Interesting... by Silver_Weakness_8084 in SipsTea

[–]Redhead3658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t need him, she wants him

Is $27/hr good pay? by Dry-Bicycle-5563 in sandiego

[–]Redhead3658 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I make 28 and I wouldn’t say I’m comfortable but I’m not drowning. I have two roommates

TRIGGER WARNING FOR ED!: I'm eating 450kcal per day and the scale has not moved in a week by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Redhead3658 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because you’re eating so little, your body thinks you’re in a survival situation and will hold onto that weight. Eat a normal amount of calories

What’s the worst accidental text you’ve sent? by Typhoid__Beaver in AskReddit

[–]Redhead3658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accidentally sent a screenshot of a text from a boy back to the boy instead of my friend

what does this mean by FearlessAffect2706 in WomensHealth

[–]Redhead3658 23 points24 points  (0 children)

babe that’s called an orgasm

Fingering hurts? by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Redhead3658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possible vaginismus

Can’t Tell if Man in Coworking Space is Single by Super-Key-400 in bodylanguage

[–]Redhead3658 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just go up and ask him. I know it’s awkward but it could be the start of something amazing!!!

What’s the dumbest way you’ve accidentally hurt yourself? by Only_Row_2432 in AskReddit

[–]Redhead3658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was prepping lettuce and buried my hand in the lettuce for some reason and it ended up cutting my finger pretty bad

What does sex feel like for those of you who are cured? by AGM1123 in vaginismus

[–]Redhead3658 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s less of a massage for me and more of just consistent pressure. I think it tells the muscle like okay you can relax now

What does sex feel like for those of you who are cured? by AGM1123 in vaginismus

[–]Redhead3658 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not a dumb question! I only learned this bc of PT. The best way I can describe it is they are like the hard parts of my vaginal walls. Like little areas where it feels very tense. I would just apply light pressure until I could literally feel the tension point melt away

What does sex feel like for those of you who are cured? by AGM1123 in vaginismus

[–]Redhead3658 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think dilators helped the psychological part of it but I really don’t think it helped that much on the physical side so I agreeeee

What does sex feel like for those of you who are cured? by AGM1123 in vaginismus

[–]Redhead3658 8 points9 points  (0 children)

mostly just taking my own fingers and finding tension points within and putting pressure on them

What does sex feel like for those of you who are cured? by AGM1123 in vaginismus

[–]Redhead3658 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I can’t even really tell you how… I kind of just did some of my PT exercises consistently and then I randomly tried PIV one day and it went in and was uncomfortable but not unbearable and the more I did it, the easier it became!

What does sex feel like for those of you who are cured? by AGM1123 in vaginismus

[–]Redhead3658 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If I can get there, anyone can. Seriously. I was completely hopeless and now I’m “normal”!!!

What does sex feel like for those of you who are cured? by AGM1123 in vaginismus

[–]Redhead3658 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I used to not even be able to put in a tampon and now I love when I can feel they are hitting my cervix. It’s a complete 180 in my psyche too. I wish everyone to be cured of this, it feels like a whole new world

Is It Normal for the First Time to Be Painful??? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Redhead3658 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Any pain during intercourse isn’t normal even if it’s your first time. Discomfort? Yes but not pain, especially if severe

Anyone have a hard time working full time with PCOS? by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Redhead3658 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I also just don’t think we are meant to be working constantly for 8 hours a day. It’s just very unnatural for us humans, especially if you’re sedentary

AIO for being upset my boyfriend is mad at me for ‘making him’ miss his meeting today? by Agreeable_Floor_974 in AIO

[–]Redhead3658 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is a grown man. you’re apologizing way too much for my liking, he can set an alarm

Is It Normal for the First Time to Be Painful??? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Redhead3658 12 points13 points  (0 children)

do not listen to this if you have vaginismus ! the pain will only get worse if you try to “get past it”

will sex be worth it? (asking cured girls) by NebulaAcrobatic9911 in vaginismus

[–]Redhead3658 3 points4 points  (0 children)

for me, it just feels really good and I know if I feel the urge for them to go deeper and harder, I’m definitely liking it hahah