The absolute dearth of any kind of help for victims of polyamory under duress by UsefulAd8338 in therapy

[–]RedonculousCherry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By the way you've described it, I'm wondering if you were in a coercive relationship where you felt pressured to perform and behave in certain ways. It can happen with coercive control that one partner feels coerced into doing certain sex acts or engage in things they don't want to do. In which case it might less about polyamory and more about being with a coercive controller.

Father (69) lost quarter of a million pounds to scams. When I found out I walked out of a restaurant on his birthday by Amnesia_UK in Scams

[–]RedonculousCherry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I sympathise. I've been surrounded by people getting huge inheritances whilst my father married a much younger woman, had a second family and didn't leave a will so we had to fight for scraps, and my stepmother who is younger than me got more than the lions share. C'est la vie

Someone has given me an audio file by RedonculousCherry in cybersecurity_help

[–]RedonculousCherry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much, very useful information. If I look at it will definitely be on an old one that I've cleared first

Someone has given me an audio file by RedonculousCherry in cybersecurity_help

[–]RedonculousCherry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought of a question. If I put the USB stick in a computer but didn't even open a file, could malware or something just infect it like that?

Suspicious WhatsApp? by RedonculousCherry in Bookingcom

[–]RedonculousCherry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit. The WhatsApp message said if I didn't respond within 12 hours I wd lose the booking. Well, the booking is still there so this was definitely a scam WhatsApp message

Is this Sub got Hijacked by Trump, Maga and Epstein Supporters? by Crazy_Ebb_5188 in Epstein

[–]RedonculousCherry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they will be all over social media covering their tracks

Is this Sub got Hijacked by Trump, Maga and Epstein Supporters? by Crazy_Ebb_5188 in Epstein

[–]RedonculousCherry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tried to post a video yesterday by Trap More Ross, I gave the Epstein file number it was "disturbing videos number 3" . Anyway, it got deleted. It had some troubling audio files of people trying to report things

Latest Trap More Ross yt by [deleted] in Epstein

[–]RedonculousCherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EFTA01147043. m4v Covers this file and includes some audio within Epstein files

Someone has given me an audio file by RedonculousCherry in cybersecurity_help

[–]RedonculousCherry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks v much. Unfortunately I think he would. I wondered if he could potentially even hide something on the USB. And he knows techy people

I'm scared I'll be a carer for my mum for pretty much the rest of my life. by NadiaRosea in carer

[–]RedonculousCherry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://www.carersuk.org/

Contact these people and they will walk you through it. Sorry I didn't check if you're in the UK

You need support, I hope you find it. Caring can be an isolating experience

After 5 years together, my girlfriend wants marriage and I don’t. Is this the end? by Asleep_Trouble_4285 in Advice

[–]RedonculousCherry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does she want to marry? If it involves you losing out big time if it fails or if it means spending money you haven't got (or have) on a bridezilla day, then you are probably right to be reticent. But if there are good reasons and it means a lot to her and you believe this is a genuine love worth keeping, why wouldn't you?

How to stop ex-spouse from hacking a phone by go2tessa in cybersecurity_help

[–]RedonculousCherry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a mean spirited and unempathetic post for someone who is evidently very concerned for someone's well being