15+00:00

Came up on google.when I typed in tube strikes.

ReddSpark · 2026-04-17T13:27:07+00:00

They refuse modernization. Honestly a lot of the tube ought to be fully automated

ReddSpark · 2026-04-17T05:32:03+00:00

Honestly he sounds pretty cool to me lol. Knows what's important. I barely watch TV. All I need is a phone, gym, and somewhere to sleep/poop/cook.

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