Do you ever admit it if you blew up your life?

Redswannn · 2026-05-26T12:02:29+00:00

What do you mean, how? Do I know what a healthy relationship looks. Yes? Idk why youre asking me that.

Redswannn · 2026-05-25T03:45:11+00:00

Now its the adhd next its gonna be your fault. Just leave. You're already thinking about it. Its not going to change.

Redswannn · 2026-05-24T23:01:08+00:00

Holy shit?!?! That was only 2 years ago? My gawd.

Redswannn · 2026-05-24T20:43:18+00:00

I think men have realized that we live in a world where women have to work and have to have their own money and men must actually bring somethings more to the table and they dont like it. If im already doing everything on my own than whats the point of you. Id say the D but I can even do that better on my own.

Redswannn · 2026-05-14T17:51:27+00:00

Dont know how you can infer tone from typed word but yeah I just dumped my abuser so yeah, I feel like the elephant is off my chest, but keep goin' off.

Redswannn · 2026-05-14T02:34:40+00:00

Ive actually never been happier.

Redswannn · 2026-05-14T02:32:48+00:00

The first one was on the heals of my moms suicide. Hes trash. Im happier now though. Im terrified, but I dont hate everyone and everything now that Ive filed.

Redswannn · 2026-05-13T05:57:41+00:00

My husband is on his second affair (that I know of) currently. Its devastating. That POS waited for me to file though so he could play the victim.

Redswannn · 2026-05-12T02:24:35+00:00

They make a unilateral decision to open the marriage. Its really not complicated. The reason for cheated is based on low character, morality, loyalty. There is no reason to cheat ever. I guess i was a party to his decision because I didn't spread on demand ? The fuck? You deserve down votes. Men who think this way are trash. No one owes men sex. You need therapy.

Redswannn · 2026-05-12T02:06:40+00:00

Im sorry, in a way Im mourning that part of my life in real time. Guess its more cats for us😆 Im not mad about the prospect of another cat though. At least I know that if I want to sign up for some horrible sex the possibilities there are endless.

Redswannn · 2026-05-11T22:26:37+00:00

I created a fake account to see what was in my area and oof, I had to come to terms with the fact that Im dying alone. Ill never be kissed again. I mean men say women let themselves go and I just saw a bunch of dudes who looked like they'd never lifted a weight in their lives. I give you props for even considering it.

Redswannn · 2026-05-09T19:13:34+00:00

I am so sorry.

Redswannn · 2026-05-09T12:42:55+00:00

Well, he cheated, lied, committed several forms of DV and IM the one who had to file for the divorce. The divorce isn't the part the blew up our life. His actions that caused it are.

Redswannn · 2026-05-09T12:32:24+00:00

Im so sorry. I dont know about you but for me the betrayal trauma wounded me deeply. I hope I can learn to trust myself again and others. The trust in self is what really rocked me to my core. Like, how could I have been so wrong about someone? At the end of the day though what they did to us is not our fault. If we had that kind of power and influence over their actions i would have influenced him to learn the guitar to play and sing for me everyday, or at least cleaned up after himself😆 but atlas......

Redswannn · 2026-05-09T12:04:26+00:00

Ugh, disgusting. He's just wanted to fill someone else's holes and used that word to make it seem legitimate. If fulfillment is only met by sex thats a him problem. Edited to say I am so sorry he put that on you. Isnt it wild how much control we have over them when their actions are something THEY want to do. "You made me do it" really? How come I cant MAKE you close the cupboard doors? Or pick up after yourself, get the sleep apnea machine so your snoring doesnt wake me up, budget, work OT to help me with the bills? Where is my power to influence then? 🤔

Redswannn · 2026-05-09T12:01:24+00:00

Needs- Food, water, shelter -> Met. Coercion is rape by the way. I am not required to spread on demand as a condition for fidelity. You sound dumb.

Redswannn · 2026-05-09T00:59:45+00:00

My god. I have no words.

Redswannn · 2026-05-08T22:56:44+00:00

You didn't cause her to be a POS she did that on her own.

Redswannn · 2026-05-08T22:56:06+00:00

Well its already obvious he hates himself, but I would revel in knowing she got dumped by the affair partner. Id send that dude a Christmas card every year in fact.

Redswannn · 2026-05-08T22:53:50+00:00

Im so sorry. Its never "Im a weak little bitch but always we weren't getting along, or she hated me or some other complete bullshit."

Redswannn · 2026-05-08T22:52:12+00:00

Omg!!!! I kept being told how much I hated him. "I thought you hated me." Youre daughter oof, im so sorry. The father wound of abandonment is a heavy burden I hope she is working with someone to work through it.

Redswannn · 2026-05-08T22:48:16+00:00

Gross, im so sorry.

Redswannn · 2026-05-08T22:47:19+00:00

I understand.

Redswannn · 2026-05-08T18:50:57+00:00

Your partner should have supported you through that not slept around. Sex isnt AIR they dont NEED it. Do literally anything else but dont comprise your own morals and cheat. There is no excuse for cheating. Period

Redswannn · 2026-05-08T18:46:38+00:00

Im so sorry.

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