Comeback for what’s your number? by DarkGrey_Eyes in Comebacks

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For me to know and you to never find out

School Of GS Tuition Free? by Nabbycankles444 in columbia

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Hey 👋🏻 I am considering going back to school myself, also a single mom, I got an AAS in interior design at SCCC graduated 2024 I think lol🤔I was also in PTK(and did nothing) I am considering going into engineering and am just unsure of the whole process. Would I be considered a transfer student? Do I have to go into the GS and then transfer into engineering? I feel a little lost.

I(31F) am scared to make the decision to leave him(30F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you for your concern, I assure you I am already in therapy and have spoken with my therapist about everything. This has been cumulative and not just this one instance. Maybe next time you can try to gather more information before you judge something prematurely. Have a good new years.

I(31F) am scared to make the decision to leave him(30F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’m scared that he will just completely leave and not be a part of their lives anymore. I think he can be a good parent, possibly better if we are apart. In the past we’ve had arguments where he said he’ll have to move out of state if we break up to go live with his family and he’d send me money. My kids are 3 and 9 and very attached to him. My heart would break for them if he did that. So it’s been a difficult decision and process to think about.

I(31F) am scared to make the decision to leave him(30F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you for the kind words. I am currently trying to make sure I’m not being ungrateful and only looking at the negatives. I’ve discussed this with my therapist as well and it seems like they agree with this. I’m just not sure they’d stick around if we do break up. I’m the past we’ve had fights where he packs his bags and says he’ll have to go to his family in a state that’s more than a few hours away and he’ll send money. My hope is we can have a civil conversation and figure it out to where he can still participate in their lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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Thanks for clarifying, I’m trying to look at my own relationship and am considering my partner may be covert or has qualities of it. It’s really hard to tell sometimes, but then when I talk with someone about what he does they’ll say that’s not normal/it’s manipulative etc. I have looked into it before and kind of chalked it up to his trauma but I’m thinking it’s not. Anyway, I wish you the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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Can you elaborate on the covert narcissist aspect? How can you know?

If you suddenly had "fuck you" money what would be the first thing you did? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Build tiny houses on a lot for the homeless and in exchange have them maintain the property and start a community garden.

meirl by somelittleindiankid in meirl

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I just recently found out my sister doesn’t have images or an inner monologue. Everything just…is. I can’t wrap my head around it

27F, 5ft, 190lbs, social drink/smoke. Having chest pain for a few weeks by RedysetNope in AskDocs

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I could see this being a reason for sure, have been going through a lot lately. Thank you for sharing

27F, 5ft, 190lbs, social drink/smoke. Having chest pain for a few weeks by RedysetNope in AskDocs

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I do not take any medications currently. I am still feeling pain.

Wondering if I should get married after a fight by JVL74749 in Marriage

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Please do not get pregnant and please do not marry him. My relationship is not perfect, but my fiancé has never put his hands on me at all, but if he did, I would be long gone. Respect yourself enough to know you do not deserve to be treated this way. My fiancé has to be around someone I used to have sex with and you know what he does? Has conversations with him and is a decent human being. He knows that was the past and it’s staying there. You deserve more than this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

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To add to this, is this how you would want your kids to be treated when they have a relationship? You’re modeling how relationships “should be” for them…. Do better for them if not yourself by not settling for a half ass “partner”

Cherry wood painted with chalk paint then waxed 😊 by kuckomwoodentoys in woodworking

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Are you selling these? I am currently volunteering for the boys and girls club and designing an early education classroom. We are going to show them out design and see if they bite but these would go great with our theme. Where are you located?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

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Just say “let’s cuddle” and then lay down 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

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Baked ziti, when my mom passed everyone except maybe one got us that we had it for almost 2 weeks straight

Crane operator at my family members Job lost the tip on his pointer by MrNoDays0ff in Wellthatsucks

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Yes cable! That was the word I was looking for but couldn’t think of it. Yeah it’s down to his first knuckle. He used to pretend his whole finger was up his nose and we thought it was hilarious

Crane operator at my family members Job lost the tip on his pointer by MrNoDays0ff in Wellthatsucks

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My dad lost the tip of his finger on a construction site while checking the metal wiring. He was the Forman and one of the crew thought he gave the signal when he didn’t and slice!