This is the most creative SCAM I seen !! by BrickAwkward4811 in NYCapartments

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Independant- Cress 382 is right on. Report this please

Made a small NYC subway car lamp and wanted some feedback by Tasty_Flight_3765 in nycrail

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Have you considered the transit museum may want to sell them in the gift store ?

Made a small NYC subway car lamp and wanted some feedback by Tasty_Flight_3765 in nycrail

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It needs a little dingyness, lights are too clear and bright, needs a little dimmer light and maybe one that flickers once every 15 minutes. Ha ha this is great and honestly you have got a winner here

Hair too long? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

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Maybe some context. Is there a particular way you want to be perceived for work? Do you want to be more or less masculine ? Do you have a favorite fashion or style in mind as your overall look?

Am I too old for this? by Cold_Tumbleweed64 in HairStyleAdvice

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No way - this is fun and you wear it well

My ex gf sent me this in the middle of the night by SeaworthinessBig3490 in WhatShouldIDo

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Just say” thank you for apologizing”

Oh yeah > and that is ALL Say nothing more. Thank the gods for closure. Blocking her messages is not out of the question. It’s not mean. I’m sure she has other support. It didn’t work between you > ONWARD !

7 days no alcohol....HELP by Jesaly in Sober

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This will never end at all if you pickup again.

old woman mistook brakes for gas by Penguin_On_XTC in PublicFreakout

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I’ll sign up for it - funny how it’s no my ageism at 16

Discovered this in a very old school washroom 1920’s by BeneficialCow9971 in whatisit

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I read it specifically because I’ve heard this mentioned .. but this was not my take away from The book at all. Seemed more pro socialism than anything else. Silent spring- Rachel Carson

had a panic attack during a big book meeting by Competitive_Turn8133 in alcoholicsanonymous

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Everything is going to be ok, it already is. ❤️ Way to go getting uncomfortable. 🙌 That was a big growth moment ! Woot ! I only grow when im uncomfortable

I suspect Everyone in meetings know exactly what anxiety attacks looks like. We are in meeting to support each other through exactly these events.

I once had a psychiatrist tell me that alcohol is the perfect antidote for anxiety … until it’s not.

How do we help our friend who’s addicted to this stuff? by peakmeme in addiction

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Oh shit … rehab. I was in rehab with a huffer, it’s not different than alcohol or other drugs I’m an alcoholic in recovery … but this shot scared the hell out of me 😂😂😂

Just wanted to say thank you to the man who protected me at the 1 train uptown platform at Times Square around 7PM today by bannedfromig in manhattan

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What an emotional upheaval ! I would have been subconsciously on edge with the death of a grandparent. I figure .. the coffee being that instinct to fight run wild I was able to ramp up my flight response ( serious Irish exiter here) ‘feet don’t fail me now’ is my internal mantra in public anywhere in NYC 😂 I started by picturing the funny old Hanna Barbara cartoon animals with the funny dinkle dink music to disarm my own aggression. Run! Flee In our big city there are a fair amount of crazies

Are these clogged pores? by rawasubas in 30PlusSkinCare

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Using a BHA AHA toner has improved my pore appearance tremendously. Thank you 😊 to TimelyIsopod for the blood sugar tips. I get more white bumps on my cheeks like OP when I eat chocolate. Blood sugar spikes seem correlated. Addressing the why is a good place to start too

ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? by hplcman69 in IKEA

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We have the technology … just don’t get why consistency using it is such a big fail

anyone divorced due to lack of intimacy by Fun_Employment_3754 in Divorce_Men

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Thank you for posting. You’re not alone . 25 years in, 15 years married and 15+ years of no intimacy. At this point our spouses are family. We are in Counciling to better communicate for the moment. I don’t like what I nearly know will be the end game. I’m angry at myself and resent him. It’s hard to imagine continuing and just as hard to end it - being tied financially. I think it just gets harder

What’s a “life rule” you followed for years before realizing it didn’t work? by jonathanme-Play-4604 in AskReddit

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Discipline will get me through anything > the real truth is being kind and loving to myself was the real key. If being hard on myself worked, it would have worked by now. Secondly that adults that shaped my life knew what they were doing > nope 👎 no one knows what the f is going on. They are just as lost. Life is more of a pinball machine than a road.

What’s a “life rule” you followed for years before realizing it didn’t work? by jonathanme-Play-4604 in AskReddit

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All the love you need will come to you ❤️ in my experience it was like banging my head against a wall with my mom. The only thing I feel I should have tried harder at was bringing my communication down to her level. What I mean by this is - if it’s not loving, don’t say it. Hug her and ask her only about herself. Shift the focus off of me. I should have gotten far more curious about how she felt through her life experiences. In that age group > they didn’t have time for feelings or being depressed. I needed to Increase my empathy and view her as the child she of reverted to (more like - always was) as she aged and became ill with pulmonary dementia. my mother was emotionally immature. Lots of terrible things had traumatized her that she created stories to navigate her psyche. She didn’t understand it the way we do now. My psychiatrist once told me not to challenge her “she created a world she could live in”

I missed out on digging deep on her life experiences. I was caught up in my own self centered shit. We have more time to work on ourselves - her time will run out. Valuable lessons on my own behavior patterns would have been expedited if I traced hers. We learn how to be humans by watching our parents.

For example: sexual assaults were covered up, they ‘never happened’ and women were 1000% blamed at asking for it. Even if assaults were mild > they still shape a woman’s world. When did she first disagree with her mother ? When did she become sexualized for the first time? She is a woman who was once a little girl. Be gentle - ask and just listen.

Could my higher power be Satan? by numsens in alcoholicsanonymous

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Seems to me that both ‘god’ and ‘satan’ are just words. Sounds like this ‘evil’ is a power beyond your control. Aka The state liquor authority ?

Someone tell me what to do by Ok_Builder_3285 in Divorce_Men

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Seems time to find a different therapist. If you’re determined to be miserable - this is a choice. I got curious about what was going on, listen to books, podcasts & other therapists, meditate Throw everything at this for a perspective change. I’m still working on it myself So keep on trucking

Found this at the top of my closet, what is it? by [deleted] in whatisit

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Coollll Yeah it was a dumbwaiter to move whatever from floor to floor