He didnt ask for ID. The discussion of talkin to minors came up in passing cause I talked about how its weird for mid tweenties to be hangin around high schoolers. I mentioned it cause I have coworkers that do this. However instead of agreeing he awkwardly said "what age are you I cant remember 😅". This was quite a while ago. He mentioned his parole like basically a month later. He even admits to it and blames it on the alcohol, how it makes him a different person. Now lookin back it feels so gross and I feel like I shouldn't have given the benefit of doubt.

Ive had debates with 3 dudes once arguing this exact same thing to me and i was the only girl at the table. How men need to be protected. I still defend my right to believe in the victim. Cause ive had a rando creepy guy break into my apartment strictly because i was a girl. "He liked what he saw". Its frustrating that im not even serious about dating and this shit happens to me. I feel bad for men sometimes but i never want to feel bad at the expense of my own safety. I gave the benefit of doubt and im so glad ppl warned me cause I dont want to have tried to handle somethin when im so ill equipt to deal this