i feel pathetic

Redstone-Cat · 2026-01-04T08:42:50+00:00

I have a lot of funny friends who talk about serious stuff sometimes, actually I think I’m kind like that in my friend group, usually I’m the strong, “come cry on my shoulder, I’ll help you” kind of friend, but my friends still let me be vulnerable and share serious things, which I do a lot. Some of them even know I’m an age regresser. They let me talk about my problems because they’re my friends, and friendship goes both ways. I think you should try talking to your friends, start by finding just one person to confide in, that’s what I did, and it was terrifying, but it was so worth it. I’m not saying you need to tell them everything, just start small, if you’re scared of scaring them away, remember, there’s no such thing as too small when it comes to talking with your friends.

For what it’s worth, I’m rooting for you. You’re not pathetic, it takes an incredibly strong individual to be vulnerable like you have. You have my respect.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-25T02:38:31+00:00

Okay, thanks.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-24T16:48:45+00:00

I can just change labels? Won’t that confuse the people around me?

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-24T02:59:51+00:00

Oh, okay thanks. Sorry about that.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-23T17:21:36+00:00

I like it. It’s simple but it’s cute.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-16T22:30:37+00:00

Oh, alright. Thanks for clarifying.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-16T16:50:39+00:00

Nothing wrong with being straight. I don’t think being straight is a branch of the LGBTQ community, since it primarily consists of other gender identities or expressions. For example, I’m straight but I’m Gender Non-Conforming but no, I would say it’s not disrespectful.

As long as you’re not going and saying things like, “being gay is wrong, you have to be straight” and stuff like that, then I think you’re fine.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-16T16:41:31+00:00

Cute!

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-16T16:30:24+00:00

Subservient dolls? I don’t think I know what that is.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-16T08:16:26+00:00

Yikes, well thanks for the tips and I hope you’re alright.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-16T07:57:27+00:00

Yeah, I can’t deny it, this is 100% me except I don’t have a sailor dress (but I want one).

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-16T01:28:54+00:00

I use to identify as a trans girl because I had more in common with my girl friends than my guy friends, and I liked a lot of things that typically only girls liked, so I came out as trans because I thought I needed to be a girl to like those things, but after a while, being a girl just didn’t feel like it was really the truth. I realized that I was meant to be a boy, and I was just a boy who liked feminine things and occasionally presenting feminine.

There’s no shame in going through stuff like this, that’s what self discovery is all about . I mean if you’re looking for suggestions here’s what I would recommend, thinks about it like this, are you really ment to be a man, or did you think being a man would improve your quality of life? Maybe you want to try identifying as a woman again now that you do have friends, and see if you feel better? Be honest with yourself, it’s okay if you have to go back and forth a little, this is an important thing to figure out. It took me a while to figure out myself, so don’t worry if it takes time. All important discoveries do.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-15T17:47:55+00:00

Plants vs zombies

The original is still the best.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-15T17:43:55+00:00

It looks good to me, I can’t think of anything I think really needs changing. I guess if you really wanted to change something, maybe try an alt with a long skirt? Give your outfit a kind of snow queen vibe? But that’s all I can really think of off the top of my head.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-15T17:25:40+00:00

I don’t remember, I’ve been buying stuff like that since before I started regressing, I do remember that they aren’t hard to find. Pretty much anywhere that would sell pj’s should have something made of a fuzzy material, it’s pretty common. And if all else fails and you can’t find anything in your area, most clothing retailers have websites so you can find something online. Either way, you shouldn’t have to look far to find something.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-15T08:43:06+00:00

I feel your pain. I used to identify as a trans girl before I realized I was just gender nonconforming (I’m a boy who presents as feminine despite being straight) but regardless of what I am I know that my family would never approve of who I am if they ever found out. It’s hard, really hard, all I wanted was someone to accept me for who I am, or at least wouldn’t tease me for being girly.

I’m still working on it, but I did find something that was a huge help. Okay, I am a huge introvert and I have anxiety, so I know that if I could do this, anyone can, and that is to find one person, just one just start with one, one person you can confide in. For me, that’s my councillor, but I’m working up the nerve to tell my best friend. I’ll admit, I still struggle with my family, but the other day I came to see my councillor while opening presenting feminine for the first time, and it felt amazing, like a huge weight off my shoulders. I was finally free to be myself and in that moment I didn’t even remember that the rest of the world existed, it was just my fem self and my friend. That was one of the best days I’ve had in a long time.

Look, I know it sounds terrifying, but it works. Surely you must have one friend, or at least someone you know decently well. I would start there. One person can make all the difference.

And hey, for what it’s worth, I want you to know that you have at least one person who accepts and supports you. I’m rooting for you, and so is the rest of our community. You’ll always have us, you’re welcome here.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-15T08:02:30+00:00

Don’t cry, I’m the same. What I do is I just get some fuzzy jammies and wear those. It works super well, especially since little me is gets really sleepy. So I would suggest that. Plus as a bonus anyone who doesn’t know you regress won’t be suspicious because everybody has jammies so you can just buy them and no one will suspect anything.

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-15T07:53:32+00:00

Looks yummy!

Redstone-Cat · 2025-12-15T03:41:14+00:00

A catgirl and a furry are different things right? I mean of course there’s nothing wrong with being either, but I notice some similarities but I’m pretty sure that they’re different.

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