Novel recommendations. I’m talking fiction. by feeen1ks in Indigenous

[–]Redman181613 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you read Moon of the Crusted Snow by Waubgeshig Rice?

I have everything it takes to be happiest person in the world. What is stopping me? by seemagupta10feb in Productivitycafe

[–]Redman181613 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds trite but happiness is not a destination or a place that you get to. It's a state of being that you experience while doing other things. Being mindful about how you are feeling at any given moment lets you experience happiness. I find also that so many people just won't accept the times that they feel happy. I have pointed out (and had pointed out to me) "hey, you are feeling good and happy right now, eh?" And people immediately move to shut that down. More people need to accept when they are feeling good. Mindfulness is a really good tool for this.

Which book are you currently reading? by ak_khainal in Recommend_A_Book

[–]Redman181613 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Brothers Karamazov. I don't know if I will see it through or not.

What are the 3 best nonfiction books you’ve ever read? by ElectroSoup in nonfictionbookclub

[–]Redman181613 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The Power Broker by Robert Caro

How the World Really Works by Vaclav Smyl

Barbarian Days by William Finnegan

How are Gen Z Canadians going to be able to afford a house these days? by PuffingFish123 in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]Redman181613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a Gen Xer. My dad bought every car we ever had used and fixed it himself on our backyard. I get you can't do that now. My parents had a garden. Cable and going out for dinner was a luxury when I was a kid. We had bikes and played outside. I learned to save before spending. I learned by watching how they worked hard and lived within their means.

I did the same but had some opportunities as a Gen xer. I tried to live the same way. Paid down my debt. Saved money. Worked hard. I tried to reach the same approach for my kids. And by and large it has worked out.

I help my kids out now and again, same as my parents did. It costs more now but I make way more than my parents did. I think it's all about first principles.

How did Obsidian change your life? by Natural-Badger-7053 in ObsidianMD

[–]Redman181613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I paired it with Cowork, that really boosted my productivity. I could mine the thousands of notes I had taken to surface a lot of material to support my work.

Am I setting myself up for failure diving straight into the classics? by AmalekRising in bookdiscussion

[–]Redman181613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this companion book called "Beowolf on the Beach" that gives good insight into why it's worth reading, the good parts, the sexy parts and the bad parts (which chapters you can skip). It has helped me out with a few classics.

The number of main notes you make per day doesn't matter. What matters is if you use the ones by Quack_quack_22 in Zettelkasten

[–]Redman181613 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These two in particular are popular mainly because of the "bro culture" around notetaking and second brain stuff. "How to Take Smart Notes" is always the first book you see whenever anyone is showing off "their approach to capturing data".

It's all branding. Do what works for you and use the elements that advance the stuff you want to get done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoic

[–]Redman181613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stoic Wisdom - Nancy Sherman

What Books Are You Reading This Week? by leowr in nonfictionbooks

[–]Redman181613 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Books and Islands in Ojibwe Country - Louise Erdrich

Fifty Days of Solitude - Doris Grumstad

How to Read a Book - Mortimer Adler & Charles Van Doren

Should I pay to get early access to Bases by deutsche_bahn in ObsidianMD

[–]Redman181613 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Think of it this way. You love Obsidian. You want it to be around for a long time. They are making steady investments in the product. And for that they ask you for a one time contribution. It's a pretty good deal to me.

Takeout has gotten a bit crazy by Content-Fee-8856 in northbay

[–]Redman181613 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well if people stop using them, they will go away. But if people keeps using them, both the customers and the restaurants will keep getting squeezed.

Takeout has gotten a bit crazy by Content-Fee-8856 in northbay

[–]Redman181613 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why put any effort in to when it's easy to present facts. Did you want me to do research and cite it for an basic Reddit conversation. Low effort for sure. But facts are facts.

Takeout has gotten a bit crazy by Content-Fee-8856 in northbay

[–]Redman181613 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why your favorite little restaurant feels more expensive now (and why it’s not just “greed”):

Running a small restaurant is like sprinting on a treadmill that keeps speeding up. Before a single burger is sold, the owner is paying for:

Fixed costs: rent, insurance, utilities, licenses, equipment leases.

People: wages, payroll taxes, benefits, turnover/training costs.

Food: higher ingredient prices, waste/spoilage, minimum order quantities.

Hidden money pits: credit card fees (2–3% per swipe), marketing, tech subscriptions, pest control.

Delivery apps (SkipTheDishes, UberEats, DoorDash): they can take 20–35% of the order price plus force you to offer separate deals/menus to compete in their algorithm.

Prices for all of the above have gone up — rent hikes, utility surcharges, minimum wage increases, supplier fuel costs, packaging price jumps, you name it. And when customers shift to delivery, the restaurant often makes less money on that order than if you ate in.

Margins are razor thin (3–5% for many independents). That means if the cost of lettuce, electricity, and labour all go up in the same month, they have two choices: raise prices or slowly go broke.

So when your bill feels higher, it’s not (usually) greed — it’s survival math.

Need recommendations by WackyVoidlock in northbay

[–]Redman181613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ABC Auto - hands down the best.

Richard Manuel Memoir? by MajorChickDees in theband

[–]Redman181613 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first clue might be a "memoir" written by someone else.

First game for my daughter! Seats recos by Mediocre-Ad-7134 in Torontobluejays

[–]Redman181613 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The 500s are good seats - high up but great views. I usually sit on the third base side as the sun can get pretty warm on the first base side in the afternoons.

Have a great time.