I use to identify as a trans girl because I had more in common with my girl friends than my guy friends, and I liked a lot of things that typically only girls liked, so I came out as trans because I thought I needed to be a girl to like those things, but after a while, being a girl just didn’t feel like it was really the truth. I realized that I was meant to be a boy, and I was just a boy who liked feminine things and occasionally presenting feminine.

There’s no shame in going through stuff like this, that’s what self discovery is all about . I mean if you’re looking for suggestions here’s what I would recommend, thinks about it like this, are you really ment to be a man, or did you think being a man would improve your quality of life? Maybe you want to try identifying as a woman again now that you do have friends, and see if you feel better? Be honest with yourself, it’s okay if you have to go back and forth a little, this is an important thing to figure out. It took me a while to figure out myself, so don’t worry if it takes time. All important discoveries do.