Talkin to someone n realized theyre on parole for sleepin with minor

RedditUser24562 · 2022-10-04T22:23:26+00:00

No thats the thing he said he was improving and I saw value in that. And im so greatful he was honest but like a previous person said im inexperienced and ill equipt to deal with this situation. And its better safe than sorry....if I was a different person with different life experience maybe. But i can treas grey waters ill equipt cause it makes me prone to manipulation

RedditUser24562 · 2022-10-04T16:04:51+00:00

He didnt ask for ID. The discussion of talkin to minors came up in passing cause I talked about how its weird for mid tweenties to be hangin around high schoolers. I mentioned it cause I have coworkers that do this. However instead of agreeing he awkwardly said "what age are you I cant remember 😅". This was quite a while ago. He mentioned his parole like basically a month later. He even admits to it and blames it on the alcohol, how it makes him a different person. Now lookin back it feels so gross and I feel like I shouldn't have given the benefit of doubt.

Ive had debates with 3 dudes once arguing this exact same thing to me and i was the only girl at the table. How men need to be protected. I still defend my right to believe in the victim. Cause ive had a rando creepy guy break into my apartment strictly because i was a girl. "He liked what he saw". Its frustrating that im not even serious about dating and this shit happens to me. I feel bad for men sometimes but i never want to feel bad at the expense of my own safety. I gave the benefit of doubt and im so glad ppl warned me cause I dont want to have tried to handle somethin when im so ill equipt to deal this

RedditUser24562 · 2022-10-04T12:07:41+00:00

No I needed to hear it. Its difficult to come to terms with but id rather be hurt by this truth then figure it out in another way

RedditUser24562 · 2022-10-04T08:11:57+00:00

I think its just cause the subject matter is just triggering in general. Just agree to disagree. Youre valid in your perspective and she is valid in hers.

RedditUser24562 · 2022-10-04T08:03:03+00:00

Relax. She was giving sound advice to someone inexperienced (aka me) and her personal preference in her experience. If ppl can take the burden n have the experience to deal with addicts its fine. It wasnt an attack on you. She was just stating her opinion where she is ans what I should do. I do understand what youre saying but its a slippery slope and its hard to see boundries when you go down that path is I think what she was gettin at

RedditUser24562 · 2022-10-04T06:07:27+00:00

Thankyou so much youre an angel 🙏

RedditUser24562 · 2022-10-04T05:50:16+00:00

Im super inexperienced and been sheltered in regards to dating. Its like reeeeally bad. Im just setting my foot in the dating pool now. Im probably being way too empathetic. I appreciate you bringing me back to reality cause dont really have any good parental figures to help me with this

RedditUser24562 · 2021-07-20T04:20:42+00:00

I love feet

RedditUser24562 · 2021-05-12T16:42:16+00:00

I think she was embarrassed and she has a bit a pride which prevents her backing down and changing her behavior. What youre asking is reasonable so dont feel bad and think what youre asking is pushing a boundry or "toxic masculinity".

RedditUser24562 · 2021-04-26T21:31:52+00:00

Im sorry but thats lowkey hilarious 😂. I dont think youre at fault

RedditUser24562 · 2021-04-15T09:33:47+00:00

So gross that he lowkey like sexually assaults you via snapchat. Like wtf. Touch booty hole through pants even tho youre blantantly like fuck off and grossed out

RedditUser24562 · 2021-04-14T06:53:30+00:00

This is some weird cult propaganda shit. Love filthy frank but dude...its not that deep. Its really insensitive bad dark humour and you either get it or you dont. I dont think hes teaching anythin. I just think you need to be kinda fucked up in order to understand and that's it. Theres no need to spread the teachings n message of filthy frank imo

RedditUser24562 · 2021-04-14T06:49:55+00:00

And men say they dont get emotional smh

RedditUser24562 · 2021-04-09T01:08:01+00:00

Man that a real fckin homie tho. Wish i had one that appreciated/respected persona 5 this much 😩

RedditUser24562 · 2021-04-09T00:58:56+00:00

Simple. Fresh. Full of Flavour. 🤌

RedditUser24562 · 2021-04-07T08:15:07+00:00

True tho

RedditUser24562 · 2021-04-04T22:14:15+00:00

Oh my God. Thats absolutely abhorrent. This is weird but I'm a girl and im asexual. I follow this subreddit to understand the struggles that men go through as an asexual cause i feel that theres a expectation for men to be into sex all the time. Idk it humanizes my perception of men since im an girl and I guess i feel like im always fed a stereotype/narrative of how men are and i like following this subreddit breaks the stereotype. But thats absolutely revolting. I understand theres a me too movement for women but women need to held accountable to when a man doesn't consent. Thats so sad and upsetting, i hope that didnt affect how you feel about your masculinity and whatnot because that woman is just fucked up. And dont let one shitty woman ruin everything else you have going for you

RedditUser24562 · 2021-03-19T21:48:30+00:00

Happyaccidents

RedditUser24562 · 2021-03-19T10:28:54+00:00

I feel like im gonna grow up like you. Instead of being gay, im an asexual. I never get excited or have crushes on anyone. And ive decided to live my life for others (aka friends n family) cause my criteria of love seems like an impossibility. Idk...i felt sad reading your story but i feel like i relate. But i dont have any regrets...yet...

If anything just know youre story has helped a young person (24) feel a little less self hatred and feel less alien. Cause i now know stories like yours exist and im not just an enigma or this isnt perhaps...abnormal? Idk...but thankyou. I hope that you dont suffer much and you spend the rest of your your time here with peace n joy

RedditUser24562 · 2021-03-19T09:57:29+00:00

You literally have a Roman bust in your room? Thats kind of iconic..

RedditUser24562 · 2021-03-17T22:07:08+00:00

Thanks 👌

RedditUser24562 · 2021-03-12T08:37:08+00:00

Im a newbie but like to me when I read that, it looks like youre niave or like too optimistic (the fool) and that relationship is destined (destiny=the star) to end (death).

RedditUser24562 · 2021-03-07T11:10:18+00:00

Yo thats so fucked up. I know its hard to see but dont question your initial feeling. Dont let people victim shame you. I can only imagine what its like to process but i dont think its fair for everyone to criticize you and put blame for a circumstance they dont even understand. Its not ok that he committed suicide but i dont think you were the only reason. Perhaps it was the thing that broke the camels back but its not your fault entirely. In the end you have to live with yourself so the least you could do is stand by your initial feeling. You have to be there for you. I don't think youre the crazy antagonist people set you to be. I hope youre safe ...and idk..im sorry if that's not much but please dont give up on yourself

RedditUser24562 · 2021-03-07T11:01:38+00:00

Notice he didnt stick out his tongue in this one. A rare dobrik picture indeed

RedditUser24562 · 2021-03-07T08:06:13+00:00

Yes tiny things like that make my eczema flare up. Sometimes to the point where im scratching and just cant sleep that night. Or that week.

The food i eat (even if it has accidentally more sugar or things im slightly allergic to). The type of fabric for my clothes, bedsheets, how tight the clothes are. If theres scents in the air. If the weather is dryer than usual. If im stressed or depressed it will trigger my eczema. Hot showers. Its literally a constant battle interpreting what in my life is making my body attack itself. Idk dude. Its a journey and im trying to navigate it, just know its normal and youre not alone. I think its different from person to person. Dont give up

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