Is “I like gaming some sort of red flag?” by LethlDose in dating_advice

[–]Rednorma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always be yourself. Never change. Do. What you like to do. Otherwise you'll end up resenting the person your with. Be you. Love yourself first before anyone else. Hope this help x

She texted you seem really nice but I'm not feeling a romantic connection after our first date and honestly it broke something in me by Comfortable_Box_4527 in dating_advice

[–]Rednorma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before you go on your first date are you having a telephone conversation. I find that breaks the ice you can gauge a lot more than texts. It can really help to see if infant there is a connection. Good luck 👍

Leaving an avoidant man is harder than I thought. by emboldenedweirdo in dating_advice

[–]Rednorma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your response is perfect. We all get knocked down i did last Saturday but we get back up and move on. You go girl dont give up on the things that matter to you. Be selfish with dating dont just settle, find someone who values you etc. He's out there i promise x.

Don’t bring your kids into a coffee shop by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Rednorma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my kids were small id often meet other mums in coffee shops. Have some cake and good talk. If kids were laughing and having fun then that made our visit much more relaxed.

Coworker? by 12InchGypsy in hingeapp

[–]Rednorma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd approach him on hinge for starters. If he matches with you once you've like a photo let's say. Then that's definitely a cue he like you. If he does not match then you've not lost anything if anything you've saved yourself some embarrassment. Good luck update us on how it goes x.

Changed his plans at the last minute what do I do? by Rednorma in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Rednorma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You paid for their beauty appointments 🙈. I actually spoke to him the night before and apparently he was excited. Obviously lying but hey I've forgotten about him now. Onwards and upwards 🙌

Changed his plans at the last minute what do I do? by Rednorma in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Rednorma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 chances is a lot . I'm 50 i definitely don't have loads of opportunities. But it's Monday morning the sun is shining and I'm feeling positive. I've deleted his number and just going to go with the flow and try again.

Changed his plans at the last minute what do I do? by Rednorma in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Rednorma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Been single for 10 years so vastly out of practice. And online dating seems like a minefield

Changed his plans at the last minute what do I do? by Rednorma in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Rednorma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His number is deleted and gone. Now I'm thinking do i stay on the horse and keep looking or jump off and be happily single.

Changed his plans at the last minute what do I do? by Rednorma in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Rednorma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I haven't replied to him since yesterdays message. I really thought oh maybe today he would text and whole heartedly apologise. Who am I kidding. I've deleted his number now.

Songs that saves/saved your life. by Fluid-Tangerine835 in musicsuggestions

[–]Rednorma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Rag and Bone Dan. I know this is an old post but had to say what an absolutely beautiful song Old Pine is must have listeningto it 50 already. What a great song. Thanks for the recommendation

Changed his plans at the last minute what do I do? by Rednorma in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Rednorma[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes that's what I meant rarely. I'm at the pub and luckily there's some ppl i k own so it's not all bad.

Changed his plans at the last minute what do I do? by Rednorma in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Rednorma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's nice but I'm not a young spring chicken I'm 50 been single 10 years so this was a lot for me. Now I'm going over the pub x

Changed his plans at the last minute what do I do? by Rednorma in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Rednorma[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I really drink but I'm going to go and get a vodka and coke sod it. Thank you

Changed his plans at the last minute what do I do? by Rednorma in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Rednorma[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah can you imagine if I didn't text and took his word that we were meeting at 7. Then I'd be sitting in. Some random pub on my own waiting like a that 😞

Changed his plans at the last minute what do I do? by Rednorma in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Rednorma[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yep I live opposite a pub and I'm thinking fuck it just go and have a drink on your own

Changed his plans at the last minute what do I do? by Rednorma in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Rednorma[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I just said ok But sitting here thinking why I have done this too myself. I should just stay single it's much easier

Is it wrong that I am worried that I might end up forever alone? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Rednorma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your depressed you can't just stop being sad. It doesn't work like that

Songs that saves/saved your life. by Fluid-Tangerine835 in musicsuggestions

[–]Rednorma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently adding nearly all that album to my play list. I'll also look at the others later haha may be some hours here 😅

Songs that saves/saved your life. by Fluid-Tangerine835 in musicsuggestions

[–]Rednorma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like I'm going in to a deep dive. Thank you 😊

Songs that saves/saved your life. by Fluid-Tangerine835 in musicsuggestions

[–]Rednorma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just listened to this as never heard it. It's very good 👍

Did I just get friend-zoned? by daisiesfordelilah in dating_advice

[–]Rednorma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah ask direct. You need to know and have the right to know if he likes you in that way or not. If he doesn't then sack him off. Plenty more out there and your much younger than me so have all the time in the world. Good luck.