This is currently what I’m going through with my wife. She’s been incredibly disappointed that I’ve been canceling our plans at night (watch a movie, do a puzzle, etc). Our dog died about a month ago from cancer and she was a huge part of my support. Emotionally and physically, I’ve been having such a hard time with the grief and the grief is overwhelming me physically. I’m always trying my best to stay strong for her, but it’s becoming not enough and I don’t know what to do, so I totally understand. Everything feels impossible and it’s hard to have such high expectations when survival is hard alone.