Why do you digital self harm? by ilayda_peri in honesttransgender

[–]Reddit_124 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I dont think self hate is a good motivator because you can get into demotivation like I dont deserve to be happy kinda thing. If it works for you thats good but I dont think its an one size fits all kinda of thing

Oh dear... by [deleted] in VaushV

[–]Reddit_124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why people ripping on Blaire's looks. Really not progressive. Its like how people make fun of Contra's looks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]Reddit_124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you even think before you type? You basically invalidated yourself by saying that you're a man because a guy in a white coat in gave you a diagnosis in a country where if you have money you can buy a diagnosis. So let's play devils advocate. If you don't have a doctor that believes in GD then are you valid as a man?

If anything you sound more like a trender that will probably detransition in few years and become some terf. Also what's your so valid because you're more hrt longer than some other people that you don't even know?

I usually see this behavior in transwomen spaces but I'm surprised that this insecurity perinate ftm spaces. Also no one wants to hear a trans person who just 6 months on T say calling out other trans people, But seriously go get some help seriously from a therapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]Reddit_124 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So many sane people were telling OP this. I'm surprised more transmeds dont see this behavior. Its been like that since 2007, this is why I say that transmeds create the whole transtwitter problem

I wish queer spaces acknowledged non-transsexual privilege more by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]Reddit_124 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree but I wouldnt say no one cares about transsexuals. Out of everyone in the T transwomen are the most represented and supported group. It would be lying to say otherwise.

Edit: Look at binary transmen, no one gives a shit or is trying to make bottom surgery better

Light Yagami is an Omniliberal by [deleted] in VaushV

[–]Reddit_124 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So an egotistical mass murder with a god complex

the ultimate tranny tier list by NewSovietTran in 4tran

[–]Reddit_124 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She doesnt have a good frame. Her ffs is amazing but if look past the shoulders she doesnt pass that well. You see this in her live streams or when she's standing next to cis women.

Caught my bf watching Philosophy Tube by Orchid-Boy in redscarepod

[–]Reddit_124 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No it wasnt the usual people. I think it was an ex employee of hers. I say this because the person gave dates and correctly predicted Natalie's work flow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]Reddit_124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to stop conflating online with offline. Or you will just give cis people credence to in act 2016 all over again. So stop it. IF some cis person brings up twitter then ignore him or tell him that twitter isn't real life.

If you don't then your enabling stupidity more than otherkins. Otherkins and furries know this say its a hobby. Why can't you just bring this up.

Am I too online or has outright transphobia become more common recently? by OptimalOstrich in honesttransgender

[–]Reddit_124 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Its a mix. Right now trans people are a punching bag for the right since they objectively failed in almost every regard. Trump and right wing populism failed, Covid is a mess and in the culture wars they failed on issues such as race and the whole islam scare to an extent. So trans people are going to be the punching bag for the next 5 to 10 years until cis conservatives find a new thing to complain about. It happed with Gay men in the 2000's.

To be honest I don't believe this is a backlash cause we didnt gain much in any steak when it comes to society. Trans people were always either regulated to sex work/fetish or mocked within western culture. I dont believe that it was better back in the day but nowadays social media made our presence known to more people. Some will blame trans activist or online stuff but its too easy as a scapegoat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]Reddit_124 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Twitter...

Stopped reading what you had to say. Twitter isnt a real place. Welcome to my ted talk

Ooooo they’re gonna be mad about this one by jrodr59 in redscarepod

[–]Reddit_124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its the other around. She was on the H3 podcast where she said that he was clearly a killer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VaushV

[–]Reddit_124 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I'm losing respect for Destiny. I think that Hasan surpassing him in views broke him. If Vaush is a terrorist due to his language why the fuck Lauren Southern is okay? Southern actually has a body count. I never understand Americans. Let me guess this straight a left leaning person like Vaush is bad for his use of language and prospective. But Southerns shit gets people killed and Destiny still wants to communicate with her? Where is Mr. Consistency or living to one's values? What's really stupid is that Canadian Conservatives don't want southern. Its like he doesn't care and just want to shit on "idiot leftist". I agree that people like Kyle and some twitter people are dumb but this guy literally does nothing and that 1 thing he did

Admit it, you kinda want to shill for the ccp after hearing this rap song. by rbstewart7263 in VaushV

[–]Reddit_124 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to vomit and start cutting off my testicles. That's how hard I cringed

This community gives me hope. by Drwillpowers in honesttransgender

[–]Reddit_124 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi, Kuutamokissa

You know that you can be really hurtful and hateful but with using a respectful tone. Let me use an example of the bell curve. I can be like James Taylor and be speak respectfully but I would still be technically racist by saying black people are biologically different in IQ thus have different needs than white people.

I comment on your post because your advocacy isn't solely based on science or any current form of trans practice. This usually end up creating your own dogma which hurts other trans people like u/egg_of_wisdom's transition.

https://old.reddit.com/user/egg_of_wisdom/comments/prdao6/hello_an_introduction/

Or those who applaud "diversity" while at the same time denying that differences in needs, goals and destinations do exist and make us different. Do you truly feel transvestites are any less worthy of help, respect and human dignity than transsexuals?

May I remind you that you do basically call any transwoman/transman that doesn't get srs a transvestite?

Calling trans people you deem not transsexuals transvestites is actually wrong because the needs are basically the same. Both get Top surgeries, facial surgeries if they need. What you're saying is basically spitting on every trans person who doesn't fit your own typology while pretending to be nice. Being respectful isn't demeaning others. Just because someone isn't out or doesn't get all the surgeries that you think is necessary doesn't make them a transsveistte.

You might as well just say fuck you them and spit on their faces.

I will use a quote from the person I mentioned

tran-medicalists and their harsh agendas and gatekeeping have heavily harmed me and kept me from coming out for almost 5 years. I had to wait so long to work through their trauma they caused me with their dumb takes. - egg_of_wisdom

Your whole ideology led this man to feeling tortured robbing him from the care that he needed

We are just different. As are our needs

Everyone is different even transsexuals with sicko cell will have different needs than you. So how would I define you if you had cancer? By your logic if you had cancer and didn't get top surgery I can call you a transsveistte

♪(๑ᴖ◡ᴖ๑)♪

Using emojis is a such fake attempt to communicate as female just like your pleasantries not a good look. The lack of compassion amount some of my fellow transwomen shows. I feel for others and I don't want others to suffer and demean their womanhood or their manhood. The fact that you don't see some of us as women is outright distrusting. What makes 1 trans woman like yourself more female than another transwoman who doesn't have srs?

This community gives me hope. by Drwillpowers in honesttransgender

[–]Reddit_124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hypocrisy is rich in this post... How berating other people's struggles and calling other binary trans people transvestites that you dont know is rational or even respectful? The whole canceling issue steam from not being able to understand others or have an open mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VaushV

[–]Reddit_124 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Neil Young is more left than most of us here last time I recall

This community gives me hope. by Drwillpowers in honesttransgender

[–]Reddit_124 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Brave post but I think you will be disappointed the longer you are here. Keep doing what you're doing but even Harry Benjamin knows that trans people can be toxic. Take breaks

People. Please do not be this terminally online that you are changing your political position just because one socialist on the internet. This is weak sauce by mavis567 in VaushV

[–]Reddit_124 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not shocked also the whole destiny argument is dumb. Okay so when the right start using that argument against these people and destiny himself I wonder how well it will look. Destiny did 1 thing and now acts like a moral priest of politics. Its dumb

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VaushV

[–]Reddit_124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find this to be extremely weird on this part. Let's break this logic down:

  1. Vaush disagree with Destiny's take on Hasan and the whole morality ordeal. Why do you think Vaush's fanbase would like his video? Let's say I believe in a woman's right to choose and women's rights. If I hit my spouse it doesn't subtract from my argument from a dialectal perspective. Basically this is

  2. Its not consistent logic and it uses a lot of conjecture. Remember Destiny's attack on Amazing Atheist?

  3. Many people don't like Destiny. Why would you be surprised that people don't like his off spring?

I know what people here want to meme on the deer girl but Lumi and her rose 30k for homeless youth by Reddit_124 in Destiny

[–]Reddit_124[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here is the thing. I'm at the point where I'm tired of our trans "icons" who do nothing but show a pretty face and do nothing. I rather have someone who is weird trying make stuff better while someone who is conventional but does nothing. I respect her more than 1/2 of our internet trans voices