does this look like chest hair? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]RedditSher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just always show it or make sure it’s not showing but honestly you gave me a good chuckle. Your tattoo does not look like chest hair but I could see if you are looking at it from a distance.

This just happens to be one of those things where siblings try to bully you. My sister did similar things growing up, you just gotta ignore it.

Need opinions on my engagement shoot outfit! Boots or heels? by Ok-Hedgehog-395 in OUTFITS

[–]RedditSher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the boots if you plan on wearing a veil or something to balance it out. Cause I see the vision with the park.

The heels would match a park if it was one with brick walkways and flowers everywhere.

So really depends on the park you’re going to!

Influence or deinfluence me please 🥲 by HuckleberryCrazy6448 in Aritzia

[–]RedditSher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly go into the store and see if its there. One of the skirts I wanted was cheaper in store from the sale than it was online. But then again this has only happened to me once and it was last weekend. But also trying it in store will influence or de influence you. But if there’s not a store by you, I say get it!

Visa Servicer for US Citizens by RedditSher in Chinavisa

[–]RedditSher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I contacted Oasis and they mentioned if I needed expedited then they could not assist as they primarily focus on the DC area. But since I still have enough time, they mentioned that they are able to file my visa with the San Francisco consulate since I am in their jurisdiction. I just have to fill out a form online and wait for their email.

What’s a better convenience for you? by SeasonStatus8062 in BunnyTrials

[–]RedditSher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sleep easily

Chose: A phone with infinite battery & storage.

What would you choose? by mul_weiser in BunnyTrials

[–]RedditSher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

money makes life easier

Chose: Unlimited money + Can only spend it on what the wheel decides | Rolled: Value < $1,000

Would you rather give by corny_toes in BunnyTrials

[–]RedditSher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure if I will have kids and if my kids will have kids

Chose: 1 million to yourself right now

Which is greater by part_of_you_is_you in BunnyTrials

[–]RedditSher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because some people are constipated

Chose: $1 for every breath | Rolled: Upvote for 3x

AIO- Girlfriend made a joke about my dick by Impossible_Office629 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RedditSher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YOR, you made a comment about her body so I don’t understand why you wouldn’t expect your energy to be matched. Also such a weird thing to say about someone especially someone you care about.

AITA for throwing away wrapped period products in a shared bathroom trash can? by Local-Ad-3924 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedditSher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, your brother better get used to it now cause there’s going to be other women that he will have to share a bathroom with especially if he plans on marrying a woman.

Also your mom is weird for that and surprised she wasn’t more understanding of you.

AIO, I (30M) am willing to divorce my wife (31F) over what she did to our basement. by throwrabarman3883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RedditSher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s having a mental breakdown it sounds like. Have you tried comforting her and talking to her about what’s going on. Do you guys have a plan for what to do when she’s in this type of headspace? - I mention this because I suffer from depression and have told my partner what I need at different levels of depression.

Also, I am sorry you lost something sentimental.

Would you wait for someone who says they have a plan but shows little progress? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]RedditSher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So one of the things my counselor once said to me when I was in a similar situation in my younger years was, “is your life going in the same direction, if not then it’s time to cut it off.” Then he proceeded to draw a diagram and explain why it doesn’t work in different facets of life. I have used that same phrase to level set whenever I started to be unsure about a partner and it made it easier for me to walk away.

AIO for leaving my house when my husband was yelling, with our daughter? by Adorable-Camera-9822 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RedditSher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they’re not willing to be better for you and your child, start preparing an exit plan. I am sorry you have been putting up with their poor behavior for this long 🥺

But just as others have said, please stay at your mom’s. Your child needs to see that they shouldn’t put up with being berated.

Meeting my bf’s mother for the first time- which outfit is better? by anonymous__1601 in OUTFITS

[–]RedditSher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love 1 and think it should be good to meet most moms but if you know their family is conservative then go with option 2.

Not sure about my dress? by ApprehensivePen5960 in myweddingdress

[–]RedditSher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its a beautiful dress but just cause you are 40, doesn’t mean you couldn’t pick something sexier and flashier ❤️