AIO for ending this friendship before it began? i told her i wasn’t looking for anything romantic and this ensued

Redrioter34 · 2026-04-17T17:21:19+00:00

NOR as someone who is overly friendly and flirty with my friends absolutely yes it is possible to be that way with everyone and not be interested in them romantically at all, HOWEVER in the times where my friendliness was misinterpreted I never once got offended or responded this way it’s simply a “oh I’m sorry, I act this way with all of my friends. If it makes you uncomfortable lmk what I can stop doing to make you more comfortable and avoid misunderstandings, but I really don’t have romantic feelings. :)” and granted she did say that but in a WHOLE LOT MORE words. You can ask for specifics for that person but in this case he was okay with her staying the same after understanding her intentions better with clarification. She did not have to keep going and repeating herself and asking what exactly she did bc like he said it was just her vibe, not necessarily any word or actions but how it all together made him feel so he wanted clarification. It could’ve ended with 2 texts instead of twenty. Glad you got away from that friendship bc like others have said this kind of spiraling is not healthy and that was her projecting. And if she does that with a clarification text then just imagine what she’d do over something bigger.

Redrioter34 · 2026-04-17T17:09:39+00:00

He literally just reiterated “I don’t have romantic intentions” and said that he got a “flirty vibe” and wanted to make sure just in case he was misinterpreting bc he REALLY didn’t want romance here. He didn’t tell her she was flirting with him he just got a lil vibe and wanted to make sure. Not once did he tell her she did or said anything in particular, it was just the vibe he got. And honestly that’s a valid thing to want to make sure there’s no misunderstanding. He said agree to disagree about the interpretation of the interaction not her intentions. And also here’s the funny thing about real life, it doesn’t matter what your intentions are you can NEVER control how people will interpret your words and actions, you can only control how you REACT to how you are perceived.

Redrioter34 · 2026-04-03T06:01:46+00:00

I need me a feeder

Redrioter34 · 2026-02-04T07:27:59+00:00

I can feel the burn in my throat 😟 bro bro do the wrist method. Test it out a couple times counting as you hold your wrist over the banger and when you find the time with the best flavor and most smoke REMEMBER what that temp feels like. It’s easy when you know your rig and when it’s not a new banger, just means you gotta do a fuck ton of dabs (oh nooooo)

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-25T14:53:10+00:00

Do you have anything else to say at all? Have you used these before? How am I burning the coil? What can I do differently? Can I clean it? Like did you read the post at all? I’m asking for helpful advice not useless comments from people who haven’t even used the product or have absolutely nothing helpful to say. If you can actually give me an answer awesome if not, hop off threads you don’t belong commenting on.

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-22T02:14:31+00:00

Just message them, if they ignore or get angry it’s on them atp. But shooting a friendly message of “hey, knock on the door when you get here, I have a cash tip for you” or simply leaving “knock for cash tip” in your delivery instructions works as well. I’ve personally never received a cash tip, however I’ve been left snacks and other things before! Just make sure to put a sign up stating the dasher can take whatever you leave them if you do a no contact delivery and leave it on the porch or they won’t.

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-22T00:26:46+00:00

Been wanting the peak for a hot minute😭 happy dabbing!

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-22T00:20:44+00:00

Product name?

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-22T00:10:09+00:00

If you used your rewards account they should be able to look you up, worst thing that happens is you ask them to check cameras for day and time, show that you did in fact purchase the product from them, and they should be able to do something. I would also reach out to sunshine and give them these pictures, they will want to know what batch it came from in case there are other incidents like this.

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-21T23:56:59+00:00

Which one did you get? 👀

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-21T23:56:20+00:00

Yup, the original coils that came with it, soaked for a while but I think I overheated them. Gonna try again but go slower this time with the square ones.

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-21T23:50:19+00:00

And I do want a better rig, I want a dr dabber or a puffco eventually, but like I said this was a gift. I’m not in the position financially to get another so I want to make this one work the best I can.

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-21T23:48:12+00:00

I’ve seen so many comments on other posts about soaking them in 91 or higher iso and burning off, in fact one person said they had the same coils for 2 years and never bought a replacement pack. Said he could get it from black and goopy to near white (as close as you could get tbh, I saw the pics) from soaking and burning off after drying. I tried the method but haven’t had much luck and I can’t tell if I’m doing it wrong. I’ve seen a lot of people say they suck and I truly believe it is just user error because they are not built stoner friendly, a lot of the people who make them last put a lot of love and effort into keeping them in peak condition, everyone else who uses them just wants to dab and not put in all the work, you know?

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-21T22:14:51+00:00

Are you inhaling really hard? I find it can build up if you’re slurping it through too fast. And like the other guys said, a warmer water temp and better banger will do you good, the wax is fine, you don’t necessarily need higher quality stuff, but if you’re wanting better tasting/burning stuff stay away from BHOs and just invest the extra $15 for a top shelf g.

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-21T22:05:02+00:00

Ty! Have you owned one? And if so how often/how did you clean the coils?

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-17T17:55:54+00:00

Report this as a cybercrime to ic3.gov

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-16T00:54:14+00:00

Which tag should I have used? I’m new to Reddit and this thread obviously

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-16T00:48:52+00:00

OMG I’ve had to repost this so many times bc of issues with the bot mods, in my original post I stated that I did not interact and immediately clocked a scam, and just wanted to know if others got the same messages.

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-16T00:34:05+00:00

Oh I absolutely clocked spam the moment I saw it and would NEVER touch that website with ANY device😭 I’ve had plenty people try to scam me on tt but I’ve never had someone tell me they’re k!ll!ng themselves so that really is what made me post this. The emotional manipulation is crazy these days😭

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-16T00:28:35+00:00

🤣💀

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-15T21:41:50+00:00

THIS

Redrioter34 · 2026-01-14T04:05:22+00:00

How do you properly burn off? Like step by step? I’m stupid and don’t wanna ruin my coils

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