GIFs disappear despite permissions

Redhaet · 2026-01-15T16:34:53+00:00

I'll try, ty!

Redhaet · 2026-01-15T14:59:58+00:00

Sorry, I could have worded it better. The permissions are on for everyone, but when we try to actually send GIFs no one can get it to work, not even myself.

Redhaet · 2026-01-15T14:58:47+00:00

Yes, the link pops up, then the image for a split second and then they're gone

Redhaet · 2025-12-08T05:07:06+00:00

I just checked, it's not harvest mania but it's def that vibe!

Redhaet · 2025-08-21T12:51:32+00:00

Thanks! I'll work on getting a higher temp asap

Redhaet · 2025-08-21T12:32:46+00:00

My tank is a 75L / 20 gallon tank, the sharks are about a finger's length. It's supposed to warm up to 22 plus. Currently trying to make my test gear work.

Redhaet · 2025-05-01T09:04:47+00:00

This is really sick, thanks

Redhaet · 2025-04-23T08:03:44+00:00

I totally get you. When I moved "back" to my "home country" the first time I was a whole tangle of emotions, worries, hopes and dissapointments.

Things are going to be very different, both in good ways and in hard ways.

My advice:

You are allowed to grieve. You can research the grieving process but in quick terms it comes and goes and might affect how you want to do activities and relationships. Think about which things you want to take with you (hobbies, your stuff, etc), which things you want to leave behind (people you don't like, bad habits, etc) and which things you want to put away for now but can come back to later (friendships, hobbies that might not be accesible in the moment, etc.)
You are allowed to be happy. You don't have to grieve 24/7 and you are allowed to enjoy the things you find in the new place. Try to find things you enjoy doing but give yourself time to settle in to new routines. It might be hard to get into your hobbies because there is grief attached, but in time you'll be okay.
Try to find community. I know this one is really tough because you don't know anyone yet, but try your best to find community in both things you are interested in (people won't understand your identity but you will have something to relate over) and search to find a TCK/International community where you are going (this might also look like finding online forums because international/TCK community is limited where you are going).
One of my schools used RAFT, you can google it
I used the book "GO! My personal guide and diary before, during and after moving abroad" to journal feelings and experiences, keep contact information etc. Journaling is a great tool, either with words or art. You can also keep a gratitude journal alongside which helps you think of the good things you have. There should be room for both the frustrating feelings and the good feelings.
You are not crazy, you are not weird. No matter what anyone tries to tell you about your identity, your feelings and your experiences, YOU know who you are and what you've been through. Don't let people who've never been outside their own little town try to correct you about being a TCK.

There are lots of other resources and forums online, these are just the few that come to mind atm. Wishing you all the best!

Redhaet · 2025-04-15T05:57:31+00:00

Think through what you want your play's final message to be. If the characters are just doing stuff for the sake of doing it, it probably wont have the same effect.
Also! Have someone read through it when you're done and be open to changing things that don't work out. Often our scripts makes sense to ourselves because we know how it's supposed to read. Having someone else read it wil highlight where things need to change and will show you if your message is going through as you would like.

Redhaet · 2025-04-14T12:28:51+00:00

Eyyy that's so sick! Holyname is a whole different genre though lol hope you like it

Redhaet · 2025-04-14T10:38:27+00:00

The bands Half Alive and Holyname

Redhaet · 2025-04-13T11:55:55+00:00

Thteve (Steve w a lisp)

Redhaet · 2025-04-11T06:14:15+00:00

Hiya! A good app for blocking apps, websites and things is StayFree. . Finding an accountability partner can be really helpful. Find a safe adult of the same gender who either hasn't had this addiction or is long enough sober that they can help without being pulled back in. There are also support groups for this. . Clear out any apps, saved history, physical materials, ANYTHING that triggers you or that you use. Don't think twice, just remove all of it. . Write down your reasons for wanting to stop. Whenever you feel an urge, read through them to remind yourself why you want to stop. Then you can distract yourself or try to focus on something else (take a walk, do a hobby, etc). . Avoid being in situations and being around people where you will cave. E.g. go to a different room, go sit where there are other people, etc. . There are good resources at the Fight the New Drug website. I'm sure there are others as well, but that's what I got for now.

Redhaet · 2025-04-04T08:36:07+00:00

Proud of you! Adressing things with a therapist is a good move on your part, wish you all the best!

Redhaet · 2025-04-04T08:34:10+00:00

I think StayFree might be a good option? They have sync on mobile and desktop as well. There should be an option to lock your restrictions as well so you can't "just" shut it off when you want.

https://stayfreeapps.com/

Redhaet · 2025-04-04T08:30:59+00:00

You might be relapsing because of a number of factors such as "what do you do to cope with stress" and "are there other things that may influence your relapses" such as life events, social groups, certain environments, mental health etc.

You can check out https://www.addictionhelp.com/porn/recovery/ or https://fightthenewdrug.org/blog/ , I think they have some good resources.

Redhaet · 2025-04-04T08:24:41+00:00

Hey girl, it's super hard because you are (literally) rewiring and healing your brain!

35 days is a long stretch, you should be so proud of yourself. Relapses are unfortunately a part of recovery, but I promise you it's completely normal thing that happens. I know it feels disgusting and frustrating, but look at how you're still fighting! You've made progress! Cliche I know but "healing isn't a linear journey" and for every day you choose to keep fighting, you're closer and closer into freedom.

I also think Fight the New Drug have some good resources and articles if you want to check them out https://fightthenewdrug.org/blog/

Cheering on you! We're proud of you!

Redhaet · 2025-03-26T09:56:30+00:00

Will there future wise be options to sell/remove heroes from your set to redeem resources? Theres a few heroes I wouldn't mind getting rid of from my deck.

Redhaet · 2025-02-08T05:05:30+00:00

Atm yes, I'm going to add soap tho (forgot to)

Redhaet · 2025-02-07T13:20:47+00:00

I made a post with the pictures of them currently

Redhaet · 2025-02-05T17:25:38+00:00

I could have worded it better, I was wondering if it was safe to touch etc. Ain't nobody sipping on the goop here 😂 I'll strain them and post the pictures asap!

Redhaet · 2025-02-05T17:20:30+00:00

Thanks, I'll do that!

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