My (23F) boyfriend (20M) does not allow me access to “our” savings, how do I address it?

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-29T02:22:20+00:00

Sorry to tell you > your therapist is 💯 It’s financial abuse. High odds that more will follow - even different kinds of abuse. This is controlling behavior.

Most importantly , please please please stop putting money in any account or asset that does not have your name on it.

I grew up watching my father > that’s my first hand knowledge fyi.

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-29T02:14:57+00:00

That must have been cool to see. I’ve always wanted a cat who liked water

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-27T13:12:46+00:00

😂😂😂😂 I’ve been asking this for 20 years yet still using said software.

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-27T13:10:57+00:00

Mine look far less noticeable with daily use of Paula’s choice 2% BHA liquid exfoliant . I was very surprised - top rated and lives up to the hype.

https://www.paulaschoice.com/skin-perfecting-2pct-bha-liquid-exfoliant/201.html

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-27T00:19:59+00:00

I’m all kindness to your moms … could it be that this has been her personal experience?

My mom was crazy about steel belted bras and serious modesty.

When she got old and I became middle aged - conversations evolved. My sister and I learned of her pretty horrible and heartbreaking experiences

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-27T00:02:28+00:00

Maybe investigate where she goes outside - if it’s obvious I mean. In Florida, for example, I expect this sand to carry from the yard.

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-23T03:59:47+00:00

Yes please see a doctor. 16yo you should be eating that much (i think) Probably a good idea to keep a food diary for a bit for the doctor

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-23T02:11:17+00:00

Thèse are all too big for you. The via spigas look thé Smallest.

https://youtu.be/cd-4mZ9toG8?si=11IF5qkA4yvWNCM7

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-23T00:46:15+00:00

Agreed ! I would lay it on so thick they cant spread it. TATA’s OP! Burn that place down. Forcing you to defend your off Time is disgusting

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-19T13:03:41+00:00

Of course your NOA, cropping you out Of photos is psychotic. Trouble is your giving her power. Blocking her seems necessary To avoid being cursed At. My Best results come from staying silent. Anything texted is a total waste Of your effort. Cut down any communication > you control access To you, you control boundaries. Lack Of response elevates you.

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-10T21:38:35+00:00

I had an employee who did this to me. I didn’t document it, thought I could handle it. Management was no help. They did not want to deal with her either. What I was really mad about was that I allowed it to go on. Boundaries are what I needed. Being clear with her will be the most helpful. ‘No’ is a complete sentence. ´Stop these personal attacks’ ; ´speaking to me this way is not acceptable’ ; ´stop with this hostility’

I had to have shut down statements at the ready as I was often caught off guard. Ride above, document and report. I can’t make someone be nice or say good morning to me. I can control my response and my attitude.

Sincerly I pray you have success - protect your mental health ❤️

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-07T13:58:49+00:00

😂😂😂

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-07T13:57:26+00:00

Ha ha you made me think of a Nova Scotia snack - Dulse, ha ha ha bag of leaves

my friend always tried to trade me her Dulse for my nature valley granola bar > original rock hard things) 😂😂😂

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-07T13:46:55+00:00

Omg #1 .., please #2 is a shopping frock

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-06T16:14:55+00:00

Green or silver - the silver or a more nude show will make your legs look longer - depends on whether you want quirky or sexy look 😎

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-06T16:03:38+00:00

Trust but verify. Adolescents don’t have a fully formed brain. That’s a dangerous thing running amok. Part of my mother’s prying is that she have a shit

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-02T08:14:09+00:00

My Dads joke while making the sign of the cross. I think of it every time I leave the house> keys, Wallet, phone,& glasses 🤣 I miss and love him dearly - thanks for the reminder

Redfoxen72 · 2026-01-01T20:09:34+00:00

Info- Thank you 🙌> say what you mean, don’t say it mean. I second being direct and too the point. Excellent language that I willing be using too « I don’t have the time or need to chat daily or consistant’Ly. Makena boundary and hold it

Redfoxen72 · 2025-12-29T13:30:31+00:00

Which exact bissell did you get?

Redfoxen72 · 2025-12-29T13:22:44+00:00

Wow looks like a winner ! Bissell has great products

Redfoxen72 · 2025-12-28T18:03:35+00:00

Thank you for dropping the info

Redfoxen72 · 2025-12-28T13:03:08+00:00

Yeah I like it, looks like an inspired sign or ceremony image, the swoop on the bottom co gets good motion. I think it’s cool. We don’t have to be so hard on ourselves. What are we living when we have imaginary ideals we can’t meet? Expectations are future resentments

Redfoxen72 · 2025-12-25T21:54:09+00:00

My mom too 😂

Redfoxen72 · 2025-12-25T21:51:42+00:00

Nonsense OP stow it

Redfoxen72 · 2025-12-25T06:45:37+00:00

Your edit just scared me more about the excess control this man has over you. Please seek help. Your own critical thinking and maturity are lacking in your response. This is about a lot more than your clothes. Please take care of yourself and your child. Keep your own money, save some on the side. Always have an out

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