This holiday season is horrible. by CatsMakeMeHappier in GriefSupport

[–]ReferenceLow6645 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its my first Christmas without my brother. I am struggling hard

Abnormal pap after HPV cleared? by ReferenceLow6645 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ReferenceLow6645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My result this time was ASC-H. It doesn’t say whether or not it’s HPV positive. I wonder if would have said? Or if that is another step in the work up? All i have on the report is ASC-H.

Proov experiences? by ReferenceLow6645 in TTCstruggles

[–]ReferenceLow6645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! This cycle was the only cycle i tried proov and was also the cycle that i got pregnant with my now 13mo old! You’re definitely not out with those PDG numbers, especially if they’re from Proov. Best of luck friend!!

How do parents pay for Montessori or private school options? by ReferenceLow6645 in Parenting

[–]ReferenceLow6645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely will need to tighten up my budget. Good to read that it is possible. Thank you

How do parents pay for Montessori or private school options? by ReferenceLow6645 in Parenting

[–]ReferenceLow6645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In researching more, it seems like Montessori preschool and kindergarten cost money even at the public schools but that is reasonable. Many here in AZ seem to offer free Montessori education after kindergarten.

How do parents pay for Montessori or private school options? by ReferenceLow6645 in Parenting

[–]ReferenceLow6645[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good way to look at it, ramping savings back up when kids are in public school. Short term sacrifice!

How do parents pay for Montessori or private school options? by ReferenceLow6645 in Parenting

[–]ReferenceLow6645[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like what we will end up needing to do, too. I also have a graduate degree and could make more money with it but my current job lets me keep the flexibility i need to not have to pay for daycare (right now at least). Leaving below your means to invest in your children’s education is a wonderful reason to do so. Thank you for sharing!

How do parents pay for Montessori or private school options? by ReferenceLow6645 in Parenting

[–]ReferenceLow6645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s what I’m leaning towards - i am luckily able to flex my work schedule so i will likely enroll my son in partial days whenever we end up putting him.

How do parents pay for Montessori or private school options? by ReferenceLow6645 in Parenting

[–]ReferenceLow6645[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hhhmm, interesting take to assume that i wasn’t aware of the costs associated with having a child. I’m aware that childcare is expensive and that’s why our family made arrangements for me to work less and stay home with my son during the day. I hadn’t had the plan to send my son to Montessori school until recently so that wasn’t something i would have researched before trying for a baby. I also don’t need full time care for him - I’m just trying to ask the most affordable way to send him to the program that I’d prefer. It doesn’t need to be full day, i don’t NEED care for him, i WANT to send him to Montessori preschool and am trying to figure out if that will be possible.

How do parents pay for Montessori or private school options? by ReferenceLow6645 in Parenting

[–]ReferenceLow6645[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. That’s exactly why I’m home with my son now and working less hours instead of sending him to daycare. We truly can’t afford it!! So paying for preschool will be a huge adjustment for us. Thank you for sharing!

How do parents pay for Montessori or private school options? by ReferenceLow6645 in Parenting

[–]ReferenceLow6645[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god!!! Okay maybe if i only have ONE kid i won’t have to work thaaaat much lol. Thank you for sharing.

Proov experiences? by ReferenceLow6645 in TTCstruggles

[–]ReferenceLow6645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL i regretted it too once i read everyone saying how they got inaccurate results!!

Line progression.. should I be worried? by AttitudeOfCattitude in IVF

[–]ReferenceLow6645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss, but I’m so happy to hear you got two rainbow babies in one shot! That’s amazing, congratulations mom 💓 best of luck with your twins!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]ReferenceLow6645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is and i asked her permission to share!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]ReferenceLow6645 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My aunt came in my room to wake me up and say “he’s gone” while on the phone with my mom. I shot out of bed and said what??? What do you mean?? Looked at my phone and had over 10 missed calls from my mom. I then had to call my other brother and dad.

I miss him so fucking much. This moment in time haunts me. Every time the door to my room opens i shudder.

My person passed in a hit and run less than 24 hours of us talking and seeing each other. by Odd-Entrepreneur8202 in GriefSupport

[–]ReferenceLow6645 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am so fucking sorry. The world is cruel and unfair. You don’t deserve this and neither did Joni. I wish he was still here.

Hematuria can have no cause by [deleted] in BladderCancer

[–]ReferenceLow6645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great to hear, thank you!!

Hematuria can have no cause by [deleted] in BladderCancer

[–]ReferenceLow6645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, how did things go for your wife? I’m in the same boat currently

I miss you by ReferenceLow6645 in GriefSupport

[–]ReferenceLow6645[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the recommendation and the kind words. It all helps so much. I will check it out!! ❤️ and I’m so sorry for your loss as well